In my experience, the biggest cause
of giving up breastfeeding is giving up hope because of inaccurate information.
It may not be that much but compared to 3 ccs in the beginning, I'm glad I forged on instead
of giving up breastfeeding completely.
It's been two months since we brought the baby home and my 3 year old is showing no signs
of giving up breastfeeding any time soon.
Not exact matches
Lots
of different recipes w substitutions for all food allergies, when I
gave up dairy & soy while
breastfeeding my son, that blog was so helpful!
To the best
of our ability, their father and I raised our children to see both parents working in the home and without as normal, and when they grew
up, our daughters, our only children, had no second thoughts about
giving time to their careers, nor to the advantages
of breastfeeding and the importance
of providing healthy, whole foods to their families.
They had her hooked
up to all sorts
of stuff (she was stuck in the box, they didn't want her skin to skin with me, wouldn't let me
breastfeed her the first day, and kept her in the nursery, we visited every two hours), had her on an IV and then
gave her formula without my permission, because she had jaundice and low blood sugar at birth.
I still love
breastfeeding her, & she doesn't want to
give up milk, but I just don't know if I'm capable
of breastfeeding through another pregnancy, & I don't think I have it in me to tandem feed again.
One example I can think
of is the story
of a woman who tried really hard to
breastfeed and eventually
gave up after 7 or 8 weeks.
I make it a point to talk about why I
gave up on
breastfeeding so early - because I know (now) that I was wrong about a lot
of things - and I hope that it will somehow help other moms (and myself next time around).
Then she posted the results and her interpretation
of her findings in When to
give up on
breastfeeding.
But... but... but... I don't want other women to
give up on
breastfeeding because they believe something to be true that really isn't true and I don't want you to be robbed
of the opportunity to nurse your future children (if you want to) because you believe something that really isn't true.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with
breastfeeding, and since
breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead
of a learned behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong with THEM and clam
up about it while quietly
giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag
of formula samples they
give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're
breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one
of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two at home).
If you're
breastfeeding, consider having someone
give your baby a pumped bottle
of breastmilk so that you don't have to get
up overnight.
I was afraid
of what friends would think if they saw bottle paraphernalia on my registry; that I might be setting myself
up psychologically for failure, or
giving my baby «nipple confusion» (an inability to go from artificial nipple to actual nipple) as some
of the
breastfeeding books had suggested.
Also - and I'm not proud
of this - I had a theory that many
breastfeeding «problems» were a result
of women waiting too long to have kids; that we were a selfish generation and that my peers would just
give up too easily, at the first sign
of trouble; that we couldn't be bothered in the first place.
A good friend
of mine, who was super committed to
breastfeeding all through her pregnancy, nearly
gave up before her baby was 3 weeks old.
«We were surprised by the large number
of concerns mothers had, and we were very concerned by how particular concerns were strongly related to
giving up with
breastfeeding» - such as worries about babies not getting enough nutrition, said Laurie A. Nommsen - Rivers, the study's senior author, from Cincinnati Children's Hospital Medical Center.
Is it better for a mother to put her pump parts in the fridge between uses, or to wash her pump parts every time as described — and then
give up and stop
breastfeeding altogether because she can't stand over a sink and spend 15 minutes washing pump parts in the middle
of the night when she is exhausted and has already been
up for an hour pumping and feeding the baby?
I agree that you should leave the issue
of breastfeeding out
of the pediatricians office most
of the time (mine suggested I
give up altogether because it was too hard on me.)
Helping them figure out how to manage the judicious use
of a bottle or a pacifer can make the difference between continuing to
breastfeed and
giving up completely.
For that reason, a lot
of breastfeeding mums
give up breastfeeding prematurely.
She has found that a large number
of moms either choose to
give up dairy while
breastfeeding or are advised to
give up dairy by their pediatrician, so she decided to make all Boobie Bars ® vegan.
If your baby is willing to
give up breastfeeding sessions but isn't interested in drinking from a bottle or cup, put some
of your breastmilk on the spout or bottle nipple to
give your baby a taste
of what he or she is used to at the beginning
of each feed.
Where knowledge
of breastfeeding has been lost, managing sore nipples, engorged breasts, blocked ducts, and mastitis can turn into a big problem often leading mothers to
give up breastfeeding.
And, if you've noticed any
of these as a
breastfeeding mama, don't
give up!
Plus, since you can store breast milk for
up to a year depending on your freezer, you can create a nice stockpile
of milk to continue to
give to your child long after you stop
breastfeeding.
Also, if you are despairing over lots
of different bottles and your
breastfed baby is turning their nose
up to them all,
give the Lansinoh Momma bottle a try, it really is as close to real deal as you can get it.
If I hadn't, I might have
given up breastfeeding - and years
of that close bond.
It is very positive that we are promoting and encouraging
breastfeeding, but there is a fine line; some women feel that they can not
give up breastfeeding in the very early days without experiencing a huge amount
of negativity.
Do not be pressured into feeling guilty for supplementing or
giving up breastfeeding... a fed and happy baby is the number 1 priority regardless
of whether it's by breast or bottle.
I myself, did almost
give up on
breastfeeding that first year
of my infant's life more times than I can count.
How very very sad to read that you trusted the information you were
given and it was wrong AND BULLYING, to deny babies the opportunity to feed on formula is an absolute disgrace, My daughter had a nightmare time with her first born, trying to
breastfeed, eventually in the middle
of the night, when we were sure he was starving, we made a bottle
up and fed him, he was so very grateful,
The advert is putting a lot
of pressure on the
breastfeeding mother which can make her feel like she is not doing enough for her baby and just
give up on
breastfeeding.
It doesn't mean «
giving up breastfeeding or bottle feeding», which is how those
of us in the U.S. would use the term.
However, I was always intending to combination feed then
give up breastfeeding and switch to formula after a few months as I wanted some freedom.It was my choice to
breastfeed, to
give up having drinks, to do the night feeds, to get my breasts out in public and everything else you mention above (I didn't watch what I ate, if I listened to the HV about
giving up dairy and greens and everything else, then I would have felt like crap) I made that decision and by the sounds
of it so did you.
Without the assistance
of the
breastfeeding counsellors at the Princess Royal maternity hospital in Glasgow, who sat with me through the tears and the pain, I may have
given up myself.
Unfortunately, this happens all to often: statistics show that nearly half
of all new moms who start
breastfeeding at birth
give up within the first 6 weeks.
Most women trying to
breastfeed for the first time feel isolated in their efforts and are unaware
of the fact that many other mothers are experiencing the same struggles as them, and I greatly believe this is the first reason why most new mothers prematurely
give up on the idea
of breastfeeding.
Despite
breastfeeding's multitude
of health benefits, why else are so many new mothers
giving up so quickly on
breastfeeding?
I know quite a few people who strongly advocate
breastfeeding and are
of the opinion that if you formula feed then you're not doing the right thing, yet they moan constantly about how tired they are, how they've had to
give up things to
breastfeed and how the baby is clingy to them..
I just hoped to recover soon and start
breastfeeding again.But he has got used to bottle & is not ready to feed from the breast.Finally I
gave up n thought
of atleast
giving him expressed breast milk thru an electronic pump.But my milk supply has become very low since
breastfeeding wasnt continuous since birth.I have also got my periods at 1 and half mmonths.Already on lactare capsules but no use.Heard
of many side effects
of domperidone & metoclopramide.Pls help.Im so worried.im pumping every 3 hrs & the output is roughly 15 ml including both breasts each time.Is is possible to increase breastmilk production from 2 months time after birth?
Many mothers
give up breastfeeding their babies because
of back pain or neck strain.
I am a second time mom and with my first baby I
gave up breastfeeding because
of the pain.
As long as you have
given up the middle
of the night
breastfeeding, you should be able to get pregnant just like anyone else.
College spokeswoman Rosemary Jenkins says men's negative attitudes play a significant role in the growing number
of women who
give up breastfeeding after six weeks.
Sure it was a roller - coaster ride
of ups and downs,
of crying,
of sore nipples, and thinking
of giving up as I did not know what I was doing wrong,
of pressure from family and friends who were not sure I could produce enough milk,
of sleepless nights, and extensive pain because
of my cesarean wounds,
of managing my time to work, and
breastfeeding before leaving for work, during my noon breaks, and after the working day was over.
Twins are at a higher risk for premature birth and other complications, but you don't have to
give up on your dream
of breastfeeding your twins if they need special medical care.
could see why someone might
give up due to such pain so just wanted to share in hopes it helps some
of you to succeed with
breastfeeding
Shrieks, screams, milk, explosive poop, more screams, shuushing, jiggling, walking, crying, hands always full, lap always full, me crying, him crying, never wanting to be alone with all
of my children, not being able to brush teeth for an hour
of trying,
giving up caffeine, never being able to reliably leave the house,
breastfeeding, pain, sleeplessness, sleeping only to accidentally wake.
As long as he's getting plenty
of iron from meat... and both
of you are OK with continuing to
breastfeed, there's no good reason for
giving it
up yet and there are plenty
of good reasons for continuing.