Since avoidance creates more avoidance, partners end up living parallel lives without
much emotional intimacy.
Not exact matches
Sometimes this is explicit, in the exchange of harsh words; at other times it is implicit, evident not so
much in what is said as in what is left unsaid --- for example, in the loss of those earlier notes of
emotional, intellectual, and spiritual
intimacy with his beloved sister Jemima.
This can be problematic for those seeking true
emotional intimacy, as so
much of it is rooted in comfort, ease and familiarity — and achieving those things requires spending time together.
How
much intimacy is allowed with other people, whether
emotional or physical?
Many married women consider an
emotional affair by their husband, where there is an
emotional connection without physical
intimacy, to be a
much more threatening form of infidelity than one with sexual relations.
An
emotional affair can often start out
much more subtle than a sexual affair; however, having an
emotional level of
intimacy with someone outside of your relationship has the potential to move into sexual
intimacy.
Our team of couple therapists is specially trained in addressing issues like
emotional distance and disconnection, conflict and communication, the challenges of parenting, sex and
intimacy, infidelity, financial stress, work - life balance, religion and value differences, and so
much more.
Although
intimacy anorexia can affect other relationships as well, marriage is the only relationship that demands as
much emotional, spiritual and sexual
intimacy on an exclusive, committed basis over a prolonged period of time.
If you have a partner like this, it definitely points to
emotional insecurity and fear of
intimacy, because face - to - face interactions require
much more vulnerability than they feel comfortable with.