Not exact matches
Perfectionists tend to set high (or in many cases, unrealistic) standards and strive to be the best
at everything they do, but this desire to be perfect all the time can turn into a fear
of failure, causing perfectionistic individuals to get stuck in the status quo.
Perfectionists can become so paralyzed by their fear
of not being able to meet goals that they will often not take greater risks, preferring to be perfect
at what they know they can achieve rather than take the risk that an endeavor may fail.
While it's true
perfectionists can be rewarded for their flawless performances and may even think their desire to never make a mistake is what makes them more efficient
at their job, the obsession for perfect may indeed stand in the way
of success.
Dr. Martin Antony, professor
at Ryerson University in Toronto and author
of «When Perfect Isn't Good Enough,» says, while some aspects
of perfectionism can be helpful in reaching one's potential, the
perfectionist attitude also has some downfalls that can seriously hinder both personal and professional growth.
One senior manager
at a large accounting firm in Ottawa who asked not to be named recommends asking for drafts
of reports being prepared by
perfectionists.
At their best,
perfectionists are thorough and dependable because
of their attention to detail, while their high expectations feed a strong work ethic.
Gordon L. Flett, a psychology professor
at York University in Toronto, says more than 50 percent
of today's Western school - aged children exhibit the
perfectionist traits hinted
at above.
«The worst type
of perfectionists are those who expect others to match their own impossibly high standards,» notes PsyBlog in its write - up
of Flett's research, so be particularly worried if your
perfectionist tendencies are often directed
at others, not just yourself.
At the same time Niebuhr said that the evangelical churches, coupling pietism and
perfectionist illusions, are tempted to disregard the moral ambiguity in the life
of the redeemed.
I did one cookie sheet
at a time as I am bit
of a
perfectionist when baking and I always place on the top rack in the oven.I added little more coconut oil so that I could form them.
We consulted the
perfectionists at Thomas Keller's Per Se in New York, where chef de cuisine Eli Kaimeh gave us his number - one piece
of advice (and recipe) for the perfect poached egg: Start with a fresh egg.
I have so much more to learn and the
perfectionist part
of my nature is chomping
at the bit to master food photography.
Since his time
at Red Bull, Vettel has carried with him the reputation
of being a frustrated
perfectionist, who is now infamous for complaining over team radio too.
I'm such a
perfectionist that I let my temper get the best
of me
at times.
I was thrilled to see some familiar faces like Tall Tara and Crazy Blogging Canuck (Amber)(both whom I met
at the Rocky Mountain Blogger Bash back in August
of last year), and was glad to put a real live face to a name for peeps like Eat Play Love (Denise), The Casual
Perfectionist (JoAnn), Gwen Bell (the organizer
of the event), Weebles Wobblog (Lori), and This Mama Cooks (Anne - Marie).
Other - oriented
perfectionists in turn have quite an aggressive sense
of humor, which is used
at the expense
of others.
Women who perceive that their sexual partner is imposing
perfectionist standards on them may suffer sexual dysfunction as a result, psychologists
at the University
of Kent have found.
In a research article, Flett and his co-authors Professor Paul Hewitt
of the University
of British Columbia and Professor Marnin Heisel
of Western University note that physicians, lawyers and architects, whose occupations emphasize on precision, and also those in leadership roles are
at higher risk for perfectionism - related suicide, citing the recent cases
of prominent
perfectionists who died by suicide.
I'm not a Montessori
perfectionist, and
at times, several stations will end up out
at one time, but in general, the idea
of stations cuts down on mess.
I feel the same way
at times, especially lately with all the new life changes happening & honestly I think a lot
of bloggers are
perfectionists feeling the same way
at times!
Enjoy a bit
of gardening but not a
perfectionist at anything.
Forced by his role to erase any trace
of the innate charm that makes him such fun to watch, he gives us instead a
perfectionist at work, a frightened man, an agent under orders who must grasp and react to every random sound he hears.
An obsessive
perfectionist who methodically worked in virtual reclusion, director Stanley Kubrick was
at once widely praised for his technical brilliance and scorned for his film's lack
of emotional depth.
And given Jackson's reputation as a creepy,
perfectionist workhorse, it's good to hear people talk about how good he was
at improvisation, and to see examples
of Jackson being soulful, on stage and video sets.
Mila Kunis plays a working mother who rebels against the ridiculous demands
of the
perfectionist moms
at her children's school, joined by two fellow renegades (hilarious Kristen Bell and Kathryn Hahn).
Wong has been widely acclaimed: the visionary auteur who helped catapult Maggie CHEUNG and Tony LEUNG Chiu - wai to international stardom; the first Asian to win Best Director
at Cannes Film Festival (for his 1997 work Happy Together); one
of the top three in Sight & Sound's list
of Top Ten Directors
of Modern Times; and the meticulous
perfectionist behind this year's Berlinale opener The Grandmaster.
The narrative revolves around the art
of a portrait,
at the hands
of a perpetual
perfectionist, thus meaning we have to wait, ages, and ages, and ages, for him to get it right.
At Rockstar, we will always have bandwidth issues because we are
perfectionists and to make huge complex games takes a lot
of time and resources.
Feig is
at his best handling those kind
of grace notes, just as in «Bridesmaids» he would sometimes pause the action for a relaxed, conversational scene between Kristen Wiig and Maya Rudolph or allow nuance for Byrne's
perfectionist second wife.
The teacher culture
at our school is that we have a lot
of perfectionists, who want their curriculum to be really good, who are revising their curriculum all the time.
Whether you're a die - hard fan or a huge
perfectionist or you happen to be a bit
of both, this mug is sure to be
at least a little bit satisfying to look
at.
At Rockstar, we will always have bandwidth issues because we are
perfectionists and to make huge complex games takes a lot
of time and resources.
If you're a
perfectionist like me, you will definitely spend some time on clearing your notoriety level in between missions, or try to stealth kill as much as possible because you are essentially rewarded for staying quiet and evading guards and opponents instead
of taking the easy route and piercing everyone who looks
at you with your shiny sword, making you feel more like an assassin than just a cold - blooded killer.
I'm a
perfectionist and put a lot
of detail and attention in my work, I truly believe in quality and well - made things, so I work as if I were making everything for myself, and get a heartwarming feeling
at the idea
of someone else loving and enjoying them.
Work Starts Here, Tom Lovelace's second solo show
at Son Gallery in Peckham is a highly resolved exhibition from an artist who I imagine, from this carefully arranged show, is something
of a
perfectionist in his practice.
Though the intention
of perfectionists may appear good on the surface — they want to do a good job and please — perfectionism can have a negative impact
at work on productivity, employee relations, efficiency, and more.
Instead
of trying to arrive
at some static point
of perfect balance with each other, which, frankly, is a
perfectionist ideal that's never found in actual life, we're free to enter the mysterious complexity
of the interpersonal dynamic.
In fact, the people who pretend to be perfect rarely have a lot
of friends because
perfectionists keep others
at arm's length so the world doesn't find out they aren't perfect, after all.
I am a fashionista
at heart; psychologist within the communication field; lover
of music & art; suffering from wanderlust and besides that a
perfectionist.
But he's a
perfectionist and admittedly very slow
at finishing a job because
of his perfectionism.