Your Collaborative Coach can help you side step some of
the more painful conflicts that are often part of a traditional divorce.
Not exact matches
Furthermore, this bodily
conflict between the mother and her emergent child anticipates the often much
more painful act of separation, when the child, exercising the newly awakened powers made possible by his large head, reaches for his own autonomous knowledge of good and had, and repeats the original rise and fall from obedience and innocence in the ever - recurring saga of human freedom and «enlightenment.»
Of course,
painful conflict caused by public schools is nothing new, even if nationalization is making it worse and
more visible.
Allegations of alienation are extraordinarily
painful to all involved, and it seems to me that it is the intensity of our emotional response to such allegations which sparks the fight - or - flight response spurring
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Add to that all of the
conflicting advice a job seeker gets — no wonder it's
more painful than a root canal without Novocain.
I also specialize in working with substance use issues in an alternative to the 12 - step approach; couples counseling to help you and your partner communicate and resolve
conflicts more effectively; treating trauma to keep
painful experiences from your past from overwhelming you; and Internet / online issues so that your online interactions can be healthy and fulfilling.
There are several reasons: (a) it's less adversarial than going to court; (b) it's
more private; (c) you retain control of the process — i.e., you are not bound by what the mediator thinks (indeed, most mediators see their role as helping the parties effectuate their goals, not imposing the mediator's ideas); (d) it's usually much less expensive; (e) if there are children involved, the process is less likely to embroil them in a
painful conflict; and (f) mediation often gives divorcing couples a better chance of successfully negotiating issues that may come up in the future (such as child support, alimony, or custody and visitation issues).
«In a nurturing and supportive environment, my aim is to provide a safe place for you as an individual or as a couple to begin experiencing life
more deeply, enjoy
more satisfying relationships, and resolve
painful conflicts.
Ways of connecting so that
conflict becomes
more manageable, less hurtful and less
painful.
We believe that «
CONFLICT IS GROWTH TRYING TO HAPPEN» (Harville Hendrix) & that by working through the
painful problems in your relationship you will discover deep truths & find deeper
more satisfying ways of knowing both yourself and your partner.
Allowing emotions to cloud the big picture could make proceedings
more difficult and
painful for the parties, or Heft says cause one side to capitulate and settle for less than what they are entitled to in an effort to end the turmoil and
conflict.
«At times, experiencing
painful feelings, managing stressful situations, life transitions, and / or dealing with relationship
conflicts, whether romantic or n»... Read
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They may find this is
more painful than they expected; having the ex-husband back in the picture re-awakens buried issues and feelings, disrupts the family routine they have come to develop, and leads to open
conflict again.
«It's the same
painful conflicts and arguments, over and over» «I don't like the way we talk to each other — it's too harsh and we get into these horrible cycles — we just drift further and further apart»» The demands of the children take over — really, there seems to be no time for the two of us» «I wish we treated each other with
more respect & kindness — I sometimes feel like I just do nt matter»» We don't listen to each other — we really aren't connecting like we used to.
Reliance on defenses against psychological pain that result in externalizing unwanted or unacceptable feelings, ideas, attitudes, and responsibility for misfortunes so that
more painful internal
conflict is transformed into less
painful interpersonal
conflict.