A percentage
of alienators will continue but those parents should be diagnosed with personality disorders.
Preventing or stopping alienation must begin with learning how to recognize the three types
of alienators because the symptoms and strategies for combatting each are different.
Children
of alienators are often unaware of what is happening and naturally side with the alienating parent because of what they have been told or led to believe.
Another example would be Cartwright (1993) who flatulated: «The goal
of the alienator is crystalline: to deprive the lost parent, not only of the child's time, but of the time of childhood.»
This provides the child with a reasonable start in life, which he or she would not have had, had the influence
of the alienator been allowed to continue along with a failure to have any contact with the alienated parent at the same time.
This counterbalances the power and status
of the alienator's voice.
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The unfolding alienation drama, with an analysis
of the parental alienation «tipping point» and the persuasion tactics employed by the
alienator.
Call our BC Parental Alienation Lawyers toll free at 1-877-602-9900 because your children deserve to be protected from parental alienation and just as importantly you need to protect yourself if you have been falsely accused
of being a parental
alienator.
A parent who is the subject (target)
of efforts by an alienating parent, a child, or another
alienator to damage that parent's relationship with the child.
What they see and hear between their parents does not typically damage the children
of the naive
alienator.
Vacillating between impulsively alienating and then repairing the damage with the children is the trademark
of the active
alienator.
Naive
alienators usually don't need therapy but will benefit from learning about parental alienation because
of the insight they will gain about how to keep alienation from escalating into something more severe and damaging for all.
The unfolding alienation drama, with an analysis
of the parental alienation «tipping point» and the persuasion tactics employed by the
alienator.
For example, in a survey
of parents who are targets
of alienation, Baker and Darnell4 found that targeted parents reported that
alienators interfered with parenting time (e.g., scheduled appointments or frequently called during the other parent's parenting time), interfered with contact with the children (e.g., intercepted phone messages or email), interfered with symbolic contact like gift giving (e.g., threw away gifts or sent them back), did not inform them about important information (e.g., school activities, doctor appointments), threatened to take children away from the them, and formed unhealthy alliances with the children such as having had their children spy and report back information to the alienating parent, or sending cell phones with children to call the alienating parent from the target parent's home.
Your mindset, therefore, is to give your children and their
alienator the opposite
of what they expect from you.
There are now a number
of much better and more recent case precedents where the court has changed primary residence or custody from the
alienator to the target parent.
Another key feature
of alienation cases is that the
alienator uses delay tactics.
If you are a parental
alienator, here are a few easy steps that you can adopt so that you can lose custody
of your child and then blame it all on the biased judicial system:
Sadly, there are even more severe and undermining tactics used by the
alienator, these include false allegations
of mental, physical and / or sexual abuse towards themselves or their children.
Jailing the children may only have played into the alienating parent's hands, and allowed the
alienator to further blame the targeted parent for the jailing
of the kids.
Take care
of yourself, live a full life and, like us, your children may come to see through the lies the
alienator told them to find their way back to you.
Future Predictions on the Fate
of PAS Children: What Hath
Alienators Wrought?
There must be a pathological fear
of abandonment as well as the lack
of empathy and the need and ability to manipulate and dominate others.The
alienator may have a «splitting» personality which is a disorder that tends to deny them the ability to hold opposing thoughts, feelings, or beliefs about others.
Over the past several years, an increasing number
of fathers have become
alienators and mothers are finding themselves the target parents.
Unadulterated arrogance: Autopsy
of the narcissistic parental
alienator.
The threat
of punishment for the
alienator must be supported by punishment, including removing the child from mother's care to a neutral place or to the alienated parent, and to use incarceration when necessary.
They see mothers who are
alienators as «victims» to be protected even when they have committed what can only be described as a form
of «emotional abuse».
Confiding in a child and sharing thoughts about the
alienator's distrust and hatred
of the targeted parent.
High - level
alienators possess a single - minded sense
of purpose only found in the most driven individuals.
The three levels
of parental alienation syndrome
alienators: Differential diagnosis and management.
In cases
of severe alienation, though, it is more difficult to change the
alienator's behaviors.
However in cases
of severe parental alienation that involve the targeting parent potentially presenting with personality disorder traits, such interventions will have no effect on the
alienator.
By removing the child, or children, from the influence
of the «brain - washing»
alienator, the child has the opportunity
of experiencing the dedication
of the previously alienated parent and to develop a less biased view
of that parent.
The low - level
alienator is generally supportive
of the other parent and even facilitates the normal growth and development
of that relationship.
The presenter will explain how the policies and practices
of law enforcement and the courts participate in, encourage, escalate, and support the
alienator in the campaign against the targeted parent.
For parents with deficits, or histories
of personality disorders, substance abuse, or violence, or traits as parental
alienators... the standard is very different, and the parenting plan needs to address these problematic issues, too.
Obsessed
alienators operate from a delusional system where every cell
of their body is committed to destroying the other parent's relationship with the child.
Unchecked the
alienator's obsessive, never - ending message
of hate can wreak psychological havoc on a child, creating parenting and relationship problems for a lifetime.
It is usually the
alienator that ends the relationship with the other parent and looks to justify their decission to friends and family by making out the other parent was at fault and not worthy
of any consideration in the process, they can not accept responsability for their own actions.
PAS involves a combination
of a brainwashing by the
alienator parent and the child's own contributions to the vilification
of the target parent.
All access is denied (at least for a period
of time) to enable the target parent to re-establish a relationship with the child free from the
alienator parent continuing to undermine that relationship.
Within those nine cases, the
alienator was ordered into counseling in four
of them and it was «suggested» that counseling be undertaken in two additional cases.
Where the father was the
alienator, he was ordered into some form
of counseling on 7
of the 24 occasions, or 29.2 %.
Judges should start holding the «abusers» or «
alienators» accountable for their actions with fines, and charging with contempt
of court.
This can counteract the many contradictions that the
alienator has used to confound his victims and remove their sense
of control or understanding.
In this tragic case, an
alienator / father had already turned three out
of four children against their mother by the time the case got to trial.
When one looks at the checklists
of what a parental
alienator allegedly does, it is the alienated parent in my case who does the things such as bad mouth me, tell inappropriate things to the children, is verbally abusive to me, etc?
On top
of that, the girl was to have no communication with the
alienator father.
The
alienator hatred for the other parent trumps the so called love
of their children.