Love is gratitude: it is thankfulness for the existence
of the beloved; it is the happy
acceptance of everything that he gives without the jealous feeling that the self ought to be able to do as much; it is a gratitude that does not seek equality; it is wonder over the other's
gift of himself in companionship.
God accepts whatever we bring to the God / person relationship — our physical and spiritual condition, personality, connection to reality, our participation in relationships, talents, inabilities, cognition, knowledge, ignorance, life journey, spiritual journey, walk about, wandering, seeking, questioning, questing,
acceptance of God, rejection
of God — and our emotional and mental status: hate /
love, anger / peace, sadness / happiness, hurt / health, feeling lost and abandoned / feeling found and included, agitation / serenity, apathy / passion, confusion / clarity, fractures / wholeness — all
of this, all
of whoever we are and have ever been and every action committed or ever contemplated and every thought we ever explored or entertained or that flitted through our mind — all
of this, we bring to the God / person relationship and God accepts the totality
of who we are and every component that comprises who we are — as a
gift.
There was also the widespread
acceptance of the notion that to successfully work with a dog demanded a knack or special
gift, a belief that prevents many
loving owners from ever succeeding.