As you get comfortable with someone, you focus more on the bad things they do or
the negative way you feel.
Not exact matches
«The
negative, obviously, is that local people can more easily absorb preconceptions and
feel pressured to vote a certain
way — in other words, the danger of local democratic empowerment is a loss of impartiality.»
If you are coping with stress in a
negative way, your employees will
feel equally out of control.
But if you're responding to conflict in a
negative way, or
feeling threatened by a peer or subordinate, or letting life pressures from outside the job leach into the workplace, counselling in the short term can offer some insight into why you're acting the
way you are.
That
way, the recipient can understand that you're
feeling negative about something other than him.
When quizzed later by the researchers, participants said they hated the minimalist and disempowered spaces, but their
negative feelings extended
way past the environment.
Wallowing in talk of other people's misdeeds or misfortunes may end up hurting their
feelings if the gossip ever finds its
way to them, but gossiping is guaranteed to make you look
negative and spiteful every time.
We returned and for a short time it seemed normal, but then strange things began to occur again behind thr scenes with one controlling narcissist woman whose family is friends with the pastor (so if she doesn't like you or
feels threatened by you in any
way plants bugs in his ear to affect leadership choices and assignments and
negative treatment / assumptions about anyone she pleases).
«It ends up punishing them and guilting them for
feeling that
way which in return could have a
negative impact on them.»
The reality is that every one of us has created some
negative pattern in our lives, usually at an early age in life, where we discovered that when we experienced painful
feelings, usually around violations of love (identity) and trust (safety), we found a
way of coping that helped us survive.
To counter this awful
feeling of being unacceptable to God, Hill shows how the New Testament in no
way supports a
negative self - conception.
Negative, defensive, resistant
feelings, like those expressed by some of the parishioners, contribute in that
way to the environment that we inhabit and live in together.
Instead, it convinces the kids that their parents now associate those
negative images with them, and the only
way they can avoid that association is to pretend not to
feel what they
feel.»
I may harbor up that
feeling until it bursts out in all sorts of
negative ways.
Psychologically, a tried and tested
way to overcome such
negative feelings is to acknowledge them accurately and sympathetically and then to remove the obstacles to a resolution.
Keeping the few good things about faith (helping others,
feeling a connection to the Universe, trying to understand yourself and your place in the universe) while dumping all of the
negatives (dogma, intolerance, that undeserved
feeling of superiority) is beneficial to society in a
way that organized religion never has been and never will be.
I think it's awful that you have come away with such
negative feelings, and for that I apologize for whoever treated you or others that
way.
It should teach something to those who have
felt that this is
negative in any
way.
«Perhaps it is just part of our sinful human nature to attribute
negative meaning to certain terms in order to justify the removal of words we either don't like or don't like the
way they make us
feel.»
If I ask myself whether, on fuller reflection about my reason for
feeling this
way, my sense of obligation may cease to attach itself to the nonperformance of the action in question, I incline strongly to the
negative view, and I find it difficult to believe that at this point other rational beings differ from me.
You have to deal with it if you
feel like it's impacting the team in a
negative way.
Keep him here, he
feels at home, he plays superbly for us, doesn't shy away from being the hero, everyone in the squad seems to love him and doesn't get in the news in a
negative way.
In a
way, its all part of the game, the ups, the downs, the happiness, being angry, being positive, being
negative, we won't
feel alive if it was not so.
Despite the
negatives, if Scott Laughton beats Matt Murray in the first the hockey game is tied at 1 - 1 and probably has a far different
feel the rest of the
way.
As unforgettable as their début spell in the Premier League has been thus far, it will
feel of scant consolation should the Tangerines fail in their ultimate quest, which is to defy all the
negative expectations of them before the season got under
way and successfully avoid relegation.
Maybe I don't
feel quite the same
way about Fabregas because he has been so good for so long that it's hard to wrap my head around looking at him in a
negative light.
This approach not only makes the teacher
feel appreciated, but also creates a positive framework that makes it easier for teachers to receive any
negative feedback in a constructive
way.
My
negative feelings about pumping totally changed, though, the minute I heard about the Freemie system, which gives moms an entirely new
way to pump.
Thinking errors, simply put, are patterns of thinking that are inaccurate or irrational; they influence our
feelings and behavior, often in
negative ways.
Put it this
way: Anything or anyone who makes you
feel uncomfortable will have a
negative impact on your birth experience.
I, for one (and I'm sure many others
feel the same
way), love your posts because you aren't an angry
negative voice in the ocean of bloggers.
Peer pressure can be a great factor in determining how your daughter
feels about herself, and sometimes there is no
way you can help any
negative comments affecting her.
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber This bestselling classic includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time - tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including innovative
ways to: · Cope with your child's
negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment · Express your strong
feelings without being hurtful · Engage your child's willing cooperation · Set firm limits and maintain goodwill · Use alternatives to punishment that promote self - discipline · Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise · Resolve family conflicts peacefully Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down - to - earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.
With this knowledge, you can use Alison's quick
way of changing
negative feelings into happy ones.
Evans found her own
way of coping with the
negative feelings, and gives this advice to other new moms who reach out: «Do not
feel guilty for
feeling exhausted or less than excited about every single tiny thing.
That, to me, is a huge step, that a mass - market publisher has published an entire book talking about women's
negative feelings in a
way that validates us.
The idea is, that when someone truly listens to us in a warm and supportive
way, without interrupting to «help,» then we can release our
negative feelings.
Don't let
negative attention make you
feel you are parenting the right
way, which only sends out a wrong message to the little one - it's okay to pretend to be in communication with the next, when it is not.
You do what you
feel is right for your children and I always say that the people who have
negative comments are just ignorant or «Non Parents» (who know everything as they have read it but never experineced it themselves) I salute you well done for giving your child comfort when it was needed in the best
way nature intended.......
Once you have written this as your Superhero self, get into the mindset of your
negative self and write a letter back from your fat, hated or useless self, and tell your Superhero self why you
feel the
way you do.
We propose that rather than avoiding stress and
negative feelings, we need to practice more effective
ways of dealing with our
feelings beyond just changing our thoughts.
Perhaps the best
way to avoid the
negative aspects of the public gym is to set up your own gym at home, but many people value the
feeling of community born when pumping iron together with a bunch of other people and decide to stick with their local gym.
«People with obesity are portrayed in
negative ways in the media; there's bullying at school and on social networks; people even
feel judged by family members or in health - care settings,» she says.
If you create rigid rules for yourself about exercise and eating, you'll not only set yourself up for failure, you'll also start to associate healthy living with
negative feelings — and that's a guaranteed
way to fall off the healthy wagon for good.
An incredibly cathartic
way to release
negative feelings or obsessive thoughts is to literally set them on fire.
«While this might
feel tedious at first, with some practice it has a
way of getting you to just focus on what's going on in the moment, rather than having your mind get caught up in a
negative cycle of thinking about how boring or painful treadmill workouts can be,» Havey says.
6 set of 6 reps close stance dumbbell squats (press with toes to work the quads) Rest: 60 - 90 seconds (do 90 seconds if you
feel too winded at 60 seconds) Tempo: 4 second
negative (which is the
way down), 2 second hold at the bottom, 2 seconds up, then go back down.
I am a person who was getting carried away with
negative thoughts and
feeling like a prisoner to them, like that was the only
way it could be.
U4EA X is a safe, healthy
way to control these
feelings and the
negative behaviors they lead to.
After a long period of
feeling down and lost in a
negative circle from which I couldn't see a
way out, one day I decided I had enough of crying over myself and do nothing about it.