Here's a sample list
of bedtime rules you might consider:
Not exact matches
The parents
of ordinary children had an average
of six
rules, like specific schedules for homework and
bedtime.
«Flexible
bedtime is the
rule in America,» says Dr. Charles Schaefer, director
of a sleep counseling center for parents at Fairleigh Dickinson University in New Jersey.
If you're a new babysitter or the generous host
of a sleepover, I might sneak over and give you a tip for managing my sons at
bedtime: remind them
of their Sleep
Rules.
Establish a
rule that says no electronics within an hour
of bedtime and don't allow your teen to sleep with a smartphone in the room.
Every night before bed, read the «Sleep
Rules» together to remind your child
of your expectations for both
bedtime and overnight.
Just as children need a regular
bedtime, plenty
of sleep, a healthy diet, and other, predictable routines to keep them healthy, and need
rules — such as not crossing the street without an adult or never sharing personal information on the internet — to keep them safe, they need boundaries to give them a sense
of security.
Over the years, I've learned I have to relax
rules about
bedtime, acceptable food choices, and entertainment options for the sake
of family sanity while on the road.
If you are sure you are keeping a consistent daily routine and
bedtime routine for your son, with the same calming nightly routine (warm bath, singing, books, etc.) and
bedtime hour, as well as a consistent nap schedule (even if he takes 5), and he is getting a total
of 12 - 15 hours
of actual undisturbed sleep, and you are still concerned with his irritability throughout the day and his need for swaddling, I would definitely seek a second medical opinion to
rule out that anything medical or perhaps dietary is causing his fussiness.
The general
rule of thumb is to avoid caffeine at least six hours before your normal
bedtime, so it doesn't keep you awake at night.
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The last
of the
rules are simply, not to wait until
bedtime to introduce a puppy to his enclosure, or you will be awake the whole night, listening to his screaming!
This takes the hassle out
of having to go in and create new
rules for every device in your house individually, and ensures that even if your kids do somehow figure out a workaround on their laptop or smartphone, the router puts down another roadblock to get through if they're still trying to get online past their
bedtime.
On modern routers, it's usually pretty easy to set up Quality
of Service
rules (so that certain devices and / or applications on your network get bandwidth preference to ensure smooth operation), set up «
bedtime» enforcement where certain devices can't access the internet during homework or
bedtime hours, enable guest networks for visitors, or even attach USB hard drives for dead - simple Network Attached Storage to store file backups, family photos, or other personal files.
While children can adjust to different
rules, common
rules about the big issues like
bedtimes and use
of electronic devices might help prevent problems
Higher SES parents were more likely to have
rules about
bedtime, food, and chores with a near doubling
of increase across SES quintiles for food
rules (from 56 % to 92 %).
Some parents prefer to consult with one another only on big issues such as academic and behavioral problems at school, while others choose to confer about every detail in a child's life from homework and
bedtime routines to
rules for the use
of electronics and cell phones.
A count
of the number
of «
rules» or routines was derived from the following: «always» responses to question on regular meals at sweep 2, a question on regular
bedtime at sweep 5 and four questions at sweep 5 on whether the child had to tidy up toys, brush teeth, stay in room, and turn off TV or music in room (using 4 - point scale - always / usually / sometimes / never or almost never).
It is critical that co-parents reach an agreement in terms
of rules, discipline, activities, expectations for chores, allowance,
bedtime, carpooling, homework time and after school jobs.