And, as
most alienated parents have not been prepared to deal with the extreme behaviors manifested by alienated children, they may not know how to respond.
As
most alienated parents have not been prepared to deal with the extreme behaviors manifested by alienated children, they may not know how to respond.
However due to socio - economic reasons and a cultural and professional biased towards parental stereotyping, statistically
most alienated parents are non-residential fathers.
Not exact matches
The result has been to effectively stifle debate,
alienate most parents from the school - reform agenda, and insist that a flawed, mechanistic vision of schooling ought to steer our course in the 21st century.
When the message is only about 20 percent of the students — even if you're talking about the 20 percent who really are those
most in need of help (although they all deserve help, and have a civil right to it)-- it's hard to win a popular election with that message; and listening to the candidates» impassioned speeches about those students, even if the speeches are nobly motivated, can feel oddly
alienating and exclusive to middle class
parents who are concerned about their own children's too often declining prospects.
Unfortunately, poor communications planning and an often heavy - handed approach toward those who express concerns have
alienated the people they
most want to influence: namely
parents, educators and legislators.
In
most cases
parents who
alienate their children, consciously or unconsciously, do not realize the harm that they are doing to their children.
- William Bernet, MD, professor emeritus in the department of psychiatry, Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, Nashville, TN «Having recently tried the
most publicized parental alienation case to a successful conclusion, I highly recommend this book for
parents coping with an
alienating spouse.
While conflicts over timesharing does occur in many cases where a
parent can't deliver a child to the other
parent for valid reasons more often than not is rather rare because
most true
alienating parents are savvier than this....
The
alienating parent most likely also has a personality disorder such as narcissism and / or borderline personality disorder.
Most divorcing
parents tend to
alienate somewhat at a low level due to the high emotions involved in a divorce or custody dispute and because of the natural conflict that arises when two
parents are separating.
liz: Unsupported that there is any evidence that in these cases (
most, many, all) in which abuse has been raised, and then «alienation» claimed, there has been a «previous normal relationship» between the child and
alienated parent.
An
alienating parent most likely has strong underlying feelings and emotions left over from earlier unresolved emotional issues which have been resuscitated and compounded by the pain of the divorce.
Prior to becoming an
alienated parent some seventeen months ago, one of the
most memorable and enjoyable past times I used to spend with my youngest child G, was watching the Disney film Frozen.
The available research and evidence on parental alienation informs us that in
most severe cases, personality disorders are at the core of the
alienating parent's emotional make - up.
While the
alienated parent is repeatedly tormented and wrongfully accused by the alienator, they are also, in
most cases, not in contact with their children.
As stated above, evidence shows us that
most severely
alienating parents will present with undiagnosed personality traits / disorders.
Dr. Reubins characterized the «pow - wow» notes presented to him by respondent as «the
most compelling example of parental alienation I've ever seen» defining «parental alienation» as «a conscious or unconscious attempt to
alienate a child from a
parent.
In its worst and
most pathological forms, the
alienating parent acts to align the children to his or her side and together, with the children, campaign to destroy their relationship with the targeted
parent.
«While the
most factually apparent ground to change existing custody arrangements involves physical danger, the act of
alienating a child against a
parent presents a nefarious form of conduct that must be met with careful consideration and immediate, comprehensive remediation by a Court....
Prior to becoming an
alienated parent some seventeen months ago, one of the
most memorable and enjoyable...
One of the
most controversial points is the last, «Separating children from an
alienating parent is traumatic.»
[3] However, it is interesting to note that
most children are not
alienated or resistant to contact with an abusive
parent, even though they may have mixed feelings.
The
most important ingredient in certain severe parental alienation cases, according to Johnson and Roseby, is the child's vulnerability and receptivity to the
alienating parent, rather than «conscious, pernicious brainwashing» by an embittered
parent.
The following types of personality disorders are
most prevalent in terms of the
alienating parent in cases of severe parental alienation:
In regards to
parenting time, the
most frequently cited response was that
alienating parents did not adhere to court orders.
The
alienating parent is
most often the custodial mother but alienation by non-custodial fathers or mothers was also observed.
What is
most destructive (and sad) about Parental Alienation Syndrome is that the
parent trying to
alienate the child against the other
parent will have his or her comeuppance.
Hatred of the
parent is
most incense when the
alienating parent and the child are in the presence of the
alienated parent.
If they haven't already done so — they will
most likely take over the role of abusing you along with their
alienating parent.
Possible transitional sites range in restrictiveness from very little to
most restrictive, depending on the amount of control needed to ensure the children's cooperation and the
alienating parent's compliance with court orders.
The mental and emotional toll is unbearable for
most involved mainly the
alienated parent and the child.
While
most parents report being
alienated or estranged after a divorce, there are also
parents that no longer have contact with their children and the couple is together.
Most alienated & estranged
parents already are aware.
Most cases are not as severe as the one listed, and / or the children have bought into the
alienating parent's position.
By this definition,
most would agree that
alienating parents are deceptive.
If for resolution to occur, one has to expect the
alienating parent to come clean, in
most cases it will never happen, as the alienation is a conscious plan to destroy the other
parent through the child, and no feelings come into play for anybody.
When I embarked upon this study, I expected that
most of the PAS children would continue to be
alienated from the target
parent in situations in which the court neither transferred custody to the target
parent nor reduced the
alienating parent's access to the children.