When your wife tells you that you're a slob, instead
of getting defensive, you need to get inquisitive.
Instead
of getting defensive, try listening to your partner and empathizing with how they feel.
That way you'll be able to come from a place of compassion, instead
of getting defensive when he freaks out about the dirty dishes in the sink.
Yes, at times they shot the lights out, but they built much momentum off
of getting defensive stops rather than making threes.
If he hasn't fixed the problem
of getting a defensive midfielder in over a decade why do you think he will fix all our problems now?
Then, when you come back, the constructive criticisms will surface as such, and you can respond with openness and grace instead
of getting defensive.
If she's not happy with her hair, instead
of getting defensive, the stylist will get another one to help fix it.
Instead
of getting defensive, you'll be able to really listen to other people — and moreover, other people will be able to really listen to you.»
Rather than feeling the hurt and taking an empowering action to heal it, many
of us get defensive and angry and project those feelings onto the people around us.
We are all wired to protect ourselves — so most
of us get defensive at least sometimes.
Not exact matches
According to Julie Rains
of OPEN Forum, some
of the tell - tale signs
of an unhealthy company culture include playing favorites, a lack
of constructive feedback and criticism, small issues that
get repeated over and over again, employees who are
defensive and frequent bending
of the rules.
Some
of the most cringe - worthy moments Bryce Benjamin has witnessed involved people who
got defensive and argued with the judges.
The Tampa Bay Buccaneers managed to trade back five spots in the first round and still
get one
of the top
defensive linemen in this year's class.
On the subject
of relative performance
of defensive strategies, the effects
of compounding
get particularly interesting.
But I offer a
defensive strategy overlay that is designed to
get my clients out
of the way
of economic recessions.
In the spirit
of trying to
get defensive with sector allocations, the performance
of the utilities and telecom sectors are telling.
Using the most extreme analogy possible in an argument usually produces nothing productive — it only makes the other side
of the debate
get more
defensive and inflammatory.
You
got immediately
defensive when the subject
of someone knowing your life, but have no problem claiming they are wrong which requires you knowing more about their lives than them.
So when liberal scholars and agnostics criticize the Bible and question its authority, we
get defensive, not so much because
of our theology
of the Bible, but because it feels like they are attacking a loved one.
You
got immediately
defensive when the subject
of someone knowing your life < - OK..
Usually, my first reaction to these kinds
of messages is to
get defensive and frustrated by the fact that critical thinking, compassion, and honesty are so often presented as liabilities to faith within the conservative evangelical community.
At crossings she always entertains the possibility that a cab could be running the light; she is constantly aware that her high heels could
get caught in a sidewalk grate; she carries her purse in a
defensive mode, being quite aware
of the possibility
of finding herself jostled in a robbery attempt; etc., etc..
Then when someone challenges you to reconcile, heal and learn to serve others, you
get defensive and pollute the board with a stream
of profanities.
It's because it shines a light on the fact that a lot
of christians use the bible out
of context to support their positions or to degrade the positions
of others, and rather than using that lesson to make themselves better people, they
get defensive.
The idea that just because someone doesn't share the same god as you automatically exempts them from discussing the topic
of religion, faith and gods, is as shallow and
defensive as it
gets.
It takes skill to listen well to another, to avoid
getting defensive, and to see situations from the other's point
of view.
I will tell you right now that he will most likely
get very
defensive, argumentative, and critical
of you.
Yet, when we are confronted about Joshua and similar other characters, we
get all huffy and
defensive of «The Bible».
You are so ready to jump down the throat
of anyone who even implies that the Church shouldn't do something and you
get uber
defensive.
Following my own path (and not going through the motions) was a hard decision but your writings and art sure help I don't think any from my previous church are interesed in my independent journey... and if I happen upon any
of the members they are usually quite
defensive about the church so I agree your advice is good to not
get into confrontation / discussions.
Granted, I
get defensive and sarcastic as much as anyone in many
of my posts (for which I sincerely apologize), but my real goal is to find folks that might be interested in exploring the possibility and
get them info.
Obama's arrogance will expose everyone — thousands
of vegetables - he
got defensive and now can push all his potatoes to be placed under earth.
I
got extremely
defensive and explained all
of the awesome benefits I
got from being vegan.
Elsewhere, UCLA, long thought to be Pac - 12 South favorites, needed the help
of three
defensive touchdowns in order to
get by feisty Virginia.
With the emergence
of Francis Coquelin as Arsenal's first - choice
defensive midfielder and with the likes
of Aaron Ramsey, Jack Wilshere and even Santi Cazorla, who has grown accustomed to playing a deeper role, fighting for a place alongside the young Frenchman, the Gunners captain will certainly find it difficult to
get into the first - team.
Real couldn't wait to
get rid
of the Greater Portuguese Gob because
of his Gob and his
defensive tacktics.
I believe Koeman might have
gotten this team over the line, he would
of added some
defensive stability and a bit
of fight, plus he would have
gotten a striker in on day one.
referring decisions also go in our favour, for instance that dortmund goal sanogo scored was clearly offside, these things are apart
of football, GREAT teams overcome these obstacles, GREAT teams do not crumble with 3 or 4 goal leads, GREAT teams do not concede 3 + goals in 40 mins REGULARLY, GREAT teams average more than one tackle every 90 mins, GREAT teams don't need more 7 clear cut chances to score, united have academy players in defence, in fact our
defensive players are 15x better but VAN GAAL will
get a result, united have had an injury list just as long if not longer than ours but VAN GAAL will
get a result, united have just gone through a managerial shift but VAN GAAL will
get a result, so why on earth are united in the title race and not arsenal?
Also, because I can never
get enough
of this, here's a Baseball America article that reports on Arenado's
defensive future, which wasn't very bright at the time:
And while there might be
defensive limitations and other concerns with a couple
of these players, you can see how opposing pitchers wouldn't look forward to facing this troika after the first two hitters
of the game
get on.
i hate a one goal lead and do
defensive substitutions, you loose pocession and spent 15 ″ trying to keep the ball out
of the net, then if they score, you have no juice to
get a win, terrible... arteta?
Plus, while I'm belaboring the point, his first offensive coordinator hire suggested he might be more
of the «just have the offense
get out
of the defense's way» style
of defensive coordinator - turned - head coach — a Will Muschamp, if you will.
We need at least five quality players a defender, goalkeeper, a
defensive midfielder, a attacking midfielder and a striker Though winning the f.a cup did take a bit
of pressure
of him only time will tell There
got to be a new structure at the club, and
get rid
of the also rans like Lucas Perez, Jenkinson, debuchy and sagono for starters
Mancity although quite blessed in the
defensive midfield area has added fernando for added steel, he is
getting acquainted with the league Manu has bought in a creative but an all round combatant name Herrera, reminds me
of Ramsay, Manu was obviously lacking a spark, now they have it.
I
get that he is an attacking player but what good is a player who creates 1 goal and then because
of his
defensive incompetence costs us 1 goal?
Chambers for Walcott would have helped in the context
of getting height into the
defensive line.
If we draft Chubb, you're then basically
getting a Michael Strahan type
of player that a team can build a championship like
defensive around.
I'd just like to see Wenger address the
defensive side
of things and
get a rock in the heart
of defence and an enforcer in midfield..
I'm
getting annoyed that people fail to notice the positive he did recently (he started spending money, keep the team in tact,
getting a new physio in, try to win game ugly when result is
getting bad) while it is very fair points that he made very wrong judgement in not
getting enough
defensive cover, and his players are naive at time in term
of tactics.
It forced Arlovski to go into a
defensive position and Struve, big as he is, managed to
get up and drape himself over the top
of Arlovski with 2:30 to go in the round.