Good attunement is a prerequisite to good attachment which is then a prerequisite for the formation
of healthy relationships in life.
Update your model
of healthy relationships in the digital age and widen your perspective on the erotic, which is the difference between a relationship that just survives, and one that thrives!
But the settings and interventions that work to heal them particularly an increase in the quality and number
of healthy relationships in their lives are exactly what we need to address the core chronic, toxic stress that kids in urban schools suffer.
The Gottman Sound Relationship House incorporates the love and like parts
of a healthy relationship in two areas: Building Love Maps and Sharing Fondness and Admiration.
Not exact matches
Running your tank down to zero often results
in rash decisions, strained
relationships, months
of being unproductive, and the physical toll
of less - than -
healthy coping strategies.
While there are some advantages to being a single entrepreneur, the fact
of the matter is that when you're
in a
healthy personal
relationship like a marriage, you're more likely to succeed.
Whether it's tough times
in a struggling economy, a lack
of resources, or changes
in demand,
healthy business
relationships can help you weather the rough patches.
This hypothetical may not be relevant to your situation, but regardless
of your position
in comparison to the positions
of your co-workers, if you want a
healthy and influential working
relationship, you're going to have to cultivate trust.
In my defense, I was only 19, so not a grownup, and said boyfriend came out
of the closet not long after, so it was not really a satisfying and
healthy relationship.»
Not much has changed
in the 20 - plus years Sussman has been counseling couples; most fractures still occur when the foundational pillars
of a
healthy relationship (trust, respect, fidelity) are violated.
«Tightening up receivables
in times
of economic trouble is the key to overcoming the financial problem as is a
healthy working
relationship with lenders.»
'' [Financial automation] helps to simplify some
of the more rudimentary financial tasks that we all have to do,» says Jacquette M. Timmons, a financial behaviorist, author
of «Financial Intimacy: How to Create a
Healthy Relationship with Your Money and Your Mate» and president and CEO
of Sterling Investment Management Inc. «
In addition to the simplification, it can also help you to be a little more organized,» she adds.
At a Sequoia event
in October, Schreier likened
healthy entrepreneur - investor
relationships to the equivalent
of a progression from dating to marriage.
Solid,
healthy work
relationships support all individuals
in our professional circle, offering everyone the support, with just the right amount
of freedom needed, to develop creative solutions.
The Shelter Blooms program raises funds to support domestic violence prevention and teen
healthy relationship programming aimed at breaking the cycle
of family violence
in Canada.
Generosity is a cornerstone
of a
healthy relationship with money, yet many people feel ill - advised and reactive
in their giving.
When the church lets people know that it's ok to be authentic... to be gay
in this case... then they can encourage
healthy expression
of their sexuality through loving, monogamous
relationships.
MoJ's Rob Vischer uses this story about the culture
of marital infidelity
in Russia to raise questions about the
relationship between law and cultural norms
in maintaining general public adherence to the practices constitutive
of healthy family life.
Others, having seen a chink
in the narcissist's armor, perhaps tried to say something because that's what good people do — you know, point something out nicely
in hope
of healing or reconciliation — only to find out that
healthy, real
relationship is not on the «do - do» list
of a narcissist.
However, the assumption
of the psychotherapist is that irrational behavior can be brought under rational control by re-educating the person
in healthy interpersonal
relationships.
* worship God, whose will is and who has always yearned for us to...... be free and independent;... think;... be curious;... be intelligent and wise;... value knowledge over ignorance and compassion over knowledge;... be creative;... grow and mature;... live long
healthy satisfying lives;... live non-violently without vengeance;... be generous;... be hospitable;... be compassionate;... do no harm;... heal and rehabilitate and restore;... forgive and reconcile and include all and have all participate;... be good stewards
of all resources;... live here and now as one family;... live
in a loving intimate
relationship with God;... be transformed through resurrection; and... be the kingdom
of God.
There are a few
of our friendships that have learned to survive
in healthy ways by keeping the church's
relationship to our friendship
healthy.
But,
in my experience, sometimes the best way to keep communication
healthy and open is to go to bed angry and then talk about it the next morning when you've had enough sleep to know that leaving the milk out
in the car probably wasn't a veiled act
of aggression meant to symbolize every problem
in the
relationship, but rather just the sort
of mistake anyone would make while distracted by a fascinating story on NPR.
When we release our grip
of unforgiveness on those who have failed us, we are free to let God meet those needs
in new and
healthy ways — through our
relationship with Him, through friendships and through our own communities
of faith.
* be guided and instructed by the Good News message, which is: ---- God is unconditional boundless grace and unlimited unrestrained love and always has been; ---- God wants to have a loving intimate
relationship with each
of us without exception and without qualification; ---- seek justice as healing and rehabilitation and restoration; ---- seek universal reconciliation and inclusion and participation; ----
in healthy partnership, compassionately serve all who are hurt or lost or oppressed; ---- be generous and hospitable to all; ---- live non-violently without vengeance and with a cheerful fearlessness
of death and worldly powers; and ---- be — here and now — the Kingdom
of God.
Rachel Gardner is president
of the Girl's Brigade and founder
of the Romance Academy, a national charity that supports youth leaders, parents and teachers
in talking with young people about
healthy relationships and sexual health.
Diversity
in leadership is tantamount to authentic discipleship and foundational for
healthy relationships and growth within a community
of people.
Thus, the teachings
of the church regarding human nature and human
relationships may foster either mentally
healthy attitudes or destructive, neurotic attitudes
in its members.
How did you maintain
healthy relationships in spite
of that?
God's calling to us is an invitation and an empowering
of us to be participants
in God's work
in the world
of overcoming fractured and / or severely strained or sagging
relationships and building up
healthy relationships of mutuality, respect and caring — that is,
of love.
It doesn't require commitment either, though
in our society it is an expectation
of romantic love and I think it is a
healthy component
of a romantic
relationship to make a commitment
of some kind, though I think «forever» is unrealistic.
I don't know what planet you live on but all
of the people
in my life have
healthy loving respectful
relationships.
We can assess how
healthy our
relationship with God is by taking stock
of the fruit
in our lives.
I can expect that if I'm part
of a community and I am not growing and being challenged that I've probably fallen into stagnation and am not
in a
healthy relationship with that community.
By straddling the fence, the friends with benefits
relationship destroys our ability to experience true intimacy within the context
of a friendship and robs us
of the joy
of engaging
in a
healthy romantic
relationship.
It is
healthy for engaged couples to broaden their
relationship by exploring many dimensions
of sharing — intellectual, aesthetic, creative, work, commitment, and spiritual intimacy can be added,
in addition to the usual pattern
of emotional, recreational and romantic relating.
In a
healthy society the influences
of homes and schools should complement and sustain those
of the mass media, and vice versa, replacing the chaotic and frequently antagonistic
relationships that now so largely prevail.
Singleness isn't necessarily the symptom
of some big flaw, just as being
in a
relationship doesn't necessarily mean you're
healthy.
And although happiness is often a very real byproduct
of a
healthy relationship, marriage has a far more significant purpose
in sight.
Second, one may well argue against my view, that although the Hebraic development as consummated
in Jesus won out over the decadent Hellenism
of the first and second centuries, this tells us nothing
of its
relationship to the
healthy Hellenism
of the axial period.
Instead, you're starting a habit
of investing
in your
relationship that, over time, will lead to something
healthier.
Somewhere
in between these two extreme approaches lies a proper connection between the church and the world
of business, a
relationship of critical,
healthy, lively tension that is both prophetic and supportive, critical and constructive, challenging and affirming.
Just as
in one - to - one
relationships the negatives damage and may destroy, so the positives (now applied to familial groupings) will produce right ways
of becoming and, hence, promote sound and
healthy development.
At the end
of the day, you won't reach that long - term future
in a
healthy way if you're beginning to ignore problems or denying that it may be time to let the
relationship go.
The retreat
of privacy,
of physical and psychical freedom from the other, is imperative for the
healthy growth
of personality even
in the most intimate human
relationships.
The «will
of God» — what God wants for us — is for us to: * Be Free and Independent * Think * Be Curious * Be Intelligent and Wise * Value Knowledge over Ignorance and Compassion over Knowledge * Grow * Live Long
Healthy Satisfying Lives * Live Non-Violently Without Vengeance * Be Hospitable * Be Generous * Heal and Reconcile and Rehabilitate * Be Good Stewards
of all Resources * Live Here as One Family * Live
in Relationship with God * Be Transformed through Resurrection
A life spent practicing unforgiveness toward those who have wounded us feeds that malignant growth
in our soul, hinders our capacity for
healthy relationships and binds us
in the oppressive chains
of anger, suspicion, resentment and fear.
One thing I love about the Gay Christian Network,
of which Justin is the director, is that it welcomes
healthy dialog between folks on «Side A,» who believe homosexual
relationships have the same value as heterosexual
relationships in the sight
of God, and folks on «Side B,» who believe only male / female
relationships in marriage represent God's intent for sexuality.
It may seem obvious, but it bears restating: Living life to its full can't happen when we never let anyone
in; it can only become a reality within the environment
of safe,
healthy, authentic
relationships that allow us the space to be vulnerable, to be ourselves.
In contrast to the pathology orientation, the growth approach elicits different responses from people, draws on different sides of their personalities (the healthy sides), and suggests that help lies in a different direction — setting goals and working toward them rather than striving mainly to repair damaged areas of relationships and personalitie
In contrast to the pathology orientation, the growth approach elicits different responses from people, draws on different sides
of their personalities (the
healthy sides), and suggests that help lies
in a different direction — setting goals and working toward them rather than striving mainly to repair damaged areas of relationships and personalitie
in a different direction — setting goals and working toward them rather than striving mainly to repair damaged areas
of relationships and personalities.