Not exact matches
Furthermore, the idea that I am just an individual, owing little or nothing to anyone, that I
need to be autonomous,
seems absurd when we consider our own personal origins: we each owe our conception and birth to a mother and a father; our whole lives involve a series ofinterlocking relationships with
parents, family, friends, teachers, society and so on.
And, for my example, I get a lot of my
needs / wants / affirmation from TLS, but some other affirmation of my worth as a
parent seems to come best when my children and grandchildren drive 1.5 hours to visit us.
We doubt we even
need to say why this
seems grody, but, commercialization of parental love aside, do kids really
need daily fortune cookies from their
parents with lunch?
Ultimately I believe every
parent needs to decide what works best for their children and their family, but to imply — as the «Likey» did on Facebook — that if you spank your child he / she is not going to go to jail, that just
seems ridiculous.
It
seems as though you already have a lot on your plate, but considering that you are so in tune to eco-friendly
parenting, I just thought that I'd recommend that you check out http://www.greenwala.com — I hope that you agree that the site
needs your voice!!
It may
seem like cruel irony that
parents of multiples, who are already busier than singleton
parents, are also more likely to have kids who
need extra attention.
Though our pediatrician wasn't worried a bit about my daughter, it
seemed like everyone else was:
parent magazines crowed about the
need to breastfeed (despite running ads for formula); online
parent forums held open season on the selfishness of people who wouldn't breastfeed; and I knew formula moms who had been blatantly harassed by some of La Leche League's less well - trained members.
Your emotions and your brain may
seem like they're pitted against each other, but in reality you
need both to
parent well.
At your baby's young age, their appetite and how much they
need to eat actually increases day by day and it is very important as a
parent to not hold back if the baby
seems to be hungry.
But the idea can
seem challenging to
parents and kids alike — how can you be sure that your child will get the attention he or she
needs?
«Women
need to make the
parenting experience their own and do what
seems right for them,» she says.
As much as this
seems like a
parenting issue it is truly an early test as a couple with two kids, and should have nothing to do with space, or what your kids
needs are at this point, that is still your job to determine their
needs from a logistical standpoint, and that should always be in the best interest of Mom and Dad.
The whole flash card culture
seems designed to make
parents feel guilty and kids feel pressured, and doesn't
seem to be resulting in more productive, connected, interesting people than we had back when it was enough just to be present with your children when they
needed you and to interact with them throughout the day.
While this
seems outrageously out of tune with Dr. Sears» attachment
parenting and the
need to attend to your baby's every
need, when your baby can not be soothed, and you're completely depleted, what you have to offer in that moment is of no value to anyone.
For me attachment
parenting always
seemed like common sense because it best fits the basic
needs of an infant.
Even if they
seem a little bit big for it, sometimes just the presence of a
parent and sitting there making sure that they're getting the nutrition they
need can go a long way in helping a picky eater get the right food.
There
seems to be so much fear of «spoiling the baby» that leads to
parents yearning to make their newborns independent in many areas when all they really
need is mom / dad / caregiver to hold them and provide everything they
need to start life in a secure mindset.
Offering a helping hand for something that may
seem insignificant to you may just be the little break a new
parent needs.
When you're the
parent of a special
needs child, it
seems that every interaction outside of work involves some aspect of special
needs parenting.
Other problems that indicate the
need for further evaluation include
parents noticing that their child's eyes are crossing, that their eyes aren't straight or if they just don't
seem to be seeing well.
What I liked most about the book is that it doesn't shy away from addressing the real - life challenges that can trip up the best - intentioned
parent, whether it's the growing influence of peers as a child moves into elementary school, the «I don't
need your advice» attitude of the high schooler, or the scheduling conflicts that can make healthy, communal eating
seem impossible.
In the end, cloth diapers
need not be as intimidating to
parents as they
seem.
Adolescents
seem to
need less undivided attention from their
parents than younger kids.
Often,
parents / carers will use behavioural techniques in a way that do not appear to affect positive change as such and sometimes can
seem to make things worse, as the focus stays on the child's behaviour, not their internal motivations and
needs.
Plus, if your child has special health
needs such as severe allergies or cystic fibrosis (like mine), the considerations you
need to take as a
parent seem to quadruple.
One of the first things
parents of gifted kids notice is that their children don't
seem to
need much sleep.
A crib might
seem a perfect solution in this situation, but most of the
parents believe that they don't
need a crib for this.
In the case of the increased demand for nursing which
seems inversely proportional to the
need for nursing, the motives
parents often assign to their toddlers are «testing» or «pushing boundaries.»
As children get older, they don't
need the security of their
parents» presence as much and they can gradually be weaned from the parent?s bed at a time that
seems right according to each family?s circumstances.
Giving birth naturally in water
seems easy and common sense, but there some obvious questions
parents need answers to.
Overall,
parents really
seem to enjoy this seat and stroller combination, especially for those who
need to come in and out of different modes quickly.
As a new
parent, you may be surprised to learn that your newborn, who
seems to
need you every minute of the day, actually sleeps about 16 hours or more!
It
seems so obvious to me that a baby
needs to be near their mother /
parents when they are in their most vulnerable state.
Although my wife and I highly valued the authors» «The Pregnancy Book», we find that this one
seems to ask us
parents to over-indulge baby at the expense both of our
needs and of common sense.
Moms around me
seemed to have kids that slept on their own, napped regularly and slept the amount of hours
needed, per their
parenting book's guideline of baby sleep.
Some
parents give up swaddling too quickly because their babies don't
seem to like it, or the
parent has reservations about the tightness
needed to swaddle correctly.
While taking care of your baby's skin might
seem complex to
parents, you just
need to know a few basic things: Is there a
need for medical treatment?
If
parents wonder at the remarkable fact that the two
seem to coincide so often; that baby
seems to get diarrhea just when he or she is cutting a new tooth, then it could be explained thus — as teeth start to emerge, baby
needs to soothe him or herself and tends to put anything available into the mouth.
The idea
seemed so different to what I read and heard everywhere that I
needed to know there were other
parent educators and thinkers out there who understood the healing nature of crying.
Parents often
seem unprepared to discover that breastfed infants
need to feed frequently during the night, and sometimes interpret this as a failure of breast milk to satisfy the baby — leading to early weaning.
I would never berate any of my family members for their
parenting choices, but they all
seem to feel the
need to let us know about ours.
It can be hard to give kids the push they
need to embrace something that
seems scary at first, but Hand in Hand
parenting has taught me how to do it with love.
Completely on her own, she is in desperate
need of things for her baby so it
seems fitting that we should pass the baby bathtub along to someone else who is also ill - equipped to
parent but trying to do right by her baby.
If
parents see their child is not gaining weight,
seems low on energy, they
need to have them evaluated.
This
seems obvious, but new
parents are tired and often
need gentle reminders!
I think the last one is the reality, you really of how they do
need night time help whether that each
parent takes the baby or you know, divide up the night in shifts or maybe you could get some outside help and I think you know, with singletons, with the two
parent family, having the other
parent be involved with it, the dad, with singletons might
seem like a luxury but honestly, it's all hands on deck when you've got multiples.
Proponents of attachment
parenting need to look carefully at the assumptions underlying their philosophy and stop the hectoring and moralizing that
seem to flow from their philosophy.
Other experts
seemed to assume that mothers knew nothing about
parenting and
needed to be instructed as if they had no prior life experience.
But, as often
seems to happen, a reasonable idea morphed into the weird restrictive idea that bonding
needs to take place under specific circumstances and at specific times or it will be fatally flawed (right after a natural childbirth, exclusive, extended breastfeeding, attachment
parenting, etc.)-- and that so obviously is not the case.
It just
seems to fit the
need that
parents have to reduce the number of blow - outs.