By talking to other
moms about birth I have become acutely aware that any kind of childbirth, under any circumstances, includes moments of stress, worry, and pain.
In today's super special episode of the Doing It At Home podcast, we are interviewing our own
moms about our birth stories!
Not exact matches
This would be been a fabulous opportunity for a company like Two Doulas, who provide perinatal,
birth and postnatal support to talk
about the 5 biggest challenges that new
moms face when breastfeeding.
Let's face it: We are unlikely to find a single party that truly represents a «culture of life,» and abortion will probably never be made illegal, so we'll have to go
about it the old fashioned way, working through the diverse channels of the Kingdom to adopt and support responsible adoption, welcome single
moms into our homes and churches, reach out to the lonely and disenfranchised, address the socioeconomic issues involved, and engage in some difficult conversations
about the many factors that contribute to the abortion rate in this country, (especially
birth control).
They don't care
about the money, if they did they would not be this upfront and would control the
birth at the end and disregard all of
moms wishes when she was most vulnerable.
If
moms take some time to learn
about their choices and take an Independent Childbirth Class (not hospital based) or read GOOD books (not WTEWE) then they will be in a better position to have a positive
birth experience which can empower them!
The last thing a new
mom should be worried
about it what her belly looks like, but we know the pressure that comes with bouncing back like a celebrity after
birth.
I am now the
mom of two daughters and am determined to provide them with realistic images and ideas
about birth.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with breastfeeding, and since breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (on both
mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong with THEM and clam up
about it while quietly giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to
birth my next two at home).
Stephanie interviews Dr. Lindsey Mathews, D.C., BIRTHFIT founder,
about the four pillars of BIRTHFIT (fitness, nutrition, chiropractic, and mindset) and how each of these pillars helps
moms prepare for
birth and postpartum.
The 9 months of baby's development in the womb are now over and you as a new
mom are
about to give
birth.
In addition to getting to know each other over the course of the
mom's pregnancy — learning
about her hopes, fears, and wants for her
birth experience — home birthing
moms also have
birth plans to clarify things like which post-
birth procedures the family does and doesn't want (like vitamin K shot, eye ointment, etc.), and preferred hospitals and care providers to call in case of transfer.
I didn't know anything
about having a low milk supply, being a working
mom on top of caring for a newborn, having D - MER, and the millions of other things that would affect my life after giving
birth to another human, breastfeeding, and going back to work.
The Online Childbirth Institute Course is designed for
moms - to - be who want learn all
about giving
birth as naturally.
And, yes, as a home -
birth mom who is decidedly a bit crunchy and a lot sentimental, there is something so cool
about the fact that on the day my children were born, I was just one of many women around the world giving
birth.
The wonderful thing
about breastfeeding as
birth control is that it gives a new
mom a nice long window before she needs to worry
about other options.
About one third of
births are through Cesarean section, so you're not alone new C - section
moms.
# 8 really surprised me, Often after giving
birth moms are required to take soups stuffed with lots of vegeas, take milk and fruits to boost milk production, I slightly agree with beer although it gives you a tipsy feeling, the presence of malt in it really do help, I have read few articles
about it.
In this biweekly podcast, Kellie Edson, childbirth educator - in - training chats with both
birth professionals and regular
moms about all aspects of the transition to parenthood.
In addition,
moms may face added emotions
about having to deal with the physical aspects of giving
birth — recovering from delivery, producing breast milk, and fluctuating hormone levels — which may intensify the grief of missing the baby.
We all heard
about the
moms that just gave
birth and then went right back to their usual sex life just as if nothing happened.
Therefore, a childbirth education class helps
moms and their partners learn
about and believe in the process,
about how their bodies and babies really instinctually know what to do,
about normalcy in labor and
birth,
about the importance of relaxation,
about how to gain confidence and find their inner strength.
We have tried to teach them
about their
birth families through pictures and letters that I asked their first
mom's to write to them.
It is sad that we get bucket loads of information from agencies
about the legal and paper work stuff, but not much on what actually
birth / first
moms want, the human side of it.
Your cruelty to a
mom who shared a
birth story on this blog was deeply embarrassing (for you) and spoke volumes
about your character.
A
mom, for example, who's very anxious
about a past emergency or planned vaginal
birth that did not work out, is extremely afraid of vaginal
birth, or has a history of unresolved sexual abuse trauma can feel reassured by her perceived sense of predictability and controlled surgical procedure in having a C - section.
Sometimes the boys are jumping out of their skin to chat with their
birth moms about something, give them a tour of their new room or talk
about starting school.
Like a lot of first - time -
moms - to - be, I was pretty nervous
about what
birth would be like and hypnobirthing absolutely helped me prepare for this.
We've all heard plenty of
birth horror stories, but we rarely hear
about how
mom heals after the trauma.
At the mother - of - twins club meetings, I would listen to all the other
moms — including those with full - term twins with good
birth weights — talk
about projectile vomit, diarrhea, high fevers, and often hospitalization for pneumonia.
Essentially, as long as the proper hormones are in place,
mom will start making colostrum
about halfway through pregnancy (Lactogenesis I) and her milk will increase in volume (Lactogenesis II) around 30 - 40 hours after
birth.
Next to learning
about birth and recovery, learning how to take care of the actual baby is one of the most important tasks on an expectant
mom's to - do list.
I found out
about Neighborhood Parents Network's New
Moms Groups from a girlfriend just before the
birth of my first son in 2007, and it became my lifeline in the early days of parenting.
She stays encouraged by seeing other
moms post online
about their experiences with
birth and body changes.
Moms - To - Be is a support group for women expecting a child, who are looking for a safe place to share their thoughts and feelings
about pregnancy,
birth, and what to do once the baby comes!
So I think that was the moment for me that really sunk in like this is really my baby and so we just snuggled skin to skin for a little while and it wasn't very long before she started showing signs of being interested in eating and we had also talked to the
birth mom and talked
about a plan for... our plan to breastfeed.
After all, I am not a young
mom and my professional life won't slow down just so I can
birth a child, nurse it every few hours, and watch it toddler off into a nanny's arms so I can go
about my work.
Still, as close as I was to my
mom, when the time came to talk
about my
birth plan, I knew without a doubt that I didn't want her in the delivery room when I gave
birth.
I had been to 30
births and knew what labor looked like including the flood of people that emerged when a baby is
about to be born and the sweet embrace that happens when
mom and baby first meet earthside.
So let's meet the
moms that are joining our conversation today, ladies, tell us a little bit
about yourself, your family, and also let us know where your kids were born, as far as, you know, were they all born in hospitals, did anyone do any home
birth, what
about birthing centers and all that good stuff?
I know that's very unique and I know not every
birth mom feels that was
about adoptive breastfeeding but that was our situation so that worked out really well.
All we ever hear
about is
moms being pregnant, being in labor for hours on end, giving
birth, breastfeeding or bottle feeding, and either staying at home and keeping everything together or going to work and balancing a career and motherhood.
I think if we talk
about labor and
birth in terms that women, especially first time
moms, can understand, then they have more of an idea on what to expect that
birth will actually be like.
This kind of assistance ends up being needed in
about one in twenty US
births, either because the baby needs to be delivered quickly for safety reasons, or because the
mom is too worn out to continue pushing.
After
birth it often feels like it becomes
about the baby, however, for my circle it has often stayed
about the
mom until a few weeks after
birth.
Some
moms say they feel cheated out of a vaginal delivery, especially if they took childbirth classes and fantasized
about the «ideal
birth.»
For the babies whose
birth announcements we will never get to see and tuck away, whose major milestones and first day of kindergarten we will never get to smile
about while connecting over social media, and who we will never get to witness become a big brother or sister, your
mom's doula never forgets you and grieves deeply for you.
About the anger you're feeling toward your
birth mom, you're told — by Dear Abby, no less — to wait until you're older to search for her, and in the meantime to just get over it (which is not all that helpful unless the advice also includes how to do so).
There are so many variables and unknowns including how your
birth goes, your baby's physicality and temperament, and how you handle the giant transition of being a
mom (that's a big one, and one I hope to write
about someday, because it's quite a difficult transition for many new
moms).
Come join my FREE online masterclass, to learn all
about Birth Trauma for
moms and babies, so rampant in our country and parts of the modern world.