Given that those dates have been pleasant and
enjoyable for both of you, and that you wish to continue seeing each other, now is the
time to formalize your
mutually beneficial agreement.
In light of men's greater affinity for pornography, it is probably not surprising that women are more likely than men to see porn as a potential relationship problem, and there are indeed many women who find their male partner's porn watching highly distressing.3 At the same
time, however, there are many women who have a positive attitude toward porn and there are some couples for whom watching pornography is a
mutually enjoyable activity that actually increases rather than decreases intimacy.