Not exact matches
Perhaps — many recent fantasies suggest — the fairies are bound more by honor than by empathy, in a hierarchical society (sociologically, a status society rather than a contract one,
and moved by
shame much more than
guilt).
I suspect people feel so
much guilt and shame because all of the burden of parenting (from decision - making to action) is on their shoulders alone.
So
much of putting this issue together came down to doing the research
and soul - searching to really understand the differences between
shame and guilt,
and shame as a normal emotion
and when it crossed into unhealthy territory
and the effects of that toxic
shame and then the sheer enormity of effort that must take place for a person to heal from a
shame - based self - image.»
I would imagine the number is
much higher due to cases that have just gone unreported because of fear,
shame,
and guilt.
The words «postpartum depression» didn't mean
much to her at first, but they finally hit home when a virtual stranger told her about the
guilt,
shame,
and reclusiveness that were connected to postpartum depression — the same symptoms she had struggled with since the baby was born.
«But theres so
much guilt and shame built around food.
This time of year is filled with a lot of celebration but also with a lot of feelings of
guilt and shame («I ate too
much.»
I truly believe that the
guilt and shame feelings we place on ourselves when we eat foods that aren't on our plan or when we've eaten too
much, are even more harmful in
and damaging to our bodies than the actual food itself.
The
shame and guilt will not do you any favors, in fact, they make it
much harder to get back on track.»