Not exact matches
But it's not
long before her underwritten life (she has no job or friends) and Calvin's jealousy and
fear of abandonment kick in, and he's back at his typewriter literally changing her.
The difference between a narcissistic and borderline personality organization is simply that the borderline personality directly and continuously experiences this fundamental self - inadequacy and
abandonment fear, which leads to tremendous ongoing disruptions to self - identity and problematic affect regulation, whereas the narcissistic personality has created a psychological defense
of grandiose self - inflation against the experience
of core - self inadequacy and
abandonment fears, thereby allowing for greater superficial self - cohesion and superficial affect regulation (as
long as the narcissistic defense holds).
«The conceptualization
of the core pathology
of BPD as stemming from a highly frightened, abused child who is left alone in a malevolent world,
longing for safety and help but distrustful because
of fear of further abuse and
abandonment, is highly related to the model developed by Young (McGinn & Young, 1996)... Young elaborated on an idea, in the 1980s introduced by Aaron Beck in clinical workshops (D.M. Clark, personal communication), that some pathological states
of patients with BPD are a sort
of regression into intense emotional states experienced as a child.
These layers, also known as a «false self» were erected
long ago to avoid painful issues such as
abandonment, rejection,
fear of intimacy, boundary violations and other forms
of suffering.