It makes
nursing in public so much easier than with a regular t - shirt.
In fact, because she's older now, I don't have to
nurse her in public so much anymore.
Not exact matches
I easily
nursed in public all over the Lower Mainland and beyond — malls, restaurants, church and
so on.
So, Reader, you're telling me that
in 2 years of breastfeeding a child you NEVER
nursed in public?
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and
nurses telling new moms that formula is «just as good» and «not to feel guilty», women getting «the look» for
nursing in public, or feeling weird about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not
in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
My life (and my daughters) is
so much better now, even though I still feel embarrassed that I'm not comfortable
nursing in public.
I was uncomfortable
nursing out
in public spaces, too,
so I tried her on her first bottle of formula.
I'm still breastfeeding for my girls and as far as
nursing in public is concerned I mean I had my babies like boom boom boom right,
so there wasn't a lot of getting out of the house.
What we should do when we see another mom
nursing their kid
in public,
so have you had bad experiences, do you feel like something went wrong, something went crazy for me, like I would be
nursing a baby and I get my Starbucks spilled on me or something and I have to take off my shirt to
nurse my kid but that would be something that would just happen to me.
We need a secret handshake or something,
so let's talk a little bit about our experiences and some of the experiences we've heard about for moms that have been
nursing in public.
My breastfeeding journey has
so far included
nursing in public from one side of the world to the other and back.
I won't be
so paranoid about
nursing in public.
I do think that if it becomes more common and more accepted for women to
nurse in public, then perhaps more women will feel comfortable doing
so.
I'm all for foregrounding it through
public nurse -
ins and children's television and books because we need that to, but I'd
so love to see society progress to the point where that kind of deliberate representation is redundant.
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so moms can breastfeed
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Some mothers make decorative cloth pouches to contain the unit
so that
nursing in public is even more discreet.
So, if busybodies pop up with ridiculous questions like, «Well, if women can just
nurse in public, what's next?
They are
so great for
nursing in public too.
Robin Kaplan:
So today on The Boob Group, we are discussing ways to combat
nursing in public harassment.
While most mothers think that
nursing a baby
in public is their right (and rightly
so), their opponents are equally adamant about opposing it all costs.
I spent a lot of time
nursing in my van or
in a dressing room, not because I'm against breastfeeding
in public, but because it was
so awkward and revealing to get ourselves set up.
So I'm super grateful to have you on our show Michelle, just to share your insight into the ways to combat
nursing in public harassment and also just to bring light into the fact that this is really significant.
[Music] Robin Kaplan:
So we're back with Michelle Hickman, who is the Director of Activism for Best for Babes, and we are talking about ways to combat
nursing in public harassment.
I think women are becoming more comfortable
in telling others that they are still
nursing older babies
so hopefully there will be a shift
in attitudes but I have recently «lost» a few facebook followers after posting a status regarding full - term breastfeeding (I think they were most likely from a giveaway I did ages ago and not on the same page re: bf etc) Apart from that, I love telling Mums on the ward (I'm a bf peer supporter) I'm still feeding as it opens their mind to that possibility and I think I look pretty normal
so it mostly doesn't freak them out My son is far too busy to
nurse out and about and prefers juice
so we've not
nursed in public (apart from support group) since he was 18 mths and that was as I had a blocked duct!
Finding a
nursing cover that makes you feel comfortable
nursing in public is
so important I can't stress that enough.
I don't
nurse her
in public because I feel uncomfortable to do
so... it's more because its such a relaxing and special time for us it's best done cuddled up on the couch!
Miffed by a societal norm that perpetuates the idea that women who
nurse their babies should do
so in hiding, I've thought of a few things you actually don't have to do when breastfeeding
in public.
If lack of societal support for breastfeeding is your issue, then stop making
nursing in public look
so, well, crazy.
So if my being there,
nursing my almost 2 - year - old
in public after all the struggle, is an encouragement to others, then what better way to spend a lovely summer morning?
In May, Lily's second birthday passed, and again, no signs of weaning We have some boundaries set around night nursing (so mama can get some sleep) and around nursing in public, but for the most part, she has full access to the breast and still nurses 4 - 6 times per day, more when she's teething, overstimulated, sick, growing.
In May, Lily's second birthday passed, and again, no signs of weaning We have some boundaries set around night
nursing (
so mama can get some sleep) and around
nursing in public, but for the most part, she has full access to the breast and still nurses 4 - 6 times per day, more when she's teething, overstimulated, sick, growing.
in public, but for the most part, she has full access to the breast and still
nurses 4 - 6 times per day, more when she's teething, overstimulated, sick, growing...
Since he
nursed so often, I believe that I have literally
nursed in public just about anywhere that it can possibly be done!
That one little comment gave me the confidence I needed to keep
nursing her
in public and I have been doing
so ever since.»
Just a fun fact, from a former Cast Member — Disney Cast Members are instructed specifically
in training about the importance of
nursing in public and that it is 100 % legal and acceptable for women to do
so anywhere
in the parks or property.
Tal Eisenberg was
so upset by her experience that she decided not to
nurse again
in public.
So there was no way to work around that without
nursing in public.
No wonder
public nurse -
ins are
so popular
in the US.
To start, you'll need a supportive pillow
so that the baby is right at breast height for
nursings and if you're modest about
nursing in public, you may want to purchase a cover - up — there are quite few available on the market.
If we never feed
in public or if we only feed under a
nursing cover
so that it is not obvious what we are doing, how will we ever normalize it as the normal way to feed babies?
So,
nursing in public too was extremely difficult because I'm not just there yet as far as being able to go without a covering.
It's not directly related to
nursing in public, although mothers afraid to do
so might choose to leave their babies at home when they go out..
Many of her other expenses probably seem a little more reasonable though, including «
nursing bras and tops that flip down or pull aside for easier access; a
nursing smock for modesty
in public; reusable and disposable pads to keep milk from leaking at inopportune times; hands - free bras
so I could work while pumping milk.»
We know it's not going to help towards larger world issues
in life but we do hope that through the power of photography and social sharing, this campaign can make a positive change on the perspective on breastfeeding, quell negativity but most importantly, boost body confidence & empower more mums to breastfeed
in public with ease &
nurse in style whilst feeling great doing
so!
If you're a new mom who is
nursing your baby you may be nervous about doing
so in public.
Most moms who choose to use a cover while breastfeeding
in public do
so because they prefer to be a little more discreet, but have you seen some of the ultra-bright, swirly - designed,
in - your - face
nursing covers out there?
Plus, whether you
nurse in front of your own kids or not shapes what they think about seeing women breastfeed
in public,
so I'd say the problems start at home on this one.
Though I've breastfed two children into toddlerhood, I've never owned a single piece of
nursing clothing,
so instead, I shared with her this article I wrote back
in January 2009 on how I managed the logistics of
nursing in public:
So did you find, that you were
nursing in public sooner with your second, maybe than your first, because I definitely found we were doing that.
My first kind of experience of
nursing in public and feeling kind of confident was when I had gone out with all the other mamas from my birthing class and we went to bubble park and you know we were there for the whole day
so all of us just you know and every time a baby sees another baby eating is like they want to eat to
so.
Even though every U.S. state has laws protecting a woman's right to
nurse anywhere she is legally permitted to be (every state except Idaho
so, you know, get your shit together, Idaho), countless women have stories about being shamed for feeding their baby
in public.
And
so, they set up this hotline where moms who have been victimized through
nursing in public incident can call and report the issue to «Best for Babes» and they are hoping that this will you know, if you can record all of them and keep records of them that they can then share these with the law making and people who will hopefully start putting this into practice into their laws.