parenting, parents
of gay children, The Huffington Post,.
Christian parents
of gay children should be stricken will guilt for leading their children astray.
Here in the U.S., homeless and suicide rates among LGBT youth remain shockingly high, in part because conservative Christian leaders like John McArthur instruct parents
of gay children to «hand them over to Satan» and refuse to associate with them.
As any mother
of a gay child or survivor of sexual abuse will tell you, when we talk about sexuality, we are talking about real people, real bodies, real families, real lives.
As the mother
of a gay child, I am appalled that this person who claims to follow Jesus would advocate beating a child.
Not exact matches
While their story
of being «accidental
gay parents» drew the attention
of international media, they decided to expand their family by having their first biological
child together.
In 1999, Reverend Jerry Falwell accused the character Tinky Winky
of being «a
gay role model» for
children because he carried a handbag and had triangular antenna, which he suggested represented the
gay pride symbol.
Alex told me about a
gay friend who had been booted from his position in Hillsong's
children's ministry after he came out and another who, after coming out to Hillsong leadership, was relieved
of his duties as an usher.
Liberal MLA Mary Polak (Langley) was instrumental as a Surrey School Board trustee in banning
gay - positive books from Surrey Schools: The book ban was later struck down by the Supreme Court
of Canada which said «instead
of proceeding on the basis
of respect for all types
of families, the Board proceeded on an exclusionary philosophy, acting on the concern
of certain parents about the morality
of same - sex relationships, without considering the interest
of same - sex parented families and the
children who belong to them in receiving equal recognition and respect in the school system.»
B.C.'s Representative for
Children and Youth agrees that school district policies that specifically deal with sexual orientation and gender identity are an important component
of helping
gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered youth feel safe in their schools.
To endorse
gay marriage, abortion and distruction
of innocent human life, no matter what color
of that
child is unnatural and evil.
I'm not even going to address how ridiculous that argument is in light
of the issues
of overpopulation or the fact that
gay people can indeed have
children (my wife and I are planning to have five), or how many orphans there are in the world that could use a loving home.
I think that our
children's
children will look back at history and see the cause
of the AIDS epidemic in America for what it was... not just the result
of unprotected sex between promiscuous
gay men... but the result
of religious and social persecution
of gay people that pushed them into unhealthy lifestyles and expression
of their sexuality.
A
gay man or woman's love for their partner is nothing like the rape
of a
child... it's disgusting that you would even insinuate that... you have believed a lie.
In 2005 the APA famously articulated the «no difference» thesis: the moral equivalence
of children's outcomes in regards to heterosexual and
gay parenting.
As Sullivan puts it, there is «more likely to be a greater understanding
of the need for extramarital outlets between two men than between a man and a woman; and again, the lack
of children gives
gay couples greater freedom.»
Thus Sullivan notes that the existence
of gay marriage would be an «unqualified social good» for homosexuals in providing role models for
children coming to terms with their sexuality.
Of course, for many who are close to the issue, it is about a loved one, often a
child, who is
gay.
In outlining the judicial decisions leading to same - sex marriage, Reilly demonstrates how the invocation
of privacy law to protect
gay sex quickly obscured the moral dignity
of persons, especially
children.
But the preponderance
of child seex abuse in this country is not perpetrated by
gays or clergy.
As
gay marriage «sank into the subtle background consciousness
of a culture, its influence would be felt quietly but deeply among
gay children.
(i) a woman's right to choose; (ii) teaching evolution in school; (iii) medical immunization
of teen girls against HPV; (iv) assisted suicide; (v)
gay marriage; (vi) my right to view art and theatre deemed «offensive,» «blasphemous» or «obscene» by theists (vii) basic $ ex education for older school
children; (viii) treating drug abuse as principally a medical issue; (xi) population control; (x) buying alcohol on a Sunday; (xi) use
of condoms and other contraceptives (xii) stem cell research.
Yeh, we saw how wonderful Christians were, when they stood in long lines at Chick - Fil - A to punish the
gay parents
of children.
For example,
gay marriage should be legal unless someone can provide proof
of why it shouldn't be, but a man marrying a
child should be illegal because we have facts backing that up.
Gays can't get married, women make less money, millions
of children don't have access to healthcare, and cops can stop and frisk anyone they feel like in some places.
What logical, caring person can support slavery, discrimination against women, discrimination against
gays, discrimination against the handicapped, beating
children, beating elderly female slaves without punishment, supporting a god who would let the family
of his greatest supporter be killed to WIN A BET, etc..?
I can't wait to see the new text books that
children ages 5 an up must now read which glorify the achievements
of gay.
What kind
of idiots take their
children to
gay pride parades?
The website «Love One Another: A Discussion on Same - Sex Attraction» www.mormonsandgays.org, outlines the church's position on «same - sex attraction» and provides readers with a host
of videos from «church members who are attracted to people
of the same sex, and conversations with the loved ones
of gay spouses,
children, or grandchildren who are dealing with the effects
of same - sex attraction in their own lives.»
Were the television networks, the movie producers, and the editors
of the prestige papers really in charge, there would be no pro-life movement, active euthanasia would be the uncontested law
of the land, every school
child would be indoctrinated in the joys
of gay sex, home schooling would be prohibited, church schools would be run by state agencies, government day care for preschool
children would be mandatory, churches would not be tax - exempt, and smoking anywhere would be a criminal offense.
He spent much
of his life dealing with said anxiety by beating his wife and
children before moving on to verbally abusing
gay man and lesbians.
He is, according to National Journal, «perhaps the most extreme»
of a network
of U.S. evangelicals who, having failed in their crusade against all things
gay at home, travel abroad to connect with anti-
gay activists and arm them with arguments that, for example, homosexuals will seduce their
children, corrupt all
of society, and eventually take over the country.
The experts have stated that social science has shown that the concerns often raised about
children of lesbian and
gay parents — concerns that are generally grounded in prejudice against and stereotypes about
gay people — are unfounded.
studies have to be donwe using a respectful number... the number
of gays having
children is too low and too new to see whats going on..
David Thorstad, a spokesman for the h0m0s rights movement and NAMBLA, clearly states the objectives: «The ultimate goal
of the
gay liberation movement is the achievement
of s freedom for all — not just equal rights for «lesbians and
gay men, but also freedom
of s expression for young people and
children.»
I am a straight person who has been blessed with the presense
of Abba's
gay children in the past.
But there can be specific Church forms
of homophobia too: pressurising us to change our sexual orientation (although people who want to seek change in their orientation should be free to do so, and some find that their sexuality does change); saying that
gay people will go to hell; not permitting us to work with youth or
children (assuming
gay people are more likely to be predatory or paedophiles); and holding us back from ministry roles.
I don't know what God thinks, but to me if
gay marriage is about family life and the possibility
of raising
children (in other words a desire on the part
of gays to be accepted into married life as it exists) then I think it is a good thing for the same reasons that I think hetero families are good and necessary.
It is christians who are out attempting to impose their views (ie: denial
of gay rights b / c their book apparently says so; denial
of women's rights; using the threat
of hell; teaching dis - proven creationism to innocent
children) on the public.
Our entire society groans while we wait for just and compassionate laws that will respond to the need: according to recent American Bar Association statistics, the U.S. is home to between 6 and 10 million
children of gay, lesbian or bisexual parents.
After decades
of hearing messages from high church officials that lesbian and
gay people were a threat to humanity and a danger to
children, I had to rub my eyes a few times to make sure that I was reading this new, more positive language correctly.
A statement in support
of allowing
gay children to join the Boy Scouts would be another step in that softening.
the
child YOU mentioned has issue
of being TRANGENDER... not
gay..
At Fordham University in New York, a Catholic school, a proud mother
of a grown
gay son drew a standing ovation when she told a story about discovering the effect
of church teachings on her
child.
Old farts like me have many stories
of gay men marrying straight women, having
children, and the marriage never worked out long term.
Most wars are religions that fight one another... Pray for Peace??? what the hell kind
of church can say that and then say kill
gays??? Let us remember there are those in the religious order who molest your
children and hide under the sheets so nobody can find them..
Half
of gay males experience a negative reaction from parents when they come out, and in 26 %
of those cases, the
gay child is thrown out
of the home.
Thus educational initiatives are already underway to introduce young
children to positive examples
of «
gay and lesbian» relationships [11].
The findings add to past research suggesting
gay men haven't died out, because female relatives
of gay men tend to have more
children on average than other females.
[12] This link has been encouraged by some groups as one which should be made with school
children, for example see www.schools-out.org.uk/teachingpack/awholeschoolissue.htm which encourages schools to have «inclusions
of oppression
of gays and lesbians when looking at the Holocaust in history.»