It is very positive that we are promoting and encouraging breastfeeding, but there is a fine line; some women feel that they can
not give up breastfeeding in the very early days without experiencing a huge amount of negativity.
She believes that mothers who chose to smoke occasionally should
not give up breastfeeding.
Don't give up breastfeeding because you have mastitis.
Not exact matches
Had I
not already
breastfed two children to 2y2m and 2y7m (without any formula whatsoever - my personal goal), I would have probably
given up in despair.
They had her hooked
up to all sorts of stuff (she was stuck in the box, they didn't want her skin to skin with me, wouldn't let me
breastfeed her the first day, and kept her in the nursery, we visited every two hours), had her on an IV and then
gave her formula without my permission, because she had jaundice and low blood sugar at birth.
I didn't even know why I felt so bad about considering
giving up, because everyone, even medical experts, was telling me my baby would be fine if I didn't
breastfeed, and I personally had nothing against formula at all (again, I fully expected to wean to it eventually, probably around the six month mark).
You would
not believe how many mothers I have met who almost
gave up on
breastfeeding and Renee saved the day for them.
I still love
breastfeeding her, & she doesn't want to
give up milk, but I just don't know if I'm capable of
breastfeeding through another pregnancy, & I don't think I have it in me to tandem feed again.
I'm trying to come
up with an analogy to illustrate how ridiculous it is to
give women the message that they must
breastfeed without supporting them, but I can't.
For many, the base assumption is that any mom would want to
breastfeed, but everything surrounding
breastfeeding in our society is so screwed
up that it is reasonable to assume that a mama who can't (or thinks she can't)
breastfeed has, at the very least, been
given bad info somewhere along the line.
If I had
not already been
breastfeeding for seven years, if I was
not a dedicated breastfeeder and if I had
not been so educated myself I would have
given up.
So I always tell new moms that it will get better and that you can always stop later but you can't really start
up again if you stop... so, if you want to
breastfeed,
give you and your baby some time.
But what she took from her experience, and what she expressed, was that http://www.phdinparenting.com/2009/03/08/when-to-
give-
up-on-
breastfeeding/"rel = «nofollow» > all women should
give up breastfeeding after 2 weeks if it is
not working out.
But... but... but... I don't want other women to
give up on
breastfeeding because they believe something to be true that really isn't true and I don't want you to be robbed of the opportunity to nurse your future children (if you want to) because you believe something that really isn't true.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with
breastfeeding, and since
breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong with THEM and clam
up about it while quietly
giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they
give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're
breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two at home).
Reality might
not be as pretty, but with it's truthfulness — and the confidence that truth might instill in a
breastfeeding mother who might otherwise
give up — it is definitely more powerful.
If you're
breastfeeding, consider having someone
give your baby a pumped bottle of breastmilk so that you don't have to get
up overnight.
You don't have to
give up breastfeeding altogether if you don't want to, and you can be confident in your choice to supplement as well as the process.
Breastfeeding isn't always easy and I think every breastfeeding mother has a moment where she feels 100 percent done and wishes she could jus
Breastfeeding isn't always easy and I think every
breastfeeding mother has a moment where she feels 100 percent done and wishes she could jus
breastfeeding mother has a moment where she feels 100 percent done and wishes she could just
give it
up.
But in my last 3 weeks I really don't want to
give up our
breastfeeding moments.
When it's warm your baby will probably want to
breastfeed even more frequently than he usually does to quench his thirst, but don't be tempted to
give him water which will fill him
up while
not providing the nourishment that your milk
gives him.
Many moms assume that this is a sign that baby is weaning and ready to
give up breastfeeding, but this is often
NOT the case!
Also - and I'm
not proud of this - I had a theory that many
breastfeeding «problems» were a result of women waiting too long to have kids; that we were a selfish generation and that my peers would just
give up too easily, at the first sign of trouble; that we couldn't be bothered in the first place.
By that time, there was enough data available to declare safe
not only
breastfeeding without
giving up the injections, but even
not to stop taking them during pregnancy itself.
This is a common reason why women
give up on
breastfeeding and do
not seek help because they think it is normal.
«We were surprised by the large number of concerns mothers had, and we were very concerned by how particular concerns were strongly related to
giving up with
breastfeeding» - such as worries about babies
not getting enough nutrition, said Laurie A. Nommsen - Rivers, the study's senior author, from Cincinnati Children's Hospital Medical Center.
Is it better for a mother to put her pump parts in the fridge between uses, or to wash her pump parts every time as described — and then
give up and stop
breastfeeding altogether because she can't stand over a sink and spend 15 minutes washing pump parts in the middle of the night when she is exhausted and has already been
up for an hour pumping and feeding the baby?
Don't
Give Up on Co-sleeping or
Breastfeeding!
I would like to encourage others who want to
breastfeed in this situation
not to
give up and hope that you get the support that I did.
However, rest assured that other moms just like you have been through struggles with encouraging their children to
give up breastfeeding, and you're
not alone.
But don't
give up trying because before you know it, your baby will have established a
breastfeeding routine you are both comfortable with!
by: Anonymous My one month old son is
breastfed & formula fed but he is always groaning as if he is in pain, he has»
nt pass stool for a day so i
gave him gripe water & it is still happening i then
gave him laxitive drops he passes a little stool but he is still crying at times & muscle - ing
up as if he is straining to do something & thats makes me very uncomfortable, what should i do?
That said, I'm
not going to
give up on
breastfeeding.
Formula - feeding moms catch flack for
not «trying harder» or for «
giving up too soon» when they already possibly feel guilty for being unable to
breastfeed.
If your baby is willing to
give up breastfeeding sessions but isn't interested in drinking from a bottle or cup, put some of your breastmilk on the spout or bottle nipple to
give your baby a taste of what he or she is used to at the beginning of each feed.
And, if you've noticed any of these as a
breastfeeding mama, don't
give up!
With my oldest daughter I just wore my bra that hadn't fit since I was 4 months pregnant with breast pads a
breastfeeding friend
gave me and I was dried
up in about 3 - 5 days.
I wanted to post to let women know
not to listen to everything you hear and to
not give up too fast - it was a torture pumping with a colicky baby, but he actually loves
breastfeeding now.
They ONLY REASON I didn't
give up on
breastfeeding was because I had formula.
The increase in
breastfeeding isn't an anomaly, but a return to the norm, according to International Board - Certified Lactation Consultant Katherine Wilson - Thompson, although, she noted, too many mothers are still
giving up too quickly... (Read More)
If I hadn't, I might have
given up breastfeeding - and years of that close bond.
Do
not be pressured into feeling guilty for supplementing or
giving up breastfeeding... a fed and happy baby is the number 1 priority regardless of whether it's by breast or bottle.
I don't want to
give up breastfeeding yet.
The advert is putting a lot of pressure on the
breastfeeding mother which can make her feel like she is
not doing enough for her baby and just
give up on
breastfeeding.
What they wanted was somebody to show them what to do and to help them, and
not having that help is costing the Government and the devolved Administrations through the outcomes for those babies, as they are more likely to cost the NHS more in later life; through the outcomes for the mothers; and through the outcomes for some mothers who really struggle with having to
give up breastfeeding, and end
up in the mental health system as a result.
It doesn't mean «
giving up breastfeeding or bottle feeding», which is how those of us in the U.S. would use the term.
In the early weeks I felt I had to convince people I actually had a medical issue with
breastfeeding, and I wasn't just «
giving up».
However, I was always intending to combination feed then
give up breastfeeding and switch to formula after a few months as I wanted some freedom.It was my choice to
breastfeed, to
give up having drinks, to do the night feeds, to get my breasts out in public and everything else you mention above (I didn't watch what I ate, if I listened to the HV about
giving up dairy and greens and everything else, then I would have felt like crap) I made that decision and by the sounds of it so did you.
Not wanting to
give up breastfeeding due to discomfort, Debora continued to search for a more comfortable way to
breastfeed.
I know quite a few people who strongly advocate
breastfeeding and are of the opinion that if you formula feed then you're
not doing the right thing, yet they moan constantly about how tired they are, how they've had to
give up things to
breastfeed and how the baby is clingy to them..