Q: This story is only about you,
not about ALL midwives.
And shows how either untruthful they are (since if they read through them, they would understand that the studies aren't about midwives like them) or stupid (didn't read them at all, but liked what they saw and think it makes them look better)
Not exact matches
But one of the things I've always loved
about blogging is that I get to my whole self here: I get to love theology and Church talk, I get to write
about mothering and family and marriage, I get to crack jokes at my own expense, I get to love Doctor Who and Call the
Midwife, I get to love thrifting and knitting and pretty things as well as being a Jesus feminist, I get to be a homemaker who talks recipes and cleaning and laundry as well as a lover of literature and poetry and history and Girl Power, I love the local church and yet I don't wear rose - coloured glasses
about this stuff.
Gut / / The Omnivore's Dilemma / / Hot Lights, Cold Steel / / Blue Collar, Blue Scrubs / / The Night Shift / / The Secret Language of Doctors / / Call the
Midwife / / Blood, Bones & Butter / / Madness, Rack, and Honey / / How
Not to Die / / What I Talk
About When I Talk
About Running / / The Third Plate / / The Red Parts / / The Argonauts
When it comes to deciding whether or
not a person should breastfeed or
not, if they're unsure
about their options, the best person to go to for advice would be a licensed nurse
midwife, though most levels of healthcare for women should be able to offer suggestions for the best path for an expecting mother to follow.
I had ZERO idea
about the serious risks associated with an epidural and was
not the slightest bit educated
about home birth or the use of a
midwife / doula.
I was able to share my anxieties
about me and my wife potentially feeling isolated, as she is from overseas and wasn't going to have her family around her — and it was good to be able to say this without feeling like I was being over-anxious in front a
midwife.
At the time I didn't know much
about midwives — who they were, what they did — and was happy enough with my OB, so I didn't bother finding out more information.
I didn't even know how to go
about finding a
midwife who would attend a home birth (Direct Entry
Midwives, those who usually attend home births, can
not legally practice in my state, making finding care a bit more challenging).
It wasn't until I had given birth to my daughter, officially joined the «mommy club,» and made some mommy friends of my own that I began to hear more and more
about midwives and learn
about the role that they play in helping women prenatally, during birth and postnatal.
I had lots of help: dh was
not working at the time and was committed to helping me 24/7 and was 100 % supportive; mil is a IBCLC and would drop everything and come to our home if we called her; my
midwife was passionate
about breastfeeding, visited me ever other day, sometimes every day; I saw Dr. Jack Newman regularly until my son was 8 weeks old.
I was young and didn't know much
about birth but, there was some part of me that knew I wanted to work with a
midwife and try for an un-medicated birth.
If you are a home birth
midwife, whether licensed and legal to practice or
not, you also worry
about criminal prosecution.
Don't be afraid to talk to your
midwife about sex.
We can't have it both ways — if we complain
about midwives making bad choices that put mothers / babies at risk, then we should be glad that they are transferring women to hospital care before an emergency arises, instead of making fun of them for transferring care.
(e.g. «Nipple confusion probably doesn't exist» said my
midwife, when I wondered
about using a pacifier.
If going slowly and a bit of time doesn't seem to help never hesitate to ask your doctor or
midwife about potential causes.
The
midwife told her to push harder but at
about 1.30 am the baby's heartbeat had changed and she could
not get a reading.
Idaho homebirth disasters
not about tension, but inadequacy of certified professional
midwives (CPMs)
In fact, you can't get a private
midwife in my province (
not sure
about the others).
And on a more general note, much as I appreciate a blog that makes a counter-point to some of the insane poppycock spun by high school dropout
midwives, getting on a high horse
about these issues is
not helpful to anyone.
It also doesn't allow you to practice any skills or have conversations
about what you've learned with your doctor or
midwife.
I don't know that many or most direct - entry
midwives care enough
about saving moms and babies to do this.
Also, when she was talking
about birthing mothers being elemental forces, which is probably from Spiritual Midwifery, she was
not speaking as a doctor or really even a
midwife, she was speaking as a student of nature; she's a hippie (duh!)
I trusted my
midwives and I paid them to be my experts and guide my care, and it turns out they really don't know what they are talking
about.
I have yet to see any
midwife who is destroyed by the unnecessary death of a child — they all have crap to say
about how sad it is that they didn't make it earthside, blah blah blah, but I have yet to see even one of these stories where she takes full responsiblity for her actions or lack thereof.
Do
midwives ever talk
about being able to hear it or
not?
Also, you were saying informed consent requires enumeration and since the
midwives have no idea what they are talking
about, they can't possibly enumerate.
The
midwife happily chatting away with the nurse
about former births didn't show one bit of respect and the reason why I had 9 stitches the 2nd time was because she forced me to push without having the urge.
You really don't know the problems
about American unlicensed uninsured home birth
midwives, yet you come onto the this blog shouting from your soapbox how ignorant we are.
I will refrain from writing my own due to the length of the discussion board as it is, but I do want to express a few thoughts: - Because of the «breast is best» campaign, I firmly believe that even if doctors, pediatricians,
midwives et cetera know
about the real trouble that many women have BF, they will
not say anything so that moms still try.
To learn more
about preparing your
nest for your upcoming arrival or for any and all pregnancy and birth related questions, contact Health Foundations for a free consultation with a
midwife and a tour of our Birth Center.
You should also ask your doctor or
midwife about their specific rates for cesarean section, even if you do
not think that you will have a cesarean.
My baby is almost 3 weeks and I had to start with formula top ups from
about a week in — my
midwife said he'd lost too much weight and if we didn't top up with formula he'd have to be hospitalised.
If you are concerned
about lack of movement, don't hesitate to call your doctor or
midwife for reassurance.
If you're concerned
about the amount you are gaining (too much or too little), don't hesitate to discuss it with your doctor or
midwife.
This is an excellent book
about birth trauma and it opens one's eyes to the medical field and how some doctors, nurses,
midwifes really do
not care... The imagery is incredible the poem is well written — more so because it is from your heart and your pain.
Courtney will be interviewing doulas and
midwives, Jennifer will be writing
about home births and essential books on natural birth, Lee will be writing
about her decision
not to have children, and much, much more.
If you're unsure
about whether or
not your contractions are Braxton - Hicks or if you're in labor, give your doctor or
midwife a call.
If it doesn't, talk to a
midwife about proper latching for breastfeeding.
But just think
about this, what if you start hemorrhaging and the home birth
midwife doesn't catch it in time because she doesn't have the necessary equipment to catch it in time...
not everyone bleeds out..
As time went on, and she learned more
about the natural birthing process and the current state of maternity care (as well as reflecting on her unmedicated hospital birth experience), she knew that she would
not want to birth another child in the hospital, so as she and her husband Matt looked forward to conceiving their second child she had already decided on hiring a licensed
midwife and planning to birth at home.
The test is
not carried out automatically in all countries, and you may want to ask your
midwife about it.
«Until you start thinking
about it collectively, you don't recognize it's a real problem,» says Robyn Churchill, a clinical nurse
midwife and senior adviser at the Boston - based Clinton Health Access Initiative.
In 2014, Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) hosted a «hackathon» competition called «Make the Breast Pump
Not Suck,» where more than 150 designers, developers, engineers,
midwives, doctors, lactation consultants and corporations came together to share ideas
about pump improvement.
It's important to speak to your
midwife, lactation consultant or breastfeeding counsellor to find out if there's any reason you may
not be able to breastfeed, and to get further support
about how to your feed your baby.
But my
midwife insisted that I should create a birth plan because it would force me to actually learn
about the birthing process, all the pain relief methods, possible birth positions and last but
not least, why giving birth hurts.
If you want to cut the cord, don't be shy
about reminding your partner's doctor or
midwife.
He latched on almost immediately following his birth, with help from the
midwife, though I don't remember how long he nursed for or really much
about it at all.
There's no reason to feel bad
about not having a «normal birth» since the only harm is to a
midwife's pocketbook,
not to the health and safety of their babies or themselves.