For those who are strongly oriented homosexually, physical expression of their desires is just as natural as the physical expression
of heterosexual desires is for others.
Not exact matches
Some persons experience sexual
desire and attraction only or primarily to persons
of the same sex; whatever they are, they are not
heterosexual.
The problem with bisexuality in my life (and I can speak only for myself) is that it has been grounded too much in my utopic fantasy
of the way things «ought» to be and too little in the more modest recognition
of myself as a participant in this society at this time in this world, in which I have both a concrete
desire for personal intimacy with someone else and a responsibility to participate in, even witness to, the destruction
of unjust social structures — specifically, the
heterosexual box.
In our history, in our society, in our churches, the
heterosexual box is that into which girls are pressed into ladies who should marry and who must be held within the social order as subordinate to husbands, fathers, or father - surrogates — regardless
of the unique and individual capacities, needs, and
desires of either women or men.
It can provide guidance for both
heterosexual and homosexual Christians in choosing faithful expressions
of sexual
desire.
Usually such
desires were for those
of the opposite sex, but even that line was blurry, because as it turned out, once the generative purpose
of sex had been severed, it often mattered very little who the
heterosexual's mutual masturbatory partner was.
Nevertheless, as a general rule, identifying as a
heterosexual person today amounts to declaring oneself a member
of the «normal group,» against which all deviant sexual
desires and attractions and temptations are to be measured.
The study showed that gay men were much more likely than
heterosexual men to report feeling pressure from the media to look attractive, to avoid having sex because
of how they felt about their bodies, and to
desire cosmetic surgery.
«On average,
heterosexual women believe that
heterosexual men
desire ultra-thin women,» said Meltzer, an assistant professor in the Department
of Psychology at SMU.
Similarly, a 2012 study
of 160 U.S. and German college students published in the Journal
of Personality and Social Psychology found that those who called themselves
heterosexual, despite admitting same - sex
desires, were more likely to be hostile toward gay individuals that those who did not report such
desires.
Bisexual people may feel at odds with their
desire to begin a family and struggle with the added question
of whether to have children with a same - sex partner and face homophobia in their family unit, or choose a
heterosexual relationship to start a family and have to grieve the dream or the
desire to have a same - sex partner in their family unit.
His desperation to smooth the choppiness
of the story and format is palpable in the short - selling
of the Wormtongue (Brad Dourif) character (and Aragorn's horse who, without much in - text warning, becomes a key character) and the
desire to infuse
heterosexual romance (with both Arwen and Miranda Otto's Eowyn) into Tolkien's sexually sterile universe.
... [Chungking Express] imparts a sense
of distance mixed with tenderness, and also focuses on the dominant issue for
heterosexual young adults: how to negotiate the
desire and confusion they feel vis - à - vis the opposite sex.»
In these promotional materials, advertisers are not just selling a product, they are also selling gaming as a lifestyle in which women predominantly exist as passive objects
of heterosexual male
desire.
So these interactive algorithms transmit cultural messages
of near constant affirmation
of male
heterosexual dominance, while simultaneously reinforcing the widespread regressive belief that women's primary role is to satisfy the
desires of men (either literally or voyeuristically).
Artists like Stanley Spencer RA and Lucian Freud addressed head on, with unprecedented frankness, the nature
of male
heterosexual desire, and the fact
of the body as simply flesh.
Sherman stood for a postmodern wave
of appropriation and artifice, including a focus on
heterosexual desire.
The exhibition focuses on the perspective
of abused African women and explores the topics
of incest and taboo that surrounds it, while simultaneously trying to answer the question how is
desire established as a
heterosexual male prerogative?
For many men in modern
heterosexual marriages, the tendency to become quiet and withdraw during conflict is born out
of a well - intended
desire to focus on the positive, a propensity towards not wanting to escalate things further or increase the discord with their spouse.
Sex researchers Sarah Murray and Robin Milhausen, both
of the University
of Guelph in Ontario, Canada, asked 170 undergraduate women and men who had been in
heterosexual relationships for anywhere from one month to nine years to report on their levels
of relationship satisfaction, sexual satisfaction and sexual
desire.
Some
heterosexual women report kissing other women as part
of the college social scene or for men's attention, while others do so to experiment or explore potential same - sex
desires.1 A 2012 study found that both women and men perceive women who kiss other women in
heterosexual spaces (for example, bars that
heterosexual individuals frequent) as more promiscuous than those who kiss a man, and that women and men perceive such women as more likely to be
heterosexual than bisexual or lesbian.2 In some ways, this last finding may suggest that women and men do not always perceive female - female kissing as necessarily an expression
of women's same - sex
desire.
Although these differences are typically thought
of as gender specific with women experiencing more responsive
desire and men experiencing more spontaneous
desire, I have worked with same sex couples where one partner experiences responsive
desire while the other experiences more spontaneous
desire and
heterosexual couples where the typical experiences are reversed.
The truth is that in 40 %
of healthy
heterosexual relationships, the woman is the higher
desire partner.
The general decline in sexism over the course
of adolescence masks a contrasting effect
of romantic experience, which suggests that
heterosexual adolescents»
desire to attract romantic partners may foster, rather than reduce, sexism.