Not exact matches
Most marriages with addicts fail when the addict gets dry, because the
relationship was dependent upon the
codependent fixing the addict, and all the bad stuff in the
relationship was blamed on the addiction.
Perhaps the
most important question is whether two people locked in a
codependent relationship can get to a point where their bond is functional?
The Human Magnet Syndrome accounts for one of the
most common couplings we see — the pairing of caretaking, empathetic, and altruistic
codependents with selfish, arrogant, controlling, and harmful narcissists, who simultaneously fall head over heels in in love while remaining tied together in a long - term dysfunctional
relationship.
We know almost nothing about their respective histories but, through their
codependent relationship (The irony that such an unhealthy bond is formed out of an ambition to uncover the secrets of mental health is inescapable), come to learn practically everything of significance about them, save for perhaps the
most important question: Which of them needs the other more?
However, relying on a publisher's resources builds a
codependent relationship that is difficult to break, and
most authors are expected to make substantial efforts and investments to reach their audiences even if they are traditionally published.