As a parent I have taken care of infants and have been fortunate to take care
of elderly parents when they were bedridden.
Not exact matches
The answer is not, as such histrionics imply, to do less for the
elderly, most
of whom depend on Social Security and Medicare (Dean also makes the point that you don't do the young a favor
when you fail to adequately support their aging
parents).
Hence Rabbit's constant remembrance
of things past: his fading stardom as a high school basketball hero in Mt. Judge, Pennsylvania; his youthful marriage to the store - clerk Janice Springer; their many sexual felicities and infidelities; the deaths that each so horribly caused in their own house; their moral enmeshment in the lives
of their friends and families, especially their
elderly parents and their own son Nelson; Rabbit's jobs as a typesetter and car dealer, and now Janice's belated career in real estate; their financial prosperity during the boom
of the «70s
when they bought vacation homes in Florida and the Poconos; now their fear
of economic ruin amidst the coming Depression.
And today,
when she should be retired and sitting down with a cup
of tea, she still has so much to do, including looking after her
elderly parents and grandchildren.
Consider the young mother who gives up night after night
of sleep to soothe her little one's cries, or the middle aged man who still gets up before dawn each day to provide for his family, or the
elderly parents who give up the peace
of their golden years to welcome the child
of their youth back into their home
when life hits hard.
This is particularly important
when dealing with
elderly parents, who may feel vulnerable because
of their age.
When it comes to taking care
of elderly parents, usually one sibling takes on the task.
For example, adult siblings may be feuding over what to do with an
elderly parent's house
when the deeper issue may be the fear
of losing their
parent.
What I have never considered, until now, is the importance
of these rituals
when our
parents are
elderly and our family connections are tested.