Rapee (2003) found no differences in treatment response at post-treatment, and negligible differences at 6 months follow - up between three groups
of anxious children and adolescents; an anxiety disorder and no comorbid disorder group, a more than one anxiety disorder group and an anxiety disorder and comorbid disorder other than anxiety (mood disorder or externalizing disorder) group.
Mothers
of anxious children completed PACE interviews to assess stressors in the 12 - month period prior to the onset of their child's most recent clinical episode.
This is surprising given the increased rates of mental disorders including anxiety, depression, and substance abuse in the parents
of anxious children [22, 23], and evidence that parental psychopathology places children at increased risk for parent behaviour - related stressors, such as interparental conflict [24].
Mothers
of anxious children were interviewed by the first author to ascertain the timing of onset.
The anxious and control samples did not differ significantly on any socio - demographic variables, but mothers
of anxious children were significantly more likely to report a history of mental disorder than mothers of controls (see Table 1).
There is also evidence to suggest that parents
of anxious children are often slightly more anxious than average.
Parents
of anxious children tend to offer protection, allow children to avoid things they're afraid of or leap to their child's defence more often.
Lyneham & Rapee (2006) compared self - help for parents
of anxious children supplemented with three forms of therapist assistance - email, telephone, or ad lib.
Working with parents
of anxious children: Therapeutic strategies for encouraging communication, coping & change.
Here are 5 helpful tips to ease the mind
of an anxious child
You need a special thermometer, it involves terminology like «the soft - ball stage,» and you are likely staring down the barrel
of an anxious child hoping this science experiment produces edible Peppermint Patties.
We spoke to the teachers and made them aware that he was a little bit
of an anxious child, that he really likes his routine.
Taken this finding one step further, anxious fathers may tend to control the coparenting relationship (which was associated with more paternal control
of the anxious child), whereas anxious mothers may not.
Control children were matched to anxious children on sex and age within 4 months of the birth date
of the anxious child (M = 1.94 months, SD = 1.43).
Not exact matches
After all, there are plenty
of hyper -
anxious parents who will do and pay anything to make sure no ailment or discomfort befalls their
children.
If you have a seriously
anxious child, the Times and WSJ article are worth a read in full for a more in - depth understanding
of the science, but the takeaway
of both is clear for those facing more garden - variety youthful anxiety: Be kind but be firm and nudge your kids to face their fears.
, those with an
anxious kid at home have a more immediate concern — how should I handle a
child who is too fearful to enjoy a playdate, order a slice
of pizza, or get through a math quiz without distraction?
They're also
anxious to make sure the
children of the really rich and truly powerful have their places.
Parents know this,
of course, and are therefore understandably
anxious about their
children's future.
For example, a Heritage Foundation document titled «Time to Repeal Federal Death Taxes: The Nightmare
of the American Dream» emphasizes stories that rarely, if ever, happen in real life: «Small - business owners, particularly minority owners, suffer
anxious moments wondering whether the businesses they hope to hand down to their
children will be destroyed by the death tax bill,... Women whose
children are grown struggle to find ways to re-enter the work force without upsetting the family's estate tax avoidance plan.»
I had been told before coming to Nigeria that some
of the traditional African enthusiasm for large families, especially among the educated, was abating; but the Christians I spoke to were
anxious to have as many
children as possible, in hopes that those
children would be able to vote for Christians in future elections.
• We are
anxious about the future, the future
of our
children, our jobs and our health.
NP: * I realize some are going to mention the
child - molesters and those who deny Jesus, etc... But in my opinion this is often an
anxious attempt to find at least one small corner
of solace where we can keep our divisive and exclusive theologies.
Looking at why your
child at a certain age makes you unreasonably out
of sorts,
anxious, or overprotective, can be productive.
But if we really experience the Nativity we are faced with the heartache and suffering embedded deep in the nature
of the event: No decent place for his birth, the fear
of discovery by the wrong people, all the
children who died because he was born, the
anxious flight into a foreign country.
«Tini,» the
child of the church struggle, as he was called, was swinging Gollwitzer's big watch on its chain, while the young pastor waxed ever more
anxious.
The report for the Professional Association for Childcare and Early Years (PACEY) found almost three quarters
of parents feel
anxious about their
child starting school.
If a parent is stiff and
anxious in discussing sex with his
child, no supply
of enlightened ideas will make it a constructive experience.
• Where new mothers are depressed, fathers» positive parenting (self - reported) plus substantial time spent in caring for his infant, was found to moderate the long - term negative effects
of the mothers» depression on the
child's depressed /
anxious mood — but not on their aggression and other «externalising» behaviours (Mezulis et al, 2004).
And colleges and universities spend time and money running seminars led by academics and mental health workers that cater to the concerns and preoccupations
of anxious parents as they leave their
children in the hands
of strangers.
Others said they felt less
anxious about the birth, more confident about bringing up a
child or encouraged in thinking about what is important for the baby, as a result
of their interaction with the Family Nurse.
We look to our
children's achievements as tangible evidence that our own lives have value — and when they fall short
of our expectations, no wonder we feel
anxious.
Let your
child know that the other students are likely to be just as
anxious as she is about the first day
of school.
Oftentimes, this intense degree
of conflict is only evident behind closed doors, and it leaves the
children feeling stressed and
anxious virtually 24 hours a day.
Uninvolved parenting is associated with the worst outcomes for
children: Kids who are raised with this style
of parenting tend to be emotionally withdrawn,
anxious and may be at greater risk for delinquent and dangerous behaviors as well as substance abuse.
The idea
of entrusting their
child with another caregiver can leave many new parents feeling
anxious and guilt - ridden.
I miss my
child, I'm
anxious about opening night, and still there's a vein
of joy running through my day, through these streets.
If your
child's
anxious about standardized testing, one
of the first things to do is to desensitize the test for them.
If you were punished or harshly dealt with about eating and food and table manners when you were a baby and toddler, then your
child stepping out
of line (so to speak) is going to trigger those really
anxious, rage - filled feelings in you.
If
anxious feelings persist, they can take a toll on a
child's sense
of well - being.
A: If a parent is really
anxious about the
child starting out -
of - home care, then she needs to pay attention to the fact that she feels that way.
Your
child may be feeling depressed, angry, confused,
anxious, or any number
of emotions.
Another part
of the same research found that
children interacting with sensitive, calm and less
anxious fathers during a book session at the age
of two showed better cognitive development, «including attention, problem - solving, language and social skills.»
However, as a physician and parent
of a
child with food sensitivities, I would like to clarify some
of your comments to a letter from «Allergy
Anxious.»
«As someone interested in baby experiments what struck me is that Experimenting with Babies is really a book about
child development, though in a sign
of our times
of anxious parenting Gallagher has to issue a disclaimer that if your
child doesn't «measure up» you shouldn't panic.
You may be experiencing a perinatal mood and anxiety disorders if you are feeling
anxious, empty, irritable and angry, or out
of control following the birth
of a
child.
Asking a lot
of questions or acting
anxious or uncomfortable might signal that something is wrong, and in turn make your
child anxious about bedtime.
Unfortunately, this can lead to a mother feeling
anxious about feeding her
child when going out
of the house, even though she has every right to feed her
child without fear
of being judged or even yelled at.
Major life changes can shake your
child's sense
of security, and make her feel confused and
anxious.
If they see that you are
anxious, your
child will feel that there must be something to be afraid
of.