The phrase «
of chaste life» appears in a bill passed on June 25, 1886: Whoever induces any person under the age of eighteen years
of chaste life and conversation to have unlawful sexual intercourse shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison, common jail, or house of correction not exceeding three years or by fine not exceeding one thousand...
It's worth mentioning that while there was no confusion over the sexuality of Benedict Cumberbatch's Alan Turing, The Imitation Game was widely criticised for playing down his homosexuality, instead romanticising his friendship with Kiera Knightley's Joan Clarke to the point that it took the form
of a chaste relationship.
«If blood flows from the womb, let the woman drink dark wine in which the leaves
of the chaste tree have been steeped.»
Great suggestions, and of course, we're big fans
of chaste berry, and what it does for progesterone levels (which benefits estrogen levels, and by extension the rest of your hormonal system).
Use
of the chaste tree berry for medicinal purposes dates back over two thousand years.
Chasteberry, the dried fruit
of the chaste tree, is native to the Mediterranean.
He ignored warnings and even thought
of a chaste marriage (though chastity was not particularly high in his thought at that point).
Thus the instruction is not so much concerned with what might be called personality types but with people who act or are likely to act in ways clearly incompatible with living a life
of chaste celibacy.
The religious origins (preserved in the legend
of a chaste Irish princess who was beheaded on this location by her demented father) are by no means fortuitous to the nature of the arrangement.
Thankfully, there still are alive human beings of this time, men and women full of integrity and character, who practise and promote the value
of a chaste lifestyle.
At the end of the study, the particular recommendations come as no great surprise: seminary training should include the study of asceticism and the regimen of ascetical discipline; assessment should be of the candidate's capacity to live a life
of chaste celibacy and spiritual poverty; wilful deviations from discipline should be taken to indicate the lack of a religious vocation; those who form and mentor students should be sterling examples of ascetical discipline.
Apparently under pressure from OutRage, David Hope, Anglican Bishop of London, has publicly declared his «ambiguous sexuality,» while averring that he has lived a life
of chaste celibacy.
At the same time, and as the NRB rightly notes, there are undoubtedly in the priesthood many men afflicted by same - sex attractions who are nonetheless good and faithful priests living lives
of chaste celibacy.
Such matters might best be handled by someone who can speak from personal experience
of a chaste homosexual life e.g. as one might hope, a priest.
An unnatural look
of chaste perfection?
Not exact matches
So, whatever the reason, there are gay people that will always be gay and the vast majority
of whom are not going to be
chaste and are not going to be able to successfully or happily sustain a heterosexual relationship.
Mormons believe «in being honest, true,
chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men; indeed, we may say that we follow the admonition
of Paul — We believe all things, we hope all things, we have endured many things, and hope to be able to endure all things.
Men, women, and children, young and old have sought and found the grace
of God in order to live
chaste and humble lives.
Equality
of Men and Women [33:35] The submitting men, the submitting women, the believing men, the believing women, the obedient men, the obedient women, the truthful men, the truthful women, the steadfast men, the steadfast women, the reverent men, the reverent women, the charitable men, the charitable women, the fasting men, the fasting women, the
chaste men, the
chaste women, and the men who commemorate GOD frequently, and the commemorating women; GOD has prepared for them forgiveness and a great recompense.
St Augustine had much to say on this matter in De sancta virginitate where he insists that
chaste virginity is the closest imitation
of Christ open to us in this life.
One
of the LDS Articles
of Faith is, in part: «We believe in being honest, true,
chaste, benevolent... if there is anything virtuous, lovely, or
of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.»
At the same time an effective support network for those who wish to live a
chaste life in spite
of homosexual temptations is necessary lest faithful people are left alienated and feeling separated from the Church.
«the classical psychology
of virtue, shame in doing what is wrong and a delight in doing what is right, it insists that hope is at the centre
of the arduous task
of chastity - and that
chaste celibacy is a singular manifestation
of hope for others.»
Chastity, on the other hand, isn't about the state
of your body, but the state
of your soul; it's not just about whether or not you've had sex (although part
of being
chaste is having sex only in the context
of marriage), it's about self - control, respecting your body, and enduring your trials with patience.
Of course it is the case that there are many priests, whose orientation is homosexual rather than heterosexual, who live
chaste and holy lives.
It is the man and the woman to whom the act remains, each time, as fresh and beautiful, as it was the first time, who are able to sustain and perpetuate their first sense
of its glory in the midst
of the sober or bleak or sordid realities
of day to day life, and who can feel, afresh each time, a boundless gratitude for each other and for this blessed source
of sweetness and strength — it is they who are the truly «virgin», the truly pure and
chaste; and (on the Humanist hypothesis) it is they who are the remnant selected by grace to be the true and spiritual seed
of the risen Christ.33
Consecrated virginity can not,
of course, be simply an exterior discipline: without a
chaste mind and heart, the life
of the virgin would not be truly
chaste.
Indeed, fear
of the body's infirmities has taught the voluptuary to observe moderation in debauchery (for the fear was to take the medicine in the wrong way) but it has never made him
chaste.
In fact, Philip and Dunstan continued to live together, in a
chaste, platonic relationship, following the guidance
of their pastor.
Gonnerman, for his part, seems to assume that these categories
of the human person are foregone conclusions in several
of his writings, as well as in his recent discussion
of reparative therapy, in which he calls himself «a
chaste man who is also gay.»
One
of the catechesis's virtues is the way it treats not only sex but also celibacy as open to this giving — and not just the celibacy
of professed religious but the far more common celibacy
of those who are unmarried but seeking to live
chaste lives.
The grandeurs
of life are like the flowers in color and in fate; the beauty
of these remains so long as their
chaste buds gather and store the rich pearls
of the dawn and, saving it, drop it in liquid dew; but scarcely has the Cause
of All directed upon them the full rays
of the sun, when their beauty and glory fail, and the brilliant gay colors which decked forth their pride wither and fade.
With regard to the lives
of Christians, the Doctrine
of Addai says that they were
chaste, circumspect, holy and pure, since they lived like anchorites and chastity without spot.
While Madison's use
of the Christian tradition employs a restricted, even
chaste use
of theological language» the name Jesus Christ is never mentioned, only «divine Author
of our religion»» there can be no doubt that his worldview is Christian.
But using two proof texts, Genesis 3:16 («To the woman he said, «I will greatly multiply your pain in childbearing...»») and Titus 2:4 - 5 («and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be sensible,
chaste, domestic, kind, and submissive to their husbands»), he nevertheless concludes: «Wife, mother, homemaker - this is the appointed destiny
of real womanhood.
Taking its foundation instead from the classical psychology
of virtue, shame in doing what is wrong and a delight in doing what is right, it insists that hope is at the centre
of the arduous task
of chastity — and that
chaste celibacy is a singular manifestation
of hope for others.
You have to come out
of the unscriptural marriage and stay single and
chaste to prove your repentance if your former spouse won't take you back!
A glass
of white wine that tastes like pears is balanced between your fingers, there are
chaste lilacs in the air.
... 3that aged women likewise be reverent in demeanor, not slanderers nor enslaved to much wine, teachers
of that which is good; 4that they may train the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5to be sober — minded,
chaste, workers at home, kind, being in subjection to their own husbands, that the word
of God be not blasphemed:...
We may end our article where we began it, by quoting from the Novena
of Cardinal Newman: Philip, my holy Patron, who wast so careful for the souls
of thy brethren, and especially
of thy own people, when on earth, slack not thy care
of them now, when thou art in heaven... Be to us a good father; make our priests blameless and beyond reproach or scandal; make our children obedient, our youth prudent and
chaste, our heads
of families wise and gentle, our old people cheerful and fervent, and build us up, by thy powerful intercession, in faith, hope, charity and all virtues».
Of course there are
chaste homosexuals in the Church who do live
chaste lives and they need our respect and support.
This is not to say that everyone in those groups is engaged in illicit behavior: many
of them lead
chaste lives.
We continue to invite all qualified young men
of either orientation who desire to lead a celibate
chaste religious life to consider joining us on our mission.
Apparently there were also sexual infidelities: the
chaste suitor willing to enter a monastic marriage
of brother and sister — one
of Sherry's revelations — could not sustain the daily reality
of the marriage bed.
Spouses too, if they are not
chaste in mutual relations, reduce each other to the level
of an object to be enjoyed and not
of a spouse to be revered within the plans
of God.
And yet the call remains the same: to be holy and
chaste before God, however often, much or little we may fall into sinful patterns
of behaviour.
And so Courage was born, a spiritual and fraternal support group
of Catholic lay men and women who aspire to live
chaste lives in accordance with the teachings
of the Catholic Church.
It also teaches that
chaste mutual respect is a condition
of harmony and happiness in marriage.
Joy itself is evangelical, and people are more easily shocked by a happy,
chaste Christian than they are by hearing about statistical studies
of homosexuality or even philosophical arguments, such as sexual acts having intrinsic meaning and being open to new life.
What more perfect environment could there have been for that perfect humanity to have grown and developed in than the gentle but ardent love
of Mary, supported by the
chaste loving and care
of Joseph?