Sentences with phrase «not spank your child»

Not only b / c it glorifies spanking, but because of the judgment in blatantly makes about parents who DO N'T spank their children.

So, why is it that with permission from the Bible and advice from learned men, I still can not and will not spank my children?

Of course, I had heard times that parents shouldn't spank their children.

According to the «experts» (and the spanking parents who discuss these things online), you should not spank babies younger than about 15 - 18 months, and you should not spank children past the age of 7 years.

Do not spank your child if it is illegal in your area.

So, I don't spank my children.

Of course, I had heard times that parents shouldn't spank their children.

It is impossible to spank and not spank a child.

Not exact matches

When their child acts up, they walk over and spank them a few times really hard and then tell them not to do it again.

When their children turn out to resent them, they think that they did enough by spanking them and then throw their hands up and say, «you can't win them all.»

The child may well not do X because he / she fears the spanking but eventually, as the child grows up, he / she should learn that there are other better reasons for not doing X (assuming that doing X is indeed bad).

It is like telling a child, «don't do X or I will give you a spanking».

Is a parent a monster for having a child when the parent knows that the child will not be perfect and will have to be taught and disciplined (perhaps with the violence of a spanking).

But it is comforting to realize that the techniques of child - raising once thought to be crucial — breast or bottle feeding, time of weaning or toilet training, spanking or not spanking — are insufficient criteria for explaining behavioral and emotional reactions of children.

about I'm afraid my child will be a spoiled brat if I don't spank him.

Ultimately I believe every parent needs to decide what works best for their children and their family, but to imply — as the «Likey» did on Facebook — that if you spank your child he / she is not going to go to jail, that just seems ridiculous.

But children who were more aggressive at 2 were not more likely to get spanked.

IE spank the child and go to prison instead of not spanking and having the child go to prison.

That doesn't mean I believe in spanking for my children, because I do not.

Humiliations, spankings and beatings, slaps in the face, betrayal, sexual exploitation, derision, neglect, etc. are all forms of mistreatment, because they injure the integrity and dignity of a child, even if their consequences are not visible right away.

I just wanted to point out that many parents spank, not because they can not control their temper, but because they have thoughtfully decided that it is an effective way to discipline their children.

My thoughts are that a very occasional spanking is not likely to cause a child any permanent harm (though I still can't imagine or condone spanking a 1 year old).

There are other ways to discipline children — they just may not be as easy as spanking.

i can't see any situation where spanking a small child is truly warranted.

I'm not saying that nobody should ever spank their children.

Alma also notes that this is certainly not the first time a study has showed the negative effects spanking has on a child.

They aren't thinking it through, what their children would become, or be put through, if they really WERE arrested for spanking.

So, for example, if you tell me that you spanked your child because you were frustrated and at your wit's end and didn't know what else to do, I may think that you made the wrong choice in that moment.

I don't think a young child is able to distinguish that «spanking» is trying to teach him or her a lesson, even if it's done with love on the part of the parent.

In my opinion, substituting spanking with time outs etc might save your child some pain, but won't necessarily make for a whole lot of improvement.

I don't believe that it's ever necessary to spank, punish, threaten, shame or mistreat children in any way.

If you use spanking as a punishment, your child will be confused about why you're allowed to hit and he's not.

I told her I do not spank or slap my child.

Other mothers simply feel that spanking isn't effective: «I don't plan on using spanking — I think it teaches children to «behave» out of fear, not because they've learned right from wrong.»

Additionally, when we use punitive methods such as spanking or timeouts, we aren't necessarily teaching our child.

Sadly, spanking can quickly evolve into abuse, even if the parent does not mean to hurt their child.

Spanking is a form of punishment, not humiliation, and should not be done at the restaurant, store, or in view of the child's other siblings.

Fear does not involve higher - order thinking, but is rather reflexive reactions, which sometimes causes a child to lash out at you or attempt to prevent the spanking.

One of the main problems with spanking is that it doesn't teach your child better behavior.

I was spanked as a child and don't remember it at all.

Spanking: Parenthood's Dirty Little (and Common) Secret This week a study was released saying when children are disciplined using harsh physical punishment like spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or malSpanking: Parenthood's Dirty Little (and Common) Secret This week a study was released saying when children are disciplined using harsh physical punishment like spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or malspanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or maltreated.

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While it may be that corporal punishment leads to decreased aggression, it is also technically possible that decreased aggression in children leads parents to spank (perhaps parents spank because the children are not aggressive enough?)

I have very negative feelings of being spanked as a child, and I would love to not use spanking at all for our children.

The very same parents who say they will never spank their children may have done so in the past but quickly learned that sort of discipline doesn't work for their family, or maybe they didn't like the feeling they got once they spanked their child.

«Many parents who were spanked as children tell us that they do not remember why they were spanked, or what they learned, but that they sure do remember being spanked, how it felt and how angry they were.»

I'm not saying you need to spank your children.

While spanking supporters say the method works well, the reality is that all it teaches the child is to behave and «be good» — not necessarily to understand why they should conduct themselves in a certain way.

Whether or not you overtly oppose any type of spanking, support it in very limited cases, or like many parents, publicly decry its use but privately have used it at least once on a defiant or out - of - control child, the controversy surrounding it isn't likely to end for generations to come.

Some parents believe spanking is fine and it won't harm their children.