Waiting only leads to more discouragment,
more hurtful arguments, and higher risk to your relationship.
People want to be heard and understood (as you so wisely point out) and sometimes they way in which they try to communicate that can be
more hurtful than intended.
I think saying that is much
more hurtful than what I say.
This is why we sometimes attach who they are, which is far
more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice,» said Brene Brown
When we use them on someone we care about, like our spouse, they can be even
more hurtful.
So this might be
more hurtful than helpful for the number 2 carrier.
[I would laugh at him, not sue him, if I were you on the present comments] But he is also very thin skinned like myself and takes
the more hurtful comments a bit too seriously.
Deaths in the game are made even
more hurtful when the main character asks you if you have the controller in a place where the sun doesn't shine.
Some people don't understand the deep grief experienced with this loss and will many times make comments that are
more hurtful than helpful.
The rejection you get from reviewers and readers can be ten times
more hurtful (and more public) than any agent's form rejection.
I see it now working with people affected by cancer — sometime people don't «get it» and it can be
more hurtful / stressful to share than to keep it to yourself or share withsome who is lving that life.
This sweet, affectionate (and unapologetically slight) comedy is an all - too - rare homage to harmless, hilarious incompetence, at a time when there is plenty of
the more hurtful kind to go around.
Inspired by the making of the movie «The Room» — a labor of cinematic ineptitude that has been called «the «Citizen Kane» of bad movies» — this sweet, affectionate (and unapologetically slight) comedy is an all - too - rare homage to harmless, hilarious incompetence, at a time when there is plenty of
the more hurtful kind to go around.
Don't send stuff like «Thanks, but I'm not interested» because that can be even
more hurtful than not getting a reply at all.
I can honestly say it's made a big difference in my life and I'm so glad I don't have to hear
any more hurtful comments about my weight.
What could be
more hurtful than being called BM all through elementary school?
It's hard to understand why, because it seems so logical, but when breastfeeding is your goal and you're determined to make it work (as long as it's safe and healthy to do so) hearing about easy alternatives is
more hurtful than helpful.
I learned, in the span of a few months, who was truly a supportive friend and who wasn't, and then I learned how to say goodbye to the people who were
more hurtful than helpful.
A sunburn hurts when it happens, but it can be even
more hurtful down the line.
The awful things we say to mothers and to women — I can think of little that is
more hurtful.
People want to be heard and understood (as you so wisely point out) and sometimes they way in which they try to communicate that can be
more hurtful than intended.
I think that dealing with this kind of thing from strangers is one thing — in some ways easier to brush off, and sometimes even
more hurtful.
Other times the reasons are a bit
more hurtful or confusing because they can not be explained so easily.
But if you tell them they are harming their child by smoking during pregnancy, smoking and breastfeeding, smoking in the car, smoking at home, they will probably consider that a lot
more hurtful.
It seems that the internet has allowed people to quickly «judge» and react to other people without thinking and probably in
more hurtful ways than they would do if they were face to face.
Besides, it's odd to suddenly care about hurt feelings when I'm pretty sure telling half of FBS they don't have a shot at the national title no matter how well they play is
more hurtful to those feelings than winning 59 - 0 instead of 49 - 0.
Albeit most doughnuts are southern style sugary treats, some might be a great deal
more hurtful to your wellbeing than others.
I assume it was
more hurtful rhetoric.
Not exact matches
The head of its Center for Capital Markets Competitiveness David Hirschmann said that the rule «is
more harmful than
hurtful» and that the Chamber will seek to «clean up the mess.
Even James Dobson doesn't use such
hurtful language like that any
more, dude.
I would be
more inclined to say «thoughtless» or «
hurtful».
Were Mort less mellow, he might respond to Molly's anger by getting angry himself and calling her childish or judgmental or coming up with something even
more irrelevant and
hurtful to say, like, «The whole idea of taking a honeymoon in Topeka is the stupidest thing I ever heard of.
(Imagine how
hurtful and frustrating such statements must be to Jewish Americans, many of whom had relatives who were actually killed in an actual genocide... a situation unspeakably
more serious than a political difference!)
Had I been
more aware of how people of color view the world, had I spent just a little
more time listening well and considering context, I would have known better and avoided a
hurtful error.
The consolation is that for each person that causes you pain and grief, there will always be far
more people who want to comfort and help you, to cry for you and to share in your
hurtful burden.
But what makes the lack of love even
more heretical, is that a lack of love often leads religious people to do horrendous and
hurtful things «in the name of Jesus,» which makes these actions not just heretical, but satanic and evil.
I wrote some things that were unintentionally
hurtful to him in those early days and while they didn't result in any arguments, there were hurt feelings that could have been avoided simply by being
more forthright.
And it was made all the
more powerful by Peter Capaldi's bewildered hurt at her words, you could see in that moment that he really thought he was doing the right thing and his instincts had been wrong and
hurtful to her.
But your cartoon is a challenge to me to speak up
more in order to not «invite»
hurtful conduct.
Which makes me think it was my belief in the gospel of grace and the assurance of salvation that was the
more offensive part to him and he just used the scripture as a sword against me (good point tl) Very
hurtful indeed.
But Luther's fear of anarchy and horrified determination to distance himself from the rebels elicited some of his least appealing writing: «Let everyone who can smite, slay, and stab... remembering that nothing can be
more poisonous,
hurtful, or devilish than a rebel.
that's the
hurtful truth we are facing the stark reality of now the cash is there, so there is no
more money excuses anymore.
This abuse must be extremely
hurtful to our manager after everything he has done for the club, and it may be affecting him
more than we think.
James: It's traumatizing when something
hurtful happens to you, and you can't control it, you can't stop it, you can't predict how
hurtful it's going to be, and you can't predict when or whether... Read
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It feels
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Recently I have decided to have much
more of a positive mental attitude, I want to think this way about all aspects of my life but, mostly, I want to be a
more positive parent and that isn't going to happen if I keep listening to the judgmental,
hurtful voice of mum guilt.
However, we have not been that great about consistency and sometimes I fear that we are not responding at all when they disobey and then sometimes we respond with anger and I (much
more often than my gentle husband) sadly, I respond with
hurtful, frustrated words.
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It's
hurtful, not helpful, and
more likely than not to lead to alienation within families.
He recommends using time - out for «
more extreme misbehaviors such as testing that becomes defiance, extreme disrespectful behavior, defiant behavior, antagonistic or
hurtful behavior, and tantrums.»