Sentences with phrase «n't validate your feelings»

Maybe your partner doesn't understand what you are going through or doesn't validate your feelings.

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A demand simply for freedom to act upon subjective religious feelings is a claim (though not a strong one) that can easily be seen to validate a relativist worldview.

I know that politicians feel that they have to be politically correct and say that Islam is a great, peaceful religion - but such statements are not validated by history.

And I also noticed that you didn't put in your list of «validating thoughts» that whatever God feels like or does with us, it has to jibe with Scripture.

If you need other people to validate your religious beliefs, then that is on you... I make no apologies for being comfortable enough in my own skin to not feel as if I need to pay a religion to validate my belief system.

A less charitable interpretation, which validates my reaction, is that Richard doesn't understand how the people he addressed the post to feel right now.

Outside of community we don't feel fully validated.

Of course it would be silly to suggest that winning any game, cup or otherwise, isn't good for the club, but let's remember just how problematic FA Cup success has been for this club... I'm certainly not going to suggest I didn't enjoy seeing Arsenal win, I'm a fan of this club first and foremost, but how bad are things when you find yourself secretly wishing that your own team lost so that just maybe real change would finally come... I resent this team for even making me feel such thoughts and it's going to take a lot of effort on their part to earn my trust again... this club has treated the fans so poorly that it has created an incredibly fragile and toxic environment, so much so that a «what have you done for me lately» mentality has emerged... fans rise and fall depending on the results of each game because we don't have faith in those in charge to make the necessary changes to personnel and tactics... each time we win many fans attack any dissenting voices and make unrealistic claims about the players, the manager and the potential for unprecedented success... every time we lose the boo - birds run rampant, calling for heads to roll and predicting the worst... regardless of what side you fall on, it's not your fault, both sides are simply overcompensating for the horrible state of affairs that have been percolating for several years... it's hard to take the long view when those in charge have lied incessantly and refuse to take any responsibilities for their own actions... in the end, we are trapped by the same catch - 22 that ManU faced upon Fergie's exit... less fearful of maintaining the status quo than facing the unknown, which was validated, wrongly or rightly, by witnessing the difficulties they have faced during this transitory period... to be honest, the thing that scares me most is that this team has never prepared whatsoever for this eventuality, which considering our frugal nature and the way we have shunned many of our most revered former players is more than a little disconcerting

- If the LO is in good health (meaning the crying is not due to a disorder or some sort of physical pain) and if all of his other needs are met: he is fed, changed, does not need soothing or entertainment, try holding the LO in a loving embrace and allowing him to just cry while you validate his feelings and let him know you're there.

So instead of saying, «Don't be scared,» point out how he appears to be feeling to validate to him that his feelings are okay.

All parents want to feel validated in their decisions, and even if they do not intentionally seek out support, unsolicited advice will come their way — from family, friends, pediatricians, teachers, strangers, and others.

Validate his concerns and fears, do not make him feel silly, because his fears are real.

In this group you will receive the understanding, sense of community, and hope that you need to feel validated, empowered, and so not alone!

Afterwards I felt validated for not rushing my son to do something he wasn't ready to do and I felt joy knowing that my little boy was proud of himself for his newly gained independence.

You try very very very very hard not to sound sarcastic when you say it because your goal is to validate the child's feelings without buying into it.

For me, not hearing from your kids on Mother's day just validates those thoughts and feelings.

Please know that API's Eight Principles of Parenting are not intended to be standards of perfection but rather to be used as guidelines to help you feel informed, validated, supported and confident in your child - rearing decisions.

I didn't ask friends and fellow moms for advice so that I'd be scared into making the same choices they had; I asked for their honest opinions so that I could feel validated and more confident about my own experience.

Validate your child's feelings by saying, «I understand you're upset that we can't go to Grandma's house right now.»

Most of the time, what your friend really needs is not advice but someone who will listen and validate their feelings.

Validate your teen's feelings, but don't let your teen convince himself that moving will ruin his life forever.

Help the child deal with anger (validate the feelings, defuse anger by identifying the source of it, don't take sides, avoid reacting with aggression)

So after the baby is here and as the baby starts to kind of move into that five, six, eight month old, one year old, they start to be really focused particularly for moms on whether or not they're child is feeling secure in the world, whether or not they're feeling validated and heard and listen to.

Formula feeding moms are made to feel guilty because they didn't make a choice that other mothers have proudly made; a dangerous consequence of all parents just wanting to feel validated and supported in their personal parenting decisions.

(Offer support through Validating Feelings or giving a Hug, but not by rescuing or fixing.)

Validating your child's feelings also means that you don't judge him or her.

Not only does it validate those feelings of doubt, fear, anxiety and loss that so many adoptees and birth mothers feel, but it gives you ways and exercises to help you deal with those feelings.

She felt heard and validated in her concerns which has not happened thus far in this painful process.

«I felt validated to know that our culture puts unreasonable expectations on both Mom and baby, and that I need to better utilize my Village, because I'm not made to «do it all».»

Considering and validating children's feelings does not always mean that they should do everything their own way.

And while my maternal instincts wanted to fix everything for my daughter, my grand - maternal awareness realized that she didn't need me to fix things for her as much as validate — that she was fully entitled to feel frustration and joy, sometimes simultaneously, and that she held the keys to resolving those challenges for herself.

My postpartum depression actually manifests more as anxiety and what I found, my medication has not been sufficient in helping with that sleep is key and everyone will tell you that and it kind of feel validated sometimes when I tell other moms, yeah I just really need to sleep like «oh, honey everyone does» and you'll get used to functioning on you know little sleep.

Validate your teen's feelings by saying, «I know you are nervous that she hasn't called you back.

Today, I want to share some ideas on how to help a 1 - year - old when they are starting to cry or scream about something they don't like (using Positive Discipline's «Validate Feelings» tool card.

Being able to read your words helped me feel validated and like I am not crazy or wrong for having the thoughts and emotions that I am.

He needed to feel validated and not judged.

The important thing is to validate the child's feelings even — or especially — when we can't do what they're asking for.

«So you're not coddling, but you're validating their feelings.

«They feel validated in what they're saying by venting,» says Narang, «but they're not less angry.»

«You aren't validating what they are going through and that makes them feel worse,» says Mosseso.

Not only do you make another person feel good when you greet them by name, but research has shown that people feel validated when you refer to them by name throughout a conversation.

My Training at the Institute helped validate my feelings that there is not one single clinical approach to people working through health, weight and body issues.

It validates you are not lazy, crazy, or that it's all in your head, as many people struggling with autoimmunity are made to feel.

It may be hard for some of you to validate a purchase as such but when something makes you feel good it's not too hard to convince yourself to buy it.

If your friend does get upset, reinforce that you aren't attacking them, validate their emotions (e.g., «I am sure this is hard to hear,» «I would feel upset too»), and be open to feedback and their take on things.

The most important thing to remember in any type of dating situation is that you can not depend on someone else affection to make you feel validated.

It's not that I think their suggestions would not work, I just did not feel the end validated the means.

Even through her YouTube videos, you can feel she isn't trying to be Oprah, she just wants the Oprahs of the world to validate her existence.

As much as they applied information learned in the classroom to those projects, Haskvitz doesn't feel the projects qualify as «service - learning» projects, because it was not possible to truly validate the learning that occurred.

MK: Yes, I think it's probably what they call the strengths - based approach - where we're not looking at the deficits of students but we're looking at what is it that they are bringing into the learning environment that could be integrated within the learning process, so that we can validate what they know and make them feel they're respected and [that] they have something to offer within the learning environment.