For Sandra's visit on the 20th, we performed the tests in the late afternoon with the blackout shades completely closed and with the lamp off, which was her preferred evening reading condition as
she occasionally reads in bed late in the evening with her spouse sleeping.
As some examples, things related to parenting that I've been told or
read that I'm «making a rod for my own back» about: breastfeeding on - demand, letting the baby asleep on me, feeding her to sleep,
occasionally letting her sleep
in our
bed for some or all of the night, choosing not to give her a dummy, and not leaving her to cry.