The truth is, ignoring negative feelings doesn't make them go away.
If
negative feelings do not emerge, then there has been some secretly repressive mechanism at work.
Though I was beyond sick of driving by the time I reached AUTOMOBILE HQ the next afternoon,
those negative feelings did not extend to the Ridgeline.
Not exact matches
When you're in a
negative frame of mind, break out of your routine and
do something that makes you
feel good.
You may be pushing yourself to
do the best you can, but whether it's
negative supervisors, gossipy co-workers, or just
feeling stuck
doing the same thing over and over again, it can be difficult to stay engaged at work when this
feeling strikes.
Eventually, since they
feel that their efforts have been ignored (or rebuffed), they make
negative assumptions about their co-workers along these lines: «They don't really care» and «They aren't that great, anyway.»
The reason she
does this is to ensure that she is the right fit for the organization - and if the preliminary work indicates that she is not, for whatever reason, she can walk away, with no
negative feelings from the client.
Do you find yourself constantly griping to your friends about your job, or just
feel negative and unhappy most of the time, especially at work?
You could keep dwelling on those
negative feelings, thinking about how unfair the situation is and how no one ever appreciates what you
do.
They don't
feel bad for people they've wronged, and they don't
feel guilty about any of the
negative actions they've taken.
Don't sweep any
negative emotions under the carpet - if they know they can talk to you about anything and they
feel supported, their confidence will grow.
On the
negative side, people who work for autocratic managers often
feel as though their contributions are not valued by the organization and decisions often don't consider how it will affect employees other than the manager.
It doesn't matter whether the goal was realistic or not — it still results in
negative feelings that directly impact how you approach your work.
The results seemed to align mostly along political party lines, but with a twist: while consumers who affiliated as Democrats
felt more positive about the brands, Republicans didn't change their perception, and independents actually steered
negative.
You can't aim at not
feeling cold, it's like me telling you «don't think of a pink elephant»; our minds just can't process the
negatives.
Do negative or hurt / angry
feelings have to be «dealt» with before you dismiss and change them to a healthier and positive alternative?
I
do not want to be too
negative about credit cards, but I
feel it is kind of a predatory product and regulators have not really figured that out yet.
We
feel that the
negative complaints to
do not justify this system nor are traders seeing any profit returns.
Do you have no awareness of why many Americans have
negative feelings about Muslims?
Also, since you are clearly not a member of the Jewish community I
do believe I am in a much better position to talk about the
negative feelings of Jews towards to Mormons of Salt Lake than you.
The devil likes to get us all running around putting out little fires of offense, and hurt
feelings, and
negative opinions, so we don't have time or energy to deal with the strongholds at the root.
It is a shame so many
feel the need to express such
negative feelings and strongly worded opinions to folks they don't even know.
If you are right (I think you are wrong) and dying in peace is the most important thing to take with you to an Afterlife, then the right thing to
do is let the dying person clear the Guilt, Bad
Feelings, and any other
negative poisons out of their heart and soul.
We returned and for a short time it seemed normal, but then strange things began to occur again behind thr scenes with one controlling narcissist woman whose family is friends with the pastor (so if she doesn't like you or
feels threatened by you in any way plants bugs in his ear to affect leadership choices and assignments and
negative treatment / assumptions about anyone she pleases).
This woman's strong and
negative reaction to my beer didn't change how I
felt about pumpkin ale.
As we have said, many individual AA's
do recognize the symptomatic nature of selfishness and
negative feelings.
negative cycle, as all couples
do occasionally, they will be able to interrupt it if one or both has sufficient
feelings of self - worth to be able to give love and nurturance even though he is not receiving it at that moment.
My dad and step - mom would make me
feel welcome in their actions, but would make weird,
negative comments out of no where as if I was
doing something wrong?
If they believed what they said that they
do, they would (1) be happy and not
feel the need to convert others — having no command from above to
do so, nor any pressing natural law putting such a perrogative on them and (2) would see that athiesm is a loosing bet where the best outcome is not being wrong — as there is no outcome where they can be right, a
negative can never be proven.
Researchers in the latter field have known for some time that people don't think like adding machines, tallying up potential positive and
negative outcomes («gains» and «losses»), but
feel worse about a given unit of loss than about a corresponding unit of gain.
It may take the
negative form of apprehension and the compulsion of «I must
do this, or else...» Often it takes the form of duty, which may be gladly accepted or
done from a
feeling of stern necessity.
As a general rule people will
do more than asked when they
feel appreciated, but when only the
negative is emphasized, we
feel like «why even try?»
«But let me hasten to say I don't
feel so
negative any longer.
This fact introduces the adumbrative quality of physical
feeling, a quality which Whitehead
does not distinguish but which is implied in his doctrine of abstractive objectification and
negative prehension.
They are «dimly conscious» in two senses: (1) as experiences, they
do not normally rise to the stature of conscious centers competing for control of the organism, but they have appetitions and aversions in their own right so that it seems appropriate to label them «dimly conscious»; (2) they are perceived only dimly by the members of the regnant society, i.e., the regnant society has these particular occasions as dim, vaguely
felt,
negative «scars» on the data of what is clearly perceived in full consciousness.
I am only saying that my
negative view of homosexuality is an expression of my religious underpinning, and it has never extended to personally demeaning any homosexual as you have
felt the need to
do with me.
This line of reasoning, however, applies only to actual occasions God's
feelings do not employ
negative prehensions to effect perspectival elimination.6 Finite occasions prehend other occasions from spatiotemporal standpoints which are different from those occupied by the occasions prehended, and therefore their prehending must be perspectival.
Our lives become all jumbled, and we push consideration of death and immortality aside, as if by
doing so we can avoid facing these
negative feelings.
when i see posts like these — i automatically skip past them — like — if i read them i will somehow be absorbed into the negativity of some evil travesty of comaparison between a vast illusion of delusionary emotional strife over something that makes no sense unless you put yourself into this weird evil
feeling trance of blind confusion and
negative understand — i don't know — it's a weird a
feeling though — tried to read it — just to see if that
feeling had changed any on this post — and it hadn't — just thought i'd share that...
And when I hear so much
negative stuff about men, I
feel as a man, disrespected for the work I
do to prevent gender abuse.
One of the basic questions in regard to the problem of
negative prehensions has to
do with the further question as to whether they exclude only eternal objects, or
feelings as well.
I know that the preacher's wife in my church growing up was very constrained; she didn't
feel free to express any
negative opinions at all, even just to talk about her kids being a handful, because the pastor's family is supposed to be the «example».
You can't think independently, you can't
feel negative feelings, you can't say disagreeable things, and you can't
do what you would like.
The two facts that this minister had overlooked were that reassurances of this kind
do not reassure, and that the man's
negative feelings must be expressed and accepted before they could be replaced by more positive ones.
I
do not mean in this principle to deny the existence of strong
negative feelings or to prohibit their expression.
If one
does pray, it is well to reflect the
feelings of the alcoholic in the prayer (showing him that one regards his
feelings, however
negative, as acceptable to God).
If it is unearned and
does not derive from any natural or acquired superiority, that may diminish the danger of Jews nurturing
negative feelings towards Gentiles and of resentment on the part of Gentiles.
I want to thank you for what I learned; how to keep quiet and listen to others; the whole concept of what you termed «unfinished business»... which meant that there was an interpersonal relationship which had not been worked through; the surprising truth that there is no conflict that
does not disappear if both people will go into the encounter and face the
negatives and articulate them in terms of actual
feelings; your continual emphasis on getting rid of the things that keep people from loving each other.
Dr. Craighead seems not to
feel the attraction, as I
do, of the theory that contingency is the clash of positive with positive, rather than of positive with merely
negative.
Unfortunately, God doesn't offer Habakkuk a promise of immediate relief; but God
does offer the prophet the space to
feel what some would call «
negative» emotions, room to honestly express those emotions and God's own presence.