Some of us have happy marriages, some do not.
«Married in 1963, I do remember the joy of discovering one another, the concerns that parenting together can bring, the challenge of working together, the mixed feelings of having an empty nest, the wonder of being grandparents, the delight
of having a happy marriage, and the sorrow of having my spouse die.»
Specifically, how they conduct their romantic lives before they tie the knot is linked to their odds
of having happy marriages.
Not exact matches
And some
of them
would send their daughters for
marriage between that age to elder men just to be able to support the rest
of the family with the
marriage money... Maybe you being in America living fully covered from A to Z know nothing about how poorer countries live and think all are as
happy as you are?!
From the beginnings
of survey research, people
have been asked whether theirs is a
happy marriage, and what percentage
of marriages do they think are
happy.
With the Latest News now out about the nation's largest Black organization endorsing Gay
marriage and calling for an end to the hate and citing the 14th Amendment, Coretta S. King, wife
of the very famous Black civil rights leader,
would have been immensely
happy!
This is especially true
of the «fortunate old» — those who are healthy and surrounded by loved ones, who
have a spouse and a
happy marriage, and thus less need for the social supports that the church provides.
Even though I
have seen some wondrously
happy married couples, most
of the
marriages I
have worked with were struggling to find even vestiges
of joy.
Nothing can make me
happier than seeing those whom I love be
happy and free from the pain that they
had been under for the last 3.5 years... I do deeply regret that I hid from the public the abuse that I
have lived with for most
of our
marriage and I ask your forgiveness... Three months ago Saeed told me things he demanded I must do to promote him in the eyes
of the public that I simply could not do any longer.
Gay
marriage hurts no one, and
would make that segment
of of our nation
happy.
Richard Stein, an ordinand in his final year
of training for ministry, described the process as an enriching one that led him to embrace a more evangelical theology than the one he
had arrived with: «I came into college with a fairly open view towards homosexuality, and even said I
'd be
happy to perform gay
marriages.
I was surprised to find that very few
of the couples I studied wanted
marriages like their parents
had had, even when they realized that their parents
had been very
happy in those
marriages.»
One
of Wallerstein's surprising and encouraging findings was that even people who
had suffered terrible abuse or neglect in childhood could still form
happy and satisfying «rescue»
marriages —
marriages that healed the hurts
of the past and enabled people to raise their children lovingly and well.
All
had been married for at least nine years (rates
of divorce peak in the seventh year
of marriage),
had at least one child and
had marriages that both spouses considered
happy, lasting and good.
It is not a
happy marriage of ideas, and it
has led to much confusion.
Most
of us who are content with home and family
have happier marriages!
And the proportion
of marriages that are «very
happy»
has been stable.»
This is a
happy and inspiring story — the only sad thing is that the Riches are unable to recount that the various battles — for example to ensure that
marriage is once again established as the foundation
of community life, or to ensure protection for unborn babies from abortion —
had been won.
Rockefeller's subsequent divorce
of his wife and 1963
marriage to the much - younger Margaretta «
Happy» Murphy, a mother
of four who
had recently divorced her husband, cemented in the minds
of many family - minded Americans an unpleasant nexus between loose morals and weak support for the military; it marked the forging
of a large wedge
of voters that now consciously identified itself as conservative and
would grow to include Democrats as well as Republicans.
However, you are confusing two very different subjects —
would you be
happy with outlawing
of all gay
marriages, if not a word about it
had ever been uttered from a pulpit?
I'm proud that despite the age
of divorce, we
had an incredibly
happy and successful
marriage for all that time.
I pray that the couple will
have a blessed and
happy marriage for the rest
of their lives.
Whereas A Sort
of Life is content to report, «I married and I was
happy,» the biographer tells the extraordinary story
of courtship, wedding and early
marriage, as well as suggesting what
would undo that union in the end.
When the divorce revolution took off with the advent
of no - fault divorce in the 1960s, experts predicted that
marriages overall
would be
happier because all the unhappy people
would get divorced.
An eternity
of happy marriage and sensuous pleasures
would reward the righteous.
If you were happily married and that
marriage led to an increased sense
of well - being,
would you want to know if your spouse was cheating on you, even if that knowledge
would make you less
happy and act in perhaps unhealthy ways?
And it's kind
of silly that a gay rights groups
would be angry at Chick - Fil - A for donating food to an anti-gay
marriage group; if the food
had been donated to a pro-gay
marriage group, they
would be totally silent /
happy.
Instead, the list
of family values, apart from these two issues, was a set
of very general propositions, ranging from «respecting one's parents» (2nd) to «
having a
happy marriage» (6th) to «
having nice things» (26th).
He
had hopes that the operation
would allow them once more to be «as close together as they
had been» for the many
happy years
of their
marriage.
I love the sleepover bits
of marriage but
would be much
happier if we could
have I Love Lucy style beds.
We
'd love to read your own stories
of long and
happy marriages, it's been to little
of that in my life.
I'm talking about a man who will cry
happy tears just talking about my mom after 46 years
of marriage, a man who touches the hearts
of anyone he meets, and a man that can rock and roll deep into the wee hours
of the morning, long after his only son
has gone to bed.
It
has a robust, feisty flavor thanks to the
happy marriage of tastes between...
After 15 years
of marriage, my father took over as the head cook
of the household, and both my parents couldn't be
happier now that they
've reached 25 years!
It
has a robust, feisty flavor thanks to the
happy marriage of tastes between the nutty rice and fresh, well - pickled cabbage kimchi.
When AR is extended, we
have to hope for a
happy marriage, because they will be joined at the hip for most
of the length
of the contract.
Then research by Philip and Carolyn Cowan indicated that if both partners wanted the pregnancy — and didn't slide back into traditional gender roles once the baby was born — the initial shock
of new parenthood disappeared and their
marriage would be back on a
happy marital track.
She also
has advice for keeping your
marriage happy and healthy, staying strong and optimistic as a parent, and straight - up good advice for being a stay - at - home parent
of young children.
I know divorce isn't always horrible, especially if you can consciously uncouple (whether you
have kids or not); I don't believe that
marriages must last forever to be
happy, healthy and successful; and I certainly don't know Gwyneth or Chris and the circumstances
of their partnership and desire to end it.
The funny thing about
marriage (well, there are many, but let's narrow it down) is that lots
of people seem to
have a «secret» that will magically transform everyone's
marriage into a manageable, doable and supposedly
happy union.
Nor is it a «failed
marriage» — the 14 years my former husband and I were together
had many
happy moments and created two amazing sons, now young men, whom we were able to co-parent well because we were kind to and respectful
of each other (well, most
of the time).
I know the secret is to be
happy with yourself and I am lucky in that I always
have been — probably one
of the biggest issues in my last
marriage because he wanted me to MAKE him
happy.
It was also the time
of Father Knows Best and Leave it to Beaver on TV, when women weren't supposed to
have any aspirations beyond making sure they
had a
happy and satisfying
marriage.
And we know that a certain percentage
of people who engage in infidelity say they
have happy marriages.
While no one can guarantee that your
marriage will be as
happy and healthy as you hope — or expect — it to be, wouldn't you feel better committing to all those years together if you
had a better idea
of where your
marriage was going?
Astro: If they go through the process
of asking whether
marriage is working for them without the fear and shame that the sacred cows produce, they'll still probably
have some soul searching to do and maybe a lot
of pain to go through, but it
would be less than it
would be otherwise and they'll probably end up in a
happier place if they can make that decision free
of that fear.
I can tell some
of your commenters don't know very many conservative Catholics, evangelicals, and Mormons, but I can assure you all the ones I
've ever known (which is a LOT
of them) are very
happy about their decisions to remain virgins and even for some, unkissed, until
marriage (as a Catholic I don't believe there it is morally superior to abstain from kissing prior to
marriage, but I respect the right
of others to choose to do so).
Astro: I think we do know why, because if the narrative
of who you choose matters and choosing differently could be a successful way to get yourself
happier, it
would allow people a legitimate reason to end their
marriage and try again.
About 93 percent
of us say faithfulness is a must to make a
marriage successful — even more so than
having a
happy sex life, sharing household chores, and
having similar passions and interests.
Americans
have many goals for their own
marriages and those
of others: We want
marriage to last, we want children to enjoy living with their own two married parents, we want these
marriages to be
happy, and we don't want unhappily married people trapped in miserable lives.