So with the
newborn I had no clue it is just all left off my brain as to how to do a latch correctly and all that so that was a
little surprising with having a second one but I kind of [inaudible] goals out the window with my second because I knew I had gone three years at that point was my first that it was just like you know I would just nurse as long as she wants to nurse and you know whatever happens, happens, I'm fine and we joked because my second was much more independent we joked that she would've wean more sooner than her older
sister which almost happened because my oldest nurse for almost 5 years.