Generally,
a midwife comes to your home to assist and ensure the health and safety of you and your baby.
In other countries, such as Germany,
a midwife comes to your home once you return from the hospital to provide you and your newborn with additional support.
Mothers might consider having
a midwife come to their home or perhaps complete the delivery process at the hospital.
Not exact matches
Perhaps it does all
come down
to money, but if that really were the case, then why wouldn't my insurance company reimburse me a measly $ 2000 (relatively speaking)
to cover my prenatal care,
home birth, and postnatal care that I had with a
midwife for my son's birth in 2006?
I had lots of help: dh was not working at the time and was committed
to helping me 24/7 and was 100 % supportive; mil is a IBCLC and would drop everything and
come to our
home if we called her; my
midwife was passionate about breastfeeding, visited me ever other day, sometimes every day; I saw Dr. Jack Newman regularly until my son was 8 weeks old.
If labor stalls, you don't get pressured
to be induce or told
to go
home; you just go
to sleep and the
midwife gets
to be the one that
comes and goes as needed.
I
came to the conclusion that it is perfectly safe for a healthy woman with a normal pregnancy
to deliver at
home with an experienced
midwife.
I think Dr Amy's anger
comes from reading story after story about preventable deaths, and preventable permanent injury
to infants, month after month, and having the
home - birth advocates here in the USA simply ignore the very real risks of homebirth with an uneducated «
midwife».
After my first 24 hrs at
home with my new born daughter and exclusively breast milk, the first time the
midwife came to my house she said
to give her a bottle.
Birth Support: The
Midwife will
come to your
home or meet at the hospital
to labor with as planned during our prenatal sessions.
If you are cared for by a
midwife they
come and assess you at
home when you go into labor even if you are planning on a hospital birth (unless you choose
to go right in and meet them there but most
midwife clients want
to be at
home as long a possible from what I understand).
Your
midwife, health visitor and a local breastfeeding counsellor can give you support over the phone or
come visit you at
home to show you some useful techniques.
Maybe it was a mistake that your wife made
to make those postings public, but something good has
come out from it because these stories, even though it's painful
to be written about, these stories need
to be told, because the
midwives and
home birth community are not talking about these risks.
around midnight i began
to question my decision
to have a
home birth, & maria was getting tired... she called in a second
midwife for support & my doula arrived from another birth... i was afraid of the power - i hadn't felt it like this in kayenn's birth... i was afraid that i would
come apart - even though i had
to - i know now that
coming apart is a part of the process... someplace in the middle of this birth i realized that i did not know how
to do this - i was acting against the birth process - literally & emotionally... i had a mental idea of what it should look, sound, smell, be like... after some hours maria checked me again, i had been at 9 cm for 4 hours... she said
to me, «some babies can
come through at 9 cm, but yours will not, sokhna... sokhna, you are going
to have
to fight
to bring this baby out... go into the bathroom, get in the shower & work it out... «so i did... i went in the cold bathroom alone & remembered every cold detail of kayenn's birth... i wondered if i could get
to the hospital on time
to have an emergency c - section & i began
to cry... & as i cried i had
to go
to the bathroom - i sat on the toilet & the rushes
came down like nothing i can explain - but they didn't hurt - it was just POWER!
And none of those things even
come close
to what it must feel like if you are
home with your laboring wife, and an incompetent
midwife and suddenly the
midwife starts cursing and freaking out, and you can see from where you are standing something is wrong, the baby's feet are
coming first, and too much blood, and your wife is screaming in agony and you can't remember how
to dial 911.....
We take
home birthing classes
to teach us how
to do it, and we're gonna have our
midwife and when the baby's head
comes out he's gonna be Dr. Wiz.
Some
midwives will
come to your house
to do a
home birth.
We monitored my BP for another week, but when we realize that it wasn't
coming down my
midwife and I had a heart
to heart about the fact that I likely wasn't a good candidate for a
home birth.
Inspired by the
home birth of his son (which also included a
midwife and birth doula), he created The Dadvocate in 2014
to help dads (and moms) be educated and informed about the many decisions and dynamic changes that
come with pregnancy and birth, all the while using humor and raw insight
to show the birth world and parenthood from a dad's point of view.
But some couples just seem
to have it down - still don't believe me - check out what Suzanne Su'a from Croydon, England shared on Facebook: «I had a
home birth with my husband delivering the baby, meanwhile our
midwife was buzzing urgently
to come in
to help.
Mamas who have
midwives for either a birth center or
home birth seem
to have the most choices when it
comes to prenatal care.
So much research has
come to show that
home births and
midwives are the way
to go health wise.
Family support was crucial for Nicki, who struggled
to get her son, Cruz,
to continue
to breastfeed after they
came home from hospital, despite the continued support she received from her
midwife.
Since I wanted a
home birth, my
midwife also
came to my house for one of our visits & we got
to discuss how I wanted
to labour, who I wanted present at the birth, what my ideal situation would be as well as what my preferences were for things like episiotomies (no thank you!)
For the first little while, you'll probably have
midwives and health visitors
coming to your
home to keep an eye on you and baby, and ensuring baby is gaining weight nicely.
If you are planning a
home birth and suddenly find yourself in labor when you're 6 months pregnant, do you go
to the nearest hospital with a NICU or do you call your
home birth
midwife to come over and deliver the baby.
Women were BUILT
to give birth, OBGYNs are glorified surgeons, oh a BTW what about leaving sponges inside women, and all kinds if issues that
come with surgery, and the fact that a hospital is full of germs and sick people, where as at
home its the same environment moms been in the whole pregnancy... Hospitals smeared
midwives when they first started cutting babies out, and they continue
to do it, I wouldn't be surprised if they lied about the stats
Not matter what a
midwife says, you call the shots during your delivery and can request
to have your care transferred at any time - whether that means having a doctor
come in an check on you, or in the event of a
home birth, be transferred
to the hospital.
On the way
home, I called our doula and our photographer and
midwife and made plans
to have them all
come over at their various times that they could make it (from being out of town or whatever).
During the active stage of labour you should move
to your place of birth, or have your
midwife come out
to you if you're having a
home birth.
Midwives can tell a lot by talking
to you on the phone in early labour (from your breathing, voice etc) and if you are planning a hospital birth, she will probably suggest you stay at
home until your contractions are
coming frequently and your labour is established.
It is often easy
to come up with an extensive list of questions when you are considering a
home birth with a
Midwife.
When it
comes to your options, Tulsa Family Doulas are very familiar with the local hospitals and OBs and equally familiar with the local
home birth and birth center
midwives.
She comments, «My first
home birth was unattended because the obstetrician with whom my CNM had a practice agreement would not support the
home birth plan and would not allow my
midwife to come to me.
Most
midwives will give you a
home birth kit
to keep at
home 4 - 6 weeks out from your expected due date so you'll be ready in case baby decides
to come early.
Whatever my ego might gain from any prestige or exposure associated with a gallery show seems lost in the soul - satisfaction that
comes of
midwifing my art from start
to finish, including sending the work
to a new
home with a collector I know.