(b) I think that parents that want to get rid of
nighttime feeds (with a toddler, not a baby) or that want to discourage nighttime play time can do it by being firm about it being time to sleep, without that necessarily meaning leaving their baby alone to cry to sleep.
With regards to getting up to eat versus getting up for play time: (a) A lot of the CIO methods out there are designed specifically as a way to get rid of
nighttime feeds.
# 6 — Throw
your nighttime feeding schedule out the window: By the first time we went camping with our son, he was happily sleeping through the night at home.
Keep the room dimly lit for
nighttime feedings and also keep stimulation (talking, singing, etc.) to a minimum.
Furthermore,
nighttime feedings can be a great time of bonding for your partner and baby that they might not otherwise get to experience.
This worked wonderfully and my 3 year old gets 11 - 12 hours at night and my 10 year old got 7 - 8 hours straight before
a nighttime feed.
Being a new mom with my first child I was (I think now) almost obsessed with checking how many hours it was between
the nighttime feedings and how long they took.
Missing regular
nighttime feedings will have an immediate and negative impact on milk production.
Do this even if you don't want to or can hand over the first
nighttime feeding to dad.
I would recommend to start trying at
nighttime feedings when baby is sleepy.
You need
the nighttime feedings just as much as they do to keep your supply up.
Many moms find that it helps to have baby nearby in a bassinet or a co-sleeper for
nighttime feedings.
Biggest mistake at this age: Continuing with
nighttime feeds.
One of the most important things to get right to help your baby to sleep through the night is
the nighttime feeding.
See our article on
nighttime feeding for sleep.
They insist that it promotes breastfeeding, by giving mothers easier access to their babies for
nighttime feedings, and making it easier for her to rest between feedings.
Whether it's a nursing tank and yoga pants, or a cute nursing nightgown, sleep in something comfortable that allows easy access to your breasts for
those nighttime feedings.
See the article on
nighttime feeding and sleep for more on how to handle this problem.
Nevertheless, there are signs your baby will display to show you he or she is ready to drop
the nighttime feeding (s).
He never went through the pooping at every feeding stage which made
nighttime feedings so much easier!
Interestingly, the ratios of each of the components change throughout the day to offer the most energy during the daylight hours and the highest concentrations of sleep - inducing nucleotides during
nighttime feeding, so if a mama is pumping and storing breastmilk, it's important to label the time of day the milk was pumped to avoid giving the more stimulating daytime milk at night!
Some babies take in a lot more food than parents believe in
the nighttime feedings.
When
nighttime feedings are eliminated after successful sleep coaching, a child starts to eat better during the day.
Your baby is able to take more during feedings, and that, in turn, will have him or her sleeping longer between
nighttime feedings.
Nightlight: One of these inexpensive lights will allow you to get through
nighttime feedings and diaper changes without having to switch on a light and completely awaken your sleepy baby (and yourself).
Go to bed early when the babies take their longest stretch of sleep, and see if your partner can help with at least one
nighttime feeding.
I currently use the gas drops at
nighttime feedings, and gripe water in the day.
, I've asked my husband to handle
nighttime feedings and diaper changes so I can pump and minimize the amount of time I have to be awake so I can be more alert during the day.
So, once I started following the plan in March, I knew roughly how many days to spend on each step of the process as well as what to focus on first (namely schedule changes, sleep associations and bedtime) and last (think extending
the nighttime feeding gaps).
Pre-portioned bottles are also helpful at night when you are still waking up as you are preparing
the nighttime feeding.
If you're concerned about whether or not you need to cut back on
nighttime feedings at this time, be sure to speak to your child's pediatrician.
A baby nurse will do
nighttime feedings for bottle feeders while the new mom rests.
At 8 weeks old, we still expect
nighttime feedings, especially if you are breastfeeding, so your goal in the early days is to help your twins learn to lay flat and be put down semi-awake to get themselves off to sleep.
It worked out great because our son was still able to have his own space, especially during
nighttime feedings.
My baby nurses before solid foods at 8 am, 12 pm, and 4 pm and has
a nighttime feeding at 7 pm before bed at 8 pm.
It can even happen if feedings get thrown off by an hour or two, especially when your baby starts (gloriously) sleeping through the night and therefore skips
the nighttime feed.
One thing I think you should do is to cut down on
the nighttime feeding as fast as you can (if she still does get milk at night).
Nurse baby at her usual
nighttime feeding and then put her in her car seat ready for bed.
Keeping your babies nearby at night can help
the nighttime feeding process go more smoothly, especially if you're breastfeeding.
Most moms» milk doesn't come in until then and
nighttime feedings can seem a little more scary without the extra support.
If you've gone back to work and find your milk supply decreasing,
a nighttime feeding can help you maintain a good level of milk supply.
So without the precious
nighttime feedings, your supply won't be as full during the day.
In case you find yourself wishing you could skip
the nighttime feedings altogether, remember that they're crucial to both your baby's health and your milk supply.
But, despite how it feels at two a.m., it's possible to find tips to get through
nighttime feedings with your baby that will make the process easier (though not easy.
Eventually, when your baby is old enough to cut out
nighttime feedings, you'll know.
If your baby's at least 4 to 6 months old, you can probably begin to wean her from
nighttime feedings.
They gradually started putting 4 hours between
nighttime feedings, then 5, then 6, then 8!
It turns
nighttime feedings into an ordeal which eventually leads to moms giving up breastfeeding too soon.
I was a human ping pong ball, bouncing back and forth between babies during
nighttime feedings.
You can break your baby's association between the bottle and bedtime by slowly reducing and finally stopping
his nighttime feedings.