Divorce can bring up a lot
of feelings of shame, fear or guilt.
Others avoid speaking their truth because
of the feelings of shame and vulnerability are just too tough to experience.
I was sick
of this feeling of shame about my body.
Not exact matches
The Seattle - based marketer says his depression stemmed from
feelings of shame, weakness and failure — none
of which particularly inspire confidence in employees, peers and investors, nor make a person want to crawl out
of bed in the morning and captain the ship.
Part
of what gives depression its power is the
shame — and the need to conceal those
feelings.
I was accustomed to
feeling shame in the classroom, and as a result
of that, I was accustomed not to being popular or approved, and that was freeing.»
The victims
of harassment frequently are embarassed or
feel unwarranted
shame.
Smith, who founded the company in 2004,
feels no
shame in Real Matter's utter lack
of sex appeal.
This will overwhelm the
feeling of shame.
Trying to chase them all at once — and inevitably failing to attain them simultaneously — will trigger
feelings of guilt and
shame, ultimately leading to more negative behavior.
I've always
felt some small sense
of shame and culpability for what happened to me.
When it comes to inbound marketing there is often a
feeling of shame and embarrassment when when one
of our colleagues admits that they are using pay - per - click advertising (PPC).
I knew what it was like then, and I know what it's like now to
feel the
shame and vulnerability and the scars
of a poor kid and what it was like to look over the train tracks and see others who have more and realize that for whatever reason our station in life was not like theirs,» Schultz told partners.
The horrible thing is... the rejection
of homosexuality is what forces the gay person into
shame and guilt... which results in suppression
of their natural
feelings... which results in unhealthy, sinful expressions
of those
feelings.
Pope Benedict XVI told a group
of sexual abuse victims Sunday that he
feels «
shame» for what they suffered within the church and will make sure their abusers are brought «to justice,» the Vatican announced.
from the University
of Virginia and has done graduate work in theology at Tuebingen,
feel such deep distress and ambivalence, even
shame, over their decision to stay at home for the sake
of their children.
The scripture dealing with Judas having been better off not being born, simply relates to the
shame he will
feel in due time when he is resurrected on earth to find earth's billions acknowledging him as the betrayer
of the world's saviour, yikes!!
Feelings of obligation or duty in this group are frequently coupled with anticipation of feelings of guilt or shame if one fails
Feelings of obligation or duty in this group are frequently coupled with anticipation
of feelings of guilt or shame if one fails
feelings of guilt or
shame if one fails to act.
First I want to say that I'm not saying Atheist is a religion in a bad sence or to try and produce some sort
of shame only that it falls under the definition
of a religion and wondering how it would change your
feelings \ view
of Atheism even if everybody considered it a religous view, if it's something you believe to be true (that there is no god) what does it matter if someone labels it as your world view?
The problem is that we are prone to rejecting it out
of feelings of self - loathing and
shame, whether caused by others or ourselves; or out
of a desire for autonomy and a rejection
of God's authority.
When men, who have agency and voice, are silent against the sexual predation
of women, they not only contribute to the
shame that victims
feel, they empower the predators who use wealth and power to continue their assault on our sisters created in the image
of God.
The bad part was the sense
of shame some Christians made me
feel about my emotional struggles, but as I discovered how God views healing, I realized it wasn't my faith that was flawed; it was their views toward mental health and faith.
- The
shame of being a prostitute.These memories surge up, and then a
feeling of extreme sorrow, a sense
of hopelessness, resignation, and helplessness sets into their lives.
And yet over the course
of writing my blog, I have found that vast numbers
of people struggle with fear, guilt,
shame, and all sorts
of terrible thoughts about God and others, and as I have learned more, I find that many
of these
feelings come from a faulty view
of God.
The thing that really raises my blood pressure is that if I said «It seems like you're threatening us» «it seems like you're
shaming us» «It seems like you're trying to control us» I can already hear and see the response
of «I'm so sorry you
feel that way, I certainly never wanted to communicate those things.....
I don't care how many times or in how many forms the scenario plays itself out: It is an outrage, a
shame and a scandal and a sin, that the old and ill should
feel that they are alone with their demons, that those demons render their lives worthless, and that the only sensible, charitable thing to do is to take themselves and the demons as far out
of everyone else's way as possible.
Like the part about women - blaming and
shaming combined with the pastor digging up offenses from the past, referencing an emotional distance he
feels from us as we leave, citing his own pastoral involvement and authority in the decisions
of our lives up to this point, threatening to talk to the pastor
of the church we're visiting to share his «concerns,» and suggesting that I'm just a weak mess
of emotions and that's why I can't handle the life - sucking horror that has become sundays at this church.
Much in the same way that you would be horrified to find that your sibling, or parent, or uncle, or one
of your mates, had engaged in the sexual assault
of anyone, and would
feel shame for the behaviour
of your relative / friend, so such disgusting actions by Catholics appal and horrify other Catholics.
Oh, it's great at the time; but when you think about it the next day at work, you
feel shame and guilt, and an array
of sadness.
... and, it's no one person or post or thing, and its not that I have all the answers, or that I live my beliefs the way that I aspire to... I just see lots
of really great - hearted people tying themselves in knots,
feeling shame and guilt and depression and anger... and at times it seems it is because they are trying to differentiate between seas and lakes and rivers and oceans... instead
of just going for a swim.
«So most
of us hide the reality
of who we are, what we've done, and the
shame we
feel.
If the pastor has a keen awareness
of what we have come to regard as the interpersonal hurt
of his patient; knows the desperate and yet fatal need
of the patient to evade further pain, no matter by what means, and often by striking out and hurting loved ones;
feels something
of the almost overwhelming and intolerable anxiety the patient experiences; is not too shaken by the terror evoked through what Kierkegaard expressed as «shut - up - ness unfreely revealed»; and can accept the consequent intense
feelings of guilt and
shame which isolate the patient from himself, from others and from God, then his ministry has within it the necessary element for a supportive and creative experience for the patient.
The author explores the notions
of feelings, virtue,
shame, loyalty and forgiveness, as well as the gift
of self and the meaning
of the body.
Therefore one could rightly say that in truth it is most beneficial
of all to a man to
feel shame before one who is already dead.
These words may be
of little comfort for the young woman who still struggles to believe that her feminine qualities are valuable to God, or to the young man who has been made to
feel shame because he'd rather visit an art museum than watch a cage fight.
I had a wake - up call a few weeks ago because I was
feeling mad at my own church for making me so busy, and I was
feeling shame at the reality that I spend most
of my time with Christians, and most
of those Christians go to my church.
Here there is a good summary
of thepain the disorder causes, which Hill has been trying to describe throughout the book, namely «the struggle to be faithful to the gospel's «terrible decree» that we must hold in check our strongest urges and not engage in homosexual activity; the struggle to belong, to find the end
of loneliness; and the struggle with
shame, with nagging
feelings of being constantly displeasing to God» (p. 127).
Surely you're not saying that teaching sex only within marriage was the cause
of her
shame, because if so ANY teaching about «safer» sex would have had the same result... because she was used she would have still
felt used.
This survey confirmed what I was seeing in the therapy room, but nonetheless made disturbing reading: 49.8 per cent reported mental health problems as a result
of their behaviour, such as anxiety and depression; 65 per cent struggled with low self - esteem; 70 per cent
felt shame and 19.4 per cent had experienced a serious desire to commit suicide.
For example, if someone
feels ashamed
of being sad, she will be likely to deny her sorrow in order to avoid the
shame linked to it.
I couldn't deal with it... I became very angry and the amount
of shame and guilt you
feel when you are doing things that you know aren't healthy and you cant tell anybody, and it becomes for me a source
of anger.»
Emotional abuse --- religious concepts such as sin, hell, cause
feelings of guilt,
shame, fear, and other types
of emotional «baggage» which can scar the psyche for life.
And we all
feel the pressure, the intimidation, the
shaming, the denunciations
of dissent emanating from establishment institutions, even the Supreme Court.
Rowe recalls
feeling remorse and
shame, unable to forgive himself for murdering another young man — and afraid
of retaliation.
I'm terrified
of myself I was always to blame Deep down in my soul made to
feel so much
shame Sometimes I am sinking into a deep, deep dark hole It's a rocky road ahead not
feeling very close to God
Accordingly, I experienced the larger social order as squeezing something out
of me, pressing something in on me and eventually depressing into me
feelings of shame about wanting to do things and be things that «weren't for girls.»
Kinda makes a poor judge
of character, so if you are willing to debate freely in a conversation on life, the world, the pursuit
of knowledge, and all the unknowns in the world with an underage male, then I encourage you to continue the debate freely, but if you
feel outmatched in a knowledge criteria and you wish to avoid
shame of not understanding enough or even not knowing enough (because they are different) then i will gently step aside as not to harm your ego.
This is a
shame, not only because
of the
feelings of frustration and inadequacy it can cause people like me, who don't fit the devotional mold, but also because Jesus showed He was more than capable
of loving and ministering to both
of these spiritual styles.
In a recent discussion on «impunity» against the former corrupt political regime in Argentina, individual after individual present spoke out in
shame against their silence in the face
of oppression — each one
felt that they had succumbed to the fear
of repression, maybe
of the possibility
of «disappearance» — but now they recognized that their silence had sanctioned so much
of the violence.
Here are some
of the factors which threaten selfesteem in the classroom: (a) Persistent criticism and
shaming — Severe criticism makes the child
feel rejected as a person; the need for recognition is so intense that a child will seek it in unconstructive ways if he can not get it by achievement.