As parents, we want to limit
the negative experiences of our children — not create them.
Not exact matches
Half
of gay males
experience a
negative reaction from parents when they come out, and in 26 %
of those cases, the gay
child is thrown out
of the home.
Such requirements may strike the Muslim student as precisely the list
of «don'ts» that constituted the young Chicago journalist's
negative experience of Islam when he was a
child.
Kathy Alexander, chair
of Administrators
of the City
of Greater Geelong and former CEO
of the Royal
Children's and Royal Women's Hospitals Melbourne from 2000 to 2004, says women (or men) who take time out to raise children should focus on the positives of that experience and how it might actually make them a better leader — rather than expect negative conse
Children's and Royal Women's Hospitals Melbourne from 2000 to 2004, says women (or men) who take time out to raise
children should focus on the positives of that experience and how it might actually make them a better leader — rather than expect negative conse
children should focus on the positives
of that
experience and how it might actually make them a better leader — rather than expect
negative consequences.
Such
experiences can have
negative impacts on
child's bonding with the family and threaten his / her feeling
of security essential for his / her healthy development.
We got a window into the heartache and joy that is only possible to
experience as a parent, as well as a snapshot
of the kinds
of parents most people don't want to be: a drunk mother who embarrasses and ignores her
children, a highly
negative and depressive father, a mother who quizzes her
child incessantly to perform in front
of strangers, and then BAM, pull me out
of my «oh yeah, I agree they suck» trance, next in line for how not to parent was the
negative caricature
of an AP mother.
It is up to parents to do whatever they can to make sure that their
child's coach does not continue to convey the message to athletes that there will be
negative consequences to concussion reporting by removing them from a starting position, reducing future playing time, or inferring that reporting concussive symptoms made them «weak», but, instead, creates an environment in which athletes feel safe in honestly self - reporting
experiencing concussion symptoms or reporting that a teammate is displaying signs
of concussion (and reinforcing that message at home)
A good idea is to pack small goodie bags for the people who will be seated around you, as a token
of your appreciation for them dealing with any kind
of negative experience they're having due to your
child.
Let's face it: my
children are the ones to
experience the effects when I am stuck in a pattern
of negative thinking.
What ever triggers the start
of this - the result
of this
negative or painful
experience is that the next time the
child has the urge to poop, s / he delay going because s / he knows that it hurts.
Together we can help increase awareness
of this great alternative to the many
negative parenting styles we
experienced as
children.
LYUBOMIRSKY: When you have
children under five and when your
children are teenagers, that's when you have the most kind
of negative emotions and
negative experiences with them.
A
child could develop fear or anxiety about the process
of elimination if for some reason the
experience has been
negative in some way.
So many times we hear stories
of how one
negative experience can turn a
child away from a sport, or even all sports in general.
This may have been because
of constipation or change in diet or it could be a fear
of the toilet and / or flusing or simply delaying a bowel movement because they are too preoccupied with something else way more interesting.What ever trigger the start
of this - the result
of this
negative or painful
experience is that the next time the
child has the urge to poop, s / he delay going because s / he knows that it hurts.
What ever triggered the start
of this - the result
of this
negative or painful
experience is that the next time the
child has the urge to poop, s / he will delay going because s / he knows that it hurts.
Approximately 70 - 80 %
of all new mothers
experience some
negative feelings or mood swings after the birth
of their
child.
Negative experiences with getting one
of their brood out
of wearing baby diapers has propelled many parents to search for better potty training methods (see baby potty training) for subsequent
children.
Loving another human being, even your
child is an emotional roller coaster
of both positive and
negative experiences and emotions.
«Parents will gain a better grasp on how on how to speak to their
child about their use
of technology and help them to avoid a
negative experience online.»
If the
child has had a
negative experience with a potty chair or potty seat, s / he could become afraid
of using that.
A
child could also develop fear or anxiety about the process
of elimination if for some reason the
experience has been
negative in some way.
Children of depressed mothers, including those with subclinical depression, may
experience a range
of negative outcomes including developmental delays, cognitive impairments, and attachment insecurity.
In support
of this model, multiple studies have shown the association between infant
negative reactivity and later psychosocial outcomes such as problem behaviour and self - regulation to be moderated by parental behaviour, so that highly reactive
children fare better than others when they
experience optimal parenting but worse than others when they
experience negative parenting.41 - 46 Further support is found in studies indicating that interventions targeting parental attitudes and / or behaviours are particularly effective for
children with a history
of negative reactive temperament.47, 49
Mothers reported more symptoms
of psychological distress24, 25 and low self - efficacy.26, 27 And, although mothers report more depressive symptoms at the time their infants are
experiencing colic, 28,29 research on maternal depression 3 months after the remittance
of infant colic is mixed.30, 31 The distress mothers
of colic infants report may arise out
of their difficulties in soothing their infants as well as within their everyday dyadic interactions.32 The few studies to date that have examined the long - term consequences
of having a colicky
child, however, indicate that there are no
negative outcomes for parent behaviour and, importantly, for the parent -
child relationship.
Divorced dads have some real challenges when entering the world
of dating: a more - than - likely sour
experience from the divorce and perhaps some
negative feelings about women in general; a lack
of recent
experience in this arena and accompanying nervousness; often a self - esteem problem stemming from the divorce; and
children, whether or not you are the custodial parent.
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Strong, caring and loving relationships can shield
children from the impact
of negative experiences, and they can be mutually healing.
Emotionally sensitive
children seem to respond to each
negative experience as though it were the end
of the world.
No parent wants to think about their
children resenting them, but if co sleeping continues for far too long, your
child may look back on this
experience with a very
negative point
of view.
«We know that
children who are more easily upset and have more difficulty controlling their emotions are more likely to eat emotionally than calmer
children, perhaps because they
experience more
negative emotions and eating helps them calm down,» notes Lars Wichstrøm, professor
of psychology at the Norwegian University
of Science and Technology, who coauthored the study.
Eighteen percent
of women
experience depression some time during pregnancy, and both perinatal and postpartum depression have been associated with
negative outcomes in
children.
Her own
experiences as a co-parent have helped build curriculum, communication techniques and worksheets that help clients take the
negative emotion out
of their relationship and put the focus on the
children.
«When they tell you about postpartum depression, you think about, «Okay, I feel
negative feelings towards my
child, I want to injure my
child, I want to hurt my
child» — I've never ever had those feelings, and some women do... You don't realize how broad
of a spectrum you can really
experience that on.
This type
of relationship may promote resilience — or in other words, the
child will be less likely to
experience negative outcomes,» says Fogarty.
«Six out
of 10 (62 per cent) parents believe their
child is upset easily by unexpected
negative experiences, however, 49 per cent feel that their
child is not taught how to manage stress at school very well.»
But it can also be because concerned parents are afraid
of how their
child will be perceived, or perhaps want their
child to avoid
negative experiences at school.
As its name implies, the Head Start program was developed to enhance the
experiences of children in low - income families prior to school entry, with the goal
of alleviating the
negative effects
of growing up in poverty.
90 %
of teachers say that the new system
of primary assessment has had a
negative impact on
children's school
experience, while only 7 % agree that the new system enabled an accurate representation
of what pupils know and can do.
Although the benefits
of preschool are impressive, one year
of high - quality education can not undo the impacts
of negative experiences during a
child's first four years, nor can it preemptively make up for shortcomings in elementary school.
The Summer Born Campaign is adamant that simply adjusting
children's scores in order to «pass» them through to the next stage
of their education / life is not the right answer to this problem; it doesn't help colleges, universities or employers, and it certainly doesn't help the
child who may have had a
negative experience of education for years.
The following are common characteristics
of gifted
children, although not all will necessarily apply to every gifted
child: • Has an extensive and detailed memory, particularly in a specific area
of interest • Has advanced vocabulary for his or her age; uses precocious language • Has communication skills advanced for his or her age and is able to express ideas and feelings • Asks intelligent and complex questions • Is able to identify the important characteristics
of new concepts and problems • Learns information quickly • Uses logic in arriving at common sense answers • Has a broad base
of knowledge; a large quantity
of information • Understands abstract ideas and complex concepts • Uses analogical thinking, problem solving, or reasoning • Observes relationships and sees connections • Finds and solves difficult and unusual problems • Understands principles, forms generalizations, and uses them in new situations • Wants to learn and is curious • Works conscientiously and has a high degree
of concentration in areas
of interest • Understands and uses various symbol systems • Is reflective about learning • Is enraptured by a specific subject • Has reading comprehension skills advanced for his or her age • Has advanced writing abilities for his or her age • Has strong artistic or musical abilities • Concentrates intensely for long periods
of time, particularly in a specific area
of interest • Is more aware, stimulated, and affected by surroundings •
Experiences extreme positive or
negative feelings •
Experiences a strong physical reaction to emotion • Has a strong affective memory, re-living or re-feeling things long after the triggering event
Negative branding shaped by years of negative perceptions, many of these attributable to poor customer experiences — unresponsiveness, lack of transparency, and top - down bureaucratic decision - making, to name a few — has parents, and not their children, in search of schools that are committed to listening and attending to thei
Negative branding shaped by years
of negative perceptions, many of these attributable to poor customer experiences — unresponsiveness, lack of transparency, and top - down bureaucratic decision - making, to name a few — has parents, and not their children, in search of schools that are committed to listening and attending to thei
negative perceptions, many
of these attributable to poor customer
experiences — unresponsiveness, lack
of transparency, and top - down bureaucratic decision - making, to name a few — has parents, and not their
children, in search
of schools that are committed to listening and attending to their needs.
If more educators understood what giftedness truly is and means, maybe we could curtail some
of the
negative consequences gifted
children experience in school.
Muldrow told me she moved her older
child out
of the public schools because
of «
experiences that were not only
negative, but were particularly racialized» and that with vouchers, «private schools retain the ability to discriminate and don't have to provide the same services to students as public schools.»
Despite the extensive research showing the
negative impacts
of ACEs on
children's academic achievement and overall wellbeing, many schools and communities continue to struggle to support
children who have
experienced trauma and adversity.
But for the
children growing up in environments where these challenges impact their daily lives, the learning outcomes typically create another vicious cycle
of divesting — through suspensions, expulsions and
negative classroom
experiences.
Parents
of students with disabilities enroll their
child in a charter school for a combination
of reasons related to attractive features
of the charter school and
negative experiences with the previously attended school.
Whether you have a positive or
negative traveling
experience with the airline, the information that you provide can help improve the future traveling
experiences of families with young
children.
If puppies go through a lot
of negative experiences early in life, such as a bad shelter
experience, mishandling or mistreatment, these events could cause a new pet owner to be wary when bringing this puppy home around a small
child.