Do you dream of
a marriage with less conflict and more intimacy?
Not exact matches
Those couples who have realistic expectations of one another and their
marriage, communicate well, use
conflict resolution skills, and are compatible
with one another are
less at risk for divorce.
Marriages with high
conflict and domestic violence were
less likely to become happy five years later.
Dr. Michael McNulty, a master trainer from The Gottman Institute and founder of the Chicago Relationship Center, tells Business Insider maintaining a marital friendship, romance, and intimacy, managing ongoing
conflict that is inevitable in
marriage, and creating and maintaining a meaningful relationship is more challenging for partners
with successful careers because they have
less time to do so.
Research by Dr. John Gottman — who spent sixteen years studying what makes
marriages thrive and fail in his «love lab» at the University of Washington and who famously possesses the ability to predict
with over 90 % accuracy whether a couple will end up divorcing based on watching them interact for just 15 minutes — found that happy couples don't necessarily have
less conflict in their
marriage than unhappy ones.
Spouses who weren't getting as much sex as they desired were
less satisfied and thought about ending their
marriages more often, had
less positive communication
with their partners, and reported more
conflict.
Some studies have looked at things like coping processes, 2 attachment styles3 and capacity for forgiveness4 as factors that may influence
marriage longevity, in other words, maybe couples that know how to cope
with (and recover from)
conflict better, or are not particularly insecure, or are better at forgiving are
less likely to suffer when their
marriages face the inevitable arguments that all couples face.
With less time together, Dr. Mike McNulty, a Master Certified Gottman Therapist, says maintaining a marital friendship, romance, and intimacy; managing ongoing conflict that is inevitable in marriage; and creating and maintaining a meaningful relationship is more challenging for partners with successful care
With less time together, Dr. Mike McNulty, a Master Certified Gottman Therapist, says maintaining a marital friendship, romance, and intimacy; managing ongoing
conflict that is inevitable in
marriage; and creating and maintaining a meaningful relationship is more challenging for partners
with successful care
with successful careers.
Dr. Michael McNulty, a master trainer from The Gottman Institute and founder of the Chicago Relationship Center, tells Business Insider that maintaining a marital friendship, romance, and intimacy, managing ongoing
conflict that is inevitable in
marriage, and creating and maintaining a meaningful relationship is more challenging for partners
with successful careers because they have
less time to do so.
The main results show that (a) mothers promote family integrity in stepfamilies either
with the partner, or
with the father, but not
with both; (b) the older the child, the
less the mothers reported integrity
with the father in both families, and the more they reported disparagement against the partner and
conflict with the partner in stepfamilies; and (c) maternal marital satisfaction is linked
with all dimensions of coparenting
with the father in first -
marriage families, but only
with disparagement against the partner and
conflict with the partner in stepfamilies.
Mothers in high
conflict marriages are reported to be
less warm, more rejecting, and use harsher discipline, and fathers withdraw more and engage in more intrusive interactions
with their children compared
with parents in low -
conflict marriages (Heatherington and Stanley - Hagan, 1999; Krishnakumar and Buehler, 2000).