It is very encouraging and I am glad I'm not the only
mom nursing her child past 2 (especially amid a ton of criticism here)!
Not exact matches
The problem is scoliosis presents itself during a time when well -
child visits tend to fall off, around ages 10 - 15, says Molly Grant, a certified
nurse practitioner at Shriners Hospitals and an Oak Park
mom.
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding makes a happy
mom, bottlefeeding
moms,
moms and doctors and
nurses telling new
moms that formula is «just as good» and «not to feel guilty», women getting «the look» for
nursing in public, or feeling weird about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around
children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
While I decided to focus primarily on older
children in this post, many women on Twitter chimed in that they are
nursing their kids to age two as well, including: Reiza at Stepping Off the Spaceship, Summer at Wired for Noise,
Mom Most Traveled, Annie at PhD in Parenting, Sherri at Recovering Sociopath, and Sara (who was breast - fed herself until age 4 1/2) at Custom - Made Milk, among others.
I think if we could increase awareness about the option of partial weaning, then we would be able to increase the toddler and possibly preschooler
nursing rate in Canada and allow
child /
mom pairs to
nurse until they are ready to stop, rather than until an artificial deadline.
If you do your research, you would find that the American Academy of Pediatrics and the World Health Organization both promote
nursing until 2 or 3 and beyond this as long as both
child and
mom are comfortable with it.WIC also promotes long term
nursing as well.
And yes, by the time I had my second
child, I definitely (and sadly, I think) knew more than the
nurses «advising» the first - time
moms in my ward.
My baby wouldn't latch on As a
mom who has
nursed 4
children (including twins) it is VERY difficult for me to not respond and correct the mother that these are untrue.
You'll also learn how to identify if your
child is a «picky eater,» a «problem eater,» or is just going through a phase; how
mom's diet while pregnant and
nursing can influence a
child's taste preferences; what «typical» eating looks like for a
child; what Danielle's kids eat; and common mistakes parents make with picky eaters.
Many
children will be fine with this, but it's often best to stay away from shellfish altogether while you're still a
nursing mom.
Michelle's passion for breastfeeding advocacy began with her
nursing in public incident at Target in 2011 which led to the largest
nurse - in to date with over 6,000
moms who participated in
nursing their
children at Target stores all over the U.S. Michelle currently sits on the advocacy board for the United States Breastfeeding Committee (USBC), and is the Director of Activism for Best For Babes Foundation.
Read on for 5 tried and true tips for breastfeeding in public from
moms who have successfully
nursed their
children wherever they go.
Between needing to accommodate the uninhibited movement necessary for playing with (and occasionally swooping in to rescue) your
children (not to mention those
moms who
nurse and need easy access to the boobiez) and needing to be OK with whatever you're wearing inevitably becoming covered in dirt, snot, food, and general
child schmutz, it's completely understandable that many
moms dress practically rather than fashionably.
Breastfeeding
moms often become uncomfortable
nursing older
children around others and will only
nurse at home.
Just six, now it's almost certainly a case that many
child care providers support
nursing moms on their own without being required to by the state.
This is very convenient for
nursing moms and may become a favorite sleeping arrangement well into your
child's toddlerhood, too.
Some
nursing moms prefer to pick a time that feels like it's best for their babies while others wait for their
children to signal them that it's time to start breastfeeding.
The Solution: The Smart
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Dear
moms out there, don't let our poor society persuade you that it's not good to
nurse your
children.
This is a question that many
nursing moms have at some point during the process of raising their
children.
Any
mom who breastfed while her
child was teething can tell you that the pearly whites popping through a baby's gums may be tiny and cute, but they can hurt a tender nipple if he decides to chomp down while
nursing.
I was a working
mom at the time as well so
nursing after a long day at work really helped me to reconnect with my
child and he looked forward to it also.
The fact she did all that but can appreciate the hardships of
nursing and empathizes with
moms who choose to formula feed without chastising them shows that she can adapt to change because she does understand the evidence that breast feeding only has minor benefits in the grand scheme of raising a
child.
«I pledge to SUPPORT
MOMS to
nurse / pump whenever necessary, to nourish their baby, toddler, or
child until they are ready to stop.»
This story is just so sad and heartbreaking first I am so sorry for your loss myself losing a
child as well under different circumstances but I can relate to the heartache the guilt and the what ifs but secondly I am so sorry that your
nurses and doctors failed you they should have had you supplement especially that he was crying so much and continuously losing weight I'm a pediatric
nurse and the weight loss is always a concern and reason to supplement its just so sad you had to lose your precious baby boy over such negligence I hope you are able to find some peace and know this wasn't your fault being a new
mom
Nursing your
children gives them a great start at life and is good for
mom too!
Nursing, Terrific for Baby and
Mom, Can Pose Problems for Dads by Armin Brott Before their babies are born, just about any expectant father knows breastfeeding is the best way to feed a baby and that his partner should
nurse their
child for as long as possible.
Believe it or not, because of the sickness fighting benefits of breast milk and the fact that breastfed
children get sick less often, a
nursing mom is less likely to call into work, according to a study on the economic benefits of breastfeeding.
not every
child who is «old enough to ask» is «too old» to breastfeed, and
moms shouldn't feel pressured to wean if they and their
children are still happily
nursing.
You can always speak to your doctor or your
child's pediatrician for information about how to handle engorgement, but many times,
nursing moms can get a lot of relief from simply applying cool compresses until the problem eases up.
Nancy Holtzman, a pediatric
nurse and national speaker on maternal
child health topics, helps educate new
moms and says to expect some change each month.
For in depth information about why it is especially important for unborn babies,
children and
nursing moms to get proper nutrition read the Importance of a Healthy Diet.
Many
moms continue to
nurse throughout their pregnancy and go on to
nurse both their newborn and their older
child (also known as tandem
nursing).
After all, I am not a young
mom and my professional life won't slow down just so I can birth a
child,
nurse it every few hours, and watch it toddler off into a nanny's arms so I can go about my work.
If a
mom wants to wean then, that's her choice, but it's also very possible to
nurse comfortably after a
child gets teeth.
Perhaps as the benefits to
mom and baby become more widely understood, more mothers will choose to
nurse their
children for at least one year, as recommended by the World Health Organization.
I remember when, as a pregnant and then
nursing mom, reading advice to avoid peanuts myself if I or my
child's father had any allergies at all.
«Mothers who had
nursed other
children before will probably have their milk come in faster, and have more milk volume compared to a first time
mom,» Franke says.
Despite the naysayers objections that stem from an overly sexual view of breastfeeding that
nursing beyond age one or two can turn your
child into some kind of sociopath dependent on his or her mother, there are plenty of
moms who choose to
nurse their
child until they decide to stop on their own.
This doesn't mean that the
mom can't encourage or distract the
child during a feeding time to dissuade the
child from
nursing.
We have a program here in US called WIC (Women, Infants &
children) which gives coupons for milk, eggs, cheese etc to improve nutrition for expectant &
nursing moms with low incomes & kids under 5.
Experts tell
moms who are opened minded to discuss things and seek help / advice are good in
nursing children.
Having participated in both extremes — staying home,
nursing around the clock for years with 2
children and co-sleeping to working 70 hours a week, only seeing my
children for an hour in the morning and an hour at night and insisting we sleep apart during the week so I could get good sleep and function at work — I think I have a unique perspective and appreciation for both types of
Moms.
I do find that
moms who have had a breastfeeding class or read a book or two do seem to have a head start in
nursing their
children.
We welcome pregnant women,
nursing moms, dads, partners, and
children.
I have been so encouraged through my connection with other breastfeeding
mom's to
nurse as long as
child and mother both want to.
She has this internal sensory thing, I swear, that «hears» me come in, and she immediately wakes up wailing to be
nursed... I weaned my first daughter at 13 months, and was one of those
moms who thought it was just... selfish and gross... to
nurse a
child older than, say, 18 months.
It's normal and natural and good, but it can also be sad, especially so if this
child is the last time you'll get to experience the closeness of the
mom / baby
nursing relationship.
Around the room were seated
moms chatting, playing with their
children,
nursing, and laughing.
«It is a personal decision, what the
mom feels is best,» said Jody Conry, 38, of Streamwood, co-leader of a La Leche group, who
nursed three of her five
children till they were 4 1/2.