During these decades, of
course, the evangelicals have done very well for themselves with their own seminaries, from which it has also been argued that this division makes for a comfortable and
mutually acceptable arrangement (the old «separate but equal» slogan in a different context).
Of
course, once you have established a connection with another member, and taken the appropriate safety steps, you will naturally want to meet in person, but you will already have established a social connection so therefore you will never struggle for conversation and can meet at a venue which is
mutually acceptable.