Although painful at times, the reward of couples therapy can far outweigh the discomfort when often years
of hurtful experiences get supplanted by positive responses in a marriage or love relationship — changes that help both partners feel the other is predictable in a positive way.
As a licensed professional sexual therapy counselor, I work with couples to reveal the root causes
of hurtful patterns, improve relationships and heal your past.
If you are longing to communicate your heart with your spouse but feel stuck in a cycle
of hurtful conflict, I can offer a safe, nonjudgemental place to learn to reconnect with a covenant relationship.
Based on appraisal theory (Lazarus 1991; 1999), this study examined the degree to which primary and secondary cognitive appraisals
of hurtful messages predict the amountof hurt individuals feel, and the coping behaviors they enact.
If you have a child who purposely destroys family property out of anger or spiteful, vengeful reasons, you naturally feel a variety
of hurtful and negative emotions.
All coping behaviors except positive reappraisal were significantly predicted by the primary appraisals (categories of risk) and secondary appraisals (perceived intentionality and frequency
of hurtful messages).
If you find yourself in a difficult cycle
of hurtful interactions, I can help you get to this heart - full and constructive place.
In a study
of hurtful words and relationships, researchers found that «people who judged something an individual said to them as intentionally hurtful felt the comment had more of a distancing effect on their relationship with the individual than did those who perceived the message as unintentionally hurtful.
Changing your perception
of hurtful words could help take the sting out of them.
How have you learned to let go
of the hurtful words or actions of others so you can move forward in your life?
This is because
of the hurtful things many have been exposed to in the lead up to this survey outcome.
It's not easy to steer clear
of hurtful behaviors when you're angry.
Even though my husband tries to be sensitive to my past and never does
any of the hurtful things my ex-boyfriend did, if he ever uses a tone of voice that I feel is dismissive, frustrated, or condescending, it can instantly hurl me back to those dark times.
You do not want to end up on the wrong end
of a hurtful comment about their spouse.
Any little argument can become the cause
of another hurtful trip around the closed loop of a couple Spin Cycle.
Teach children to use words to express feelings to others instead
of hurtful actions.
I on the other hand hate the silence, I would much rather take a slap through the face... hehe... but in the end, because there is so much love between us, it never lasts long, and mutual respect keeps us from name calling or any other kind
of hurtful things.
Some of the hurtful statements or negative thoughts that are more entrenched may need a lot of discussion, and the discussion can be continued in future sessions.
The Path of Motus is a fantastic example of this, tackling the entire concept
of hurtful words in a unique, and colo...
Though Bella followed God's leading in her quest for freedom, she never imagined He'd take her back to the place so full
of hurtful memories.
Education historian Diane Ravitch writes about the latest effort to cleanse Mark Twain's «The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn»
of hurtful words.
The characters also are forced to face their fears, examine
some of their hurtful interactions and consider changing their behavior — if and when they get back to their former lives.
Trisha's study found that such re-thinking resulted in a tremendous 93 % reduction in the number
of hurtful messages posted.
People called me all sorts
of hurtful names... Cracker, Powder, Albino and many others.
Now, saying no might create a little extra work for the person you're declining because now they have to ask someone else or otherwise rethink, but it falls well short
of hurtful.
For months prior to the petition period he went on the attack against Grace Meng, often boycotting the issues in favor
of hurtful nonsense on her FB page.
I was hopeful, as initial news reports indicated, that Mr. Aiken was going to make a hasty withdrawal from the Senate race as a result
of his hurtful words, but he seems to be reconsidering that.
Sessions called the president's public criticism of him «kind
of hurtful.»
Defined as physical or verbal aggression or any type
of hurtful
There are plenty
of hurtful and hateful blogs out there as well.
Living in a small Southern town has subjected me to a lot
of hurtful gossip.
Here in our times we will not be able to foeget, forgiveness we have given
of his hurtful deeds
While escaped the impositions
of hurtful governments is a estimable goal, the crypto village should commend that it is implicitly unsuitable to stay pacifist while justification grows that criminals and terrorists are exploiting the community's freedom.
While escaped the impositions
of hurtful governments is a estimable goal, the crypto village should commend that it is implicitly unsuitable to stay pacifist while justification grows that
Not exact matches
Many
of his criticisms can come off mean and
hurtful.
The head
of its Center for Capital Markets Competitiveness David Hirschmann said that the rule «is more harmful than
hurtful» and that the Chamber will seek to «clean up the mess.
To block very
hurtful comments that do not use hate speech (something like «why don't you step in front
of a truck») could be perceived as limiting free speech.
I've received multiple tweets this last week that I took as
hurtful and harmful, and I'd rather not see them, but it's all part
of living in the age
of trolls.
The imagery, critics said, recalled a deeply
hurtful history
of white - centered ideals
of beauty.
Ogunyemi, a Nigerian woman born in London and raised in Atlanta, has penned a thoughtful piece explaining how personally
hurtful white - centered beauty has been to her, and why the snippets
of the ad that had been circulated were misinterpreted.
Zuckerberg held court for a little over an hour, discussing everything from the decline
of organic reach to the «
hurtful» nature
of The Social Network film.
We wanted to talk about what we'd do if we were confronted by a large number
of users demanding action because
of something on our site that they deemed unreasonable or
hurtful.
But as a psychologist, I am deeply worried about the rapidly escalating levels
of anger in our world — what's particularly disturbing is our increasing sense
of entitlement to express it in aggressive or
hurtful ways.
Even though Turkey's religious authority has said it will not provide Islamic funeral services for coup soldiers, a spokesman told Reuters that top cleric Mehmet Gormez did not support the establishment
of a burial ground for traitors, saying it was
hurtful to the families
of the dead.
If the impact
of this quantitative easing is so helpful to markets now, won't its reversal be equally
hurtful?
Don't be so eager to say
hurtful things and make hasty comparisons for all
of NP - world to see when you really don't know that much about being gay and Christian.
I wish all
of us could let our own
hurtful experiences help us feel compassion and empathy for our brethren as you expressed in your post.
They'll accept Lively's claims
of being «vilified» and «attacked» without taking a single moment to look at the heinous and
hurtful things that he says and does.
There's no denying that Sheldon's science is distorted a little by status and self - esteem issues, but he wouldn't think
of going to HR to get protected from the
hurtful (and hilarious) venom
of Leslie Winkle.
Also, I am a bit protective
of this couple not wanting to open them up to how
hurtful well - meaning Christians can be.