David — because it's seems disingenuous (to me at least) to say that this isn't about a divorce when the entire narrative context is in fact about a divorce.
You all say this isn't about divorce, but it obviously is the context and where the anecdotes and accusations derive from.
After I made it clear that this isn't about the divorce, you seem to want to pull it back into a he - said - she - said thing.
But the aggrieved keep saying it's
not about the divorce but the way it was managed by certain people.
This is
not about divorce but a group of individuals protecting their image and brand by running over another.
No, this is
not about a divorce per se — never was — or ping - pong statements to figure out who owns more culpability in the demise of a relationship.
This is
not about a divorce, or trying to prove criminal spousal abuse.
«Post-nups aren't about divorce, but about getting your financial future in check,» she says.
The messaging is
not about divorce, it's about what they want NOW which is to move on.
This post isn't about divorce but about moving out and starting over.
Not exact matches
«I would have been long
divorced if I'd been married,» she told the Loose Women panelists
about her decision
not to marry.
Having a conversation
about what you want if things don't work out as planned often helps couples have a more reasonable discussion when
divorce hits.
I've also written
about whether a CEO's
divorce is a purely personal matter or
not.)
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People who marry and don't
divorce have
about double the net worth of their peers who never wed, according to Jay Zagorsky, an economist and research scientist at Ohio State University, who studied the financial patterns of thousands of adults born from 1957 to 1964.
After seeking the guidance of a qualified attorney who is knowledgeable
about relevant state laws to dividing assets, you can secure a comfortable retirement
nest egg by working with a
divorce financial planner to assess your retirement planning options and build a sound foundation for your late - in - life finances.
Mortgage lenders will
not require you to provide information
about your
divorce agreement's alimony or child support terms, but if you're willing to disclose, it can count toward qualifying for a home loan.
I may be Catholic, but I'm
not a maniac
about it, runs their unofficial subtext — meaning: I'm happy to take credit for enlightened Catholic positions on the death penalty / social justice / civil rights, but of course I don't believe in those archaic teachings
about divorce / homosexuality / and above all birth control.
In particular, certain passages in the Bible
about male and female, love and lust, matrimony and
divorce are
not transparent in their meaning, and stirred Wojtyla's wonder.
I'm also quite capable of debating with him
about whether or
not government marriage in New York should allow no - fault
divorce or whether married couples (as defined by the state!)
My neighbors wife has been cheating on her husband for 3 yrs now and they keep it quiet and their
divorce is hush hush living in the same house, my wifes mother is mormon (my wife bolted from the «a womans job is to serve men and have babies» religion at a young age) she has been
divorced 3 times and doesn't have a clue
about just
about any subject.
Second, while
divorce negates an important element of marriage, it doesn't change the kind of relationship we're speaking
about.
I understand that Julie's accusations are
not just
about an affair, or a «
divorce», but are also
about silencing.
This is
NOT about the details of my
divorce but
about spiritual abuse by a few and the Pathology that led to the Thugology in the resulting context of really bad Theology.
Again, I really want to stress this is
not about the messy never ending post
divorce antics with an NPD but the culture of leaders in this publishing / speaking / minor celebrity circle that have smeared names and reputations in order to appear one way while behind the scenes another story is going on.
You can't find one statistic
about Christians such as
divorce rates, life expectancy, cancer survival rates, infant mortality rates, and so on that suggests any God is doing squat for you people.
And how
about a declaration that, in the event of death or
divorce, the Catholic party does
not waive the right to pass on the Catholic faith to their children?
Our re-connection is
not important but what I wanted to tell you is that when I told the wife
about this thread, and that «Tony Jones» ex-wife is telling her story... I guess they got
divorced?
Colina — What David said is true — you keep trying to control the narrative by pulling the conversation back to it being
about a «
divorce», when nobody really talked
about that at all until you initially brought it up, then David addressed it (everyone else ignored it because obviously they weren't interested in the «sordid details»), and you again directed the conversation (attempted to direct it) right BACK to an over simplification of it being
about the
divorce between two people!
The Pharisees asked Jesus
about divorce not out of spiritual concern but because of political calculation.
Their lived experience of the effects of contraception, abortion,
divorce, and infidelity on their generation has made them passionate
about the need for our entire culture -
not only Catholics - to embrace the challenge andauthentic freedom embodied in the fullness of the Church's teaching on marriage, family, and sexuality.
This isn't
about Julie and Tony's
divorce.
I am
not in contact w / any of them, have no clue
about what they are thinking, but I know if it were me I wouldn't want to force or participate in an online debate with a group of virtual strangers over the intimate details of a personal
divorce.
... The Jews (just like the church now) got flippant concerning
divorce... I feel Jesus didn't have to mention homosexuality because the Law was clear to any Jew at that time... Paul had to mention it because he was an apostle to the Gentiles who I think were more prone to homosexuality behavior... I'm though
not as learned as you... just my thought after 15 years of thinking
about this issue... The church has a sacred duty to all... even gays... we need a unified loving answer to give them... but it must be the truth... because only the truth can set us free...
and why you do
not take to the streets demonstrating against
divorce or adultery the way you do
about gays..
I could see it if they weren't members and never attended the church or if there was something
about the marriage that went against church doctrine (some pastors will
not marry couples who have
not went through premarital counseling or had a previous
divorce that the church deems wasn't on legitimate grounds, like adultery).
That union brings
about an ontological transformation, a creation of a new entity which can
not be dissolved through Moses» certificate of
divorce, We have here, in Jesus» prohibition of
divorce,
not so much a command but an invitation to participate, through our marital unions, in the underlying, unifying purpose of all creation.
Jesus» sayings
about divorce seem to be grounded in his perception of God's original intention in creation: «From the beginning it was
not so.»
How can the writer believe that he and his fellow evangelicals should worry less
about whether gays can marry or
not and more
about keeping their own traditional marriage in tact — 33 %
divorce rate — yet claim Santorum shows well - placed compassion?
Since these are the things
about which ideas of being were first formed in philosophy, it is important that as we refine our ideas we
not divorce them from their place of origin.
He
divorced his second wife becuase «There's no question at times in my life, partially driven by how passionately I felt
about this country, that I worked too hard and things happened in my life that were
not appropriate.»
It's
not just
about the
divorce, it's also
about the domestic violence, spiritual and psychological abuse, withholding child support to buy silence, SLAPPs,
about how he convinced his prominent friends to lie for him.
I reiterate, as I have over and over again, that it is
not about the details of a difficult
divorce, but how questionable actions and statements were lied
about, covered up, and used to develop a smear campaign
about victims, all to protect important people.
But if it doesn't — like when it talks
about the anger of God, or repentance, or gay sex, or
divorce — then we can emphasise its humanness, point out the limited knowledge of the writer, explain how they came to be so silly, and move beyond the text to a supposedly higher ethical standard.
Since these features of life are
not about to change,
divorce will remain an intrinsic part of married life, marriage and family are no longer synonymous, and we must aim
not so much to prevent
divorce as to prevent
divorce's «negative consequences.»
Yeah, like
divorce, which chrisitians don't seem to give a rat's ass
about because they're too busy taking rights from others based on their freakin» book.
This type of thing: you may
not commit adultery (could get stoned for that) but you can
divorce your wife and marry another and scheme
about all that.
We need to ask this question
about married women who are abused by their husbands,
about single persons who are
not in position to marry,
about those who have been
divorced,
about those heterosexuals who have no access to members of the opposite sex,
about men who are impotent.
There are other sins described that are
not God's best that in modern culture have been accepted,
divorce, adultery gossiping etc. it doesn't change what God says
about these things either.
Jesus didn't say anything directly
about polygamy either, yet
NT scholars on all sides have recognized that if Jesus regarded remarriage after
divorce as adultery (a form of serial polygamy), on the grounds that it violated the duality of «male and female,» he certainly regarded unions of three or more persons as adultery (concurrent polygamy or polygamy proper).