What counts in
making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility.
I'll teach you how to experience healthy conflict, drawing upon the ideology of literary giant, Leo Tolstoy, who wrote, «What counts in
making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility.»
Back to Tolstoy's brilliant insight: «What counts in
making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility.»
A wise Russian novelist once said, «What counts in
making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility.»
Not exact matches
While you might not be ready yet, one study found that
marriage is a major factor in
making people
happier in the long run.
If they are all adult and do not engage in the act of marrying children, and if plural
marriage works for them and
make thems
happy, what possible difference does it
make to anyone else?
Maggie Gallagher has been
making eloquent, sophisticated arguments proving simple (some would say self - evident) truths for years now:
Marriage is good for spouses, children, and society at large; or, in her words, married people are
happier, healthier, and better off financially.
At the same time,
marriages and families have become essentially emotional and egalitarian relationships rather than institutional and hierarchical ones, Thus, when
marriage and family fail to satisfy, when they do not
make all members feel «
happy» and «fulfilled,» then these arrangements begin to dissolve, or at least to be regarded as needing repair.
It's always easy to find a friend who will encourage you to do whatever
makes you
happy, but a friend who will dig in and fight for your
marriage is rare indeed.
As women share decision
making in
marriages, it leads to
happier and more stable
marriages that experience less abuse (ethics) according to research by Prepare / Enrich.
look if you believe in gay
marriage that's on you, but don't ask me to give up what i believe just to
make you
happy.
Nothing can
make me
happier than seeing those whom I love be
happy and free from the pain that they had been under for the last 3.5 years... I do deeply regret that I hid from the public the abuse that I have lived with for most of our
marriage and I ask your forgiveness... Three months ago Saeed told me things he demanded I must do to promote him in the eyes of the public that I simply could not do any longer.
Gay
marriage hurts no one, and would
make that segment of of our nation
happy.
The point is that
marriage has a higher goal than to
make two people
happy or even whole.
A better counselor than I probably could have given him a miracle cure and
made their
marriage all
happy again.
Also now he said this about gay
marriage — if it
makes people
happy then let them do what
makes them
happy.
If you were happily married and that
marriage led to an increased sense of well - being, would you want to know if your spouse was cheating on you, even if that knowledge would
make you less
happy and act in perhaps unhealthy ways?
But since that
make this an obtacle or the main reason for a
happy marriage it still
makes problems in a
marriage.
Sometimes the interplay of ingredients and flavors
make for a
happy marriage in the mouth.
«The fact that there was a beer style
made for the month meant it was a
happy marriage,» Zeender says.
We really are much
happier both personally and in our
marriage if we
make an effort to touch each other every day.
A divorce among those close to us
makes us feel vulnerable, and we question our own
marriage — if a couple we thought were perfectly
happy together splits, well, what about us?
I know the secret is to be
happy with yourself and I am lucky in that I always have been — probably one of the biggest issues in my last
marriage because he wanted me to
MAKE him
happy.
I wish it were as simple as that, but it appears to be much more complex; even
happy people with fulfilling lives can marry and find out that they
made a mistake — and then feel trapped in a
marriage that crushes their spirit.
But it
made sense to include it; not only is it the only other legal
marriage license in the U.S., albeit in just three states (Louisiana, Arkansas and Arizona), but research indicates couples who enter into it are
happy.
And we also can't predict how having kids will impact the
marriage; there's research on how having kids doesn't necessarily
make us
happy (especially in the first few years), but we don't talk about what having an mentally ill or developmentally disabled child will do to a
marriage.
It was also the time of Father Knows Best and Leave it to Beaver on TV, when women weren't supposed to have any aspirations beyond
making sure they had a
happy and satisfying
marriage.
Actually
marriage does not «
make» people
happy;
happy people tend to marry).
Why should we care how other people chose to set up their
marriage if it
makes them
happy?)
I'm not sure that pessimistic vows will prevent infidelity or
make for a
happier marriage, but I do think we need to be very aware of what we're vowing to — which, of course, is the whole purpose of The New I Do.
Astro: If they go through the process of asking whether
marriage is working for them without the fear and shame that the sacred cows produce, they'll still probably have some soul searching to do and maybe a lot of pain to go through, but it would be less than it would be otherwise and they'll probably end up in a
happier place if they can
make that decision free of that fear.
About 93 percent of us say faithfulness is a must to
make a
marriage successful — even more so than having a
happy sex life, sharing household chores, and having similar passions and interests.
People who are unhappy and expect
marriage to
make them
happy are bound to be disappointed.
What I've read is that
marriage makes men
happier, not women.
Why do women still marry when, if statistics are to be believed,
marriage doesn't
make them very
happy?
Despite some literature uses phrasing that insinuates
marriage itself
makes people
happier, the real claim is that a «healthy»
marriage allows for higher levels of life satisfaction.
So my question is, do you think a
marriage or a relationship / friendship like that could work if both are open and upfront about the terms and boundaries of the relationship, and both are content to cohabitate (sic) in an arrangement like this because we
make each other
happy and we love each other in our own way, but we're not in love with each other?
We're so focused on raising our kids, taking care of them and
making sure they're
happy, that we often neglect one of our most important relationships: our
marriage.
The idea is that to maintain a
happy marriage, the wife should put her husband first and allow him to
make all of the decisions.
Q: The thinking has been that it isn't
marriage that
makes people
happy;
happy people marry.
When I ended my
marriage, I
made a very conscious decision that I had had enough of relying on others to
make me
happy and of giving to the point of personal exhaustion.
She is sure this will perk up her
marriage and
make her husband
happier.
(p.s. — I have learned that after a beautiful wedding and a crappy
marriage where the husband left me for someone else; then a small wedding in a black dress that has
made me
happy....
But we talked a lot about our
marriage today and we stated that maybe especially this has
made our relationship so
happy and strong.
I realize that two years of
marriage doesn't
make me an expert or anything, but that doesn't mean I haven't learned a thing or two about what it takes to be a good partner and to build a strong, meaningful and
happy marriage.
The key to
making a second
marriage work is dealing with your emotional baggage, staying optimistic, and striving for a balanced,
happy relationship.
Talking about
marriage doesn't
make you look open to possibilities it
makes you look like a psycho,
happy to take the first offer that comes her way.
Some of her favorites... «A lady, young, pretty, bright and poor, desires to
make the acquaintance of a man with the opposite qualities with a view to a
happy marriage.»
Its messaging stuck: «Women Who
Make First Move in Online Dating Are Rewarded,...
Marriages that start through online dating are
happier... — Oct 18, Read More...
We hope that time lead on our site to
make you
happier and you will find your Russian or Ukrainian sexy, pretty and beautiful bride for
marriage, romantic meetings and dating.