Do they have this licence
of hurting other people because Christ gave away his life for their sins?»
Then help him explore alternatives: «Next time, when you get mad, what else could you do instead
of hurting the other person?»
do nt get me wrong, i totally feel the appeal
of hurting other people when they have it coming.
No one goes into marriage with the idea
of hurting the other person; however, sometimes circumstances out of our control arise.
Not exact matches
«When that
person leaves, it
hurts for a bit, but by then the
other members
of the team possess enough
of those skills that we come back stronger,» McCann said by email.
Wallowing in talk
of other people's misdeeds or misfortunes may end up
hurting their feelings if the gossip ever finds its way to them, but gossiping is guaranteed to make you look negative and spiteful every time.
So you have to start with something that is demonstrably cheap because, first it is harder to get
hurt if you fall out
of the basement window, and second, it's so difficult to assess whether
other people have a more accurate handle on favourable characteristics than you do».
The only restriction I believe is appropriate on religious belief is to stop them from
hurting other people or ritualistic abuse
of animals.
Gays acting within the confines
of loving monogamous relationships are
hurting neither themselves or
others yet
people like you compare us to criminals.
All I can say is one day God will will and we all will be judged for the
people we
hurt and judge, but one thing I can be sure
of is that when it comes to respecting
people of other faiths I will not have blood on my hands for harming Gods children.
No doubt... promiscuity
hurts people... it
hurts other children
of God and it
hurts yourself... it is sinful.
When this happens the argument turns into name - calling, accusations, dredging up past
hurts and twisting the
other person's words — all for the sake
of being right.
consider Dawkins (at least he's being honest here): «In a universe
of blind physical forces and genetic replication, some
people are going to get
hurt,
other people are going to get lucky, and you won't find any rhyme or reason in it, nor any justice.
Not that
people shouldn't be forgiven even the most grievous
of crimes, but sins are messy,
hurting others is messy, and so forgiveness is often messy.
However, any attempt to prevent someone from seeing it is an attempt to limit their options; and a group that has set itself up to limit the options
of others can be used to
hurt people, as has been shown many times in the past.
Atheists have murdered more
people and
hurt more
people than any
other group in the history
of the world.
Religions cause wars and hatred
of other people religions and to kill or
hurt people who don't believe as you do.
It risks confrontation, resentment,
hurt feelings, and so on, so in a lot
of interactions when someone is wrong the
other person just politely nods his head in agreement and then proceeds to ignore everything the
person said.
Get lost in
people's eyes today and in swaths
of sun on any afternoon, and lose track
of time and get lost in a good book, and smile abundantly, till your cheek
hurts, because you are alive after all, and you have time to feel wind on your face and you have time to reach out to one
person and remember how we all belong to each
other and each
of us gets a place to belong and the abundance
of your life is not measured in the ways you gained — but in what you gave away.
I've learned that the criticisms that
hurt me the most are not the ones that have no relation to reality, but the ones that, deep down, I desperately fear are true («you don't have any fruit in your life,» «you rebel for the sake
of rebelling,» «you don't care if you destroy
other people's faith»).
This self love is sin.God never forced chaos on us.we gave in to satan's lies about evil being an inherent necessity.Jesus said he was the way, the truth and life.He was the life (love) that everyone craves for, he is the truth which meant that his love was our only need and he exposed the lies
of satan that we could attain bliss on subordinating
people to our cravings.Sinning
people don't accept a God who requires us to renounce ourselves because they are not convinced
of God's love being enough for them and they are afraid to destroy their identity and live for the Glory
of God.So, upon death, these souls realize that the physical world was just a shadow
of God's love (the nature, food etc) and their own lies (violence, self love etc) and realize that love is their only need.They pursue it from
other soul beings but are
hurt that there's only hate and self love.They are afraid to approach the light because they don't want to renounce their identity as they have not recognized God's love before.
We accepted the lies
of satan ourselves because God has bestowed us with free will.We seek magnification
of ourselves in everything as satan did.All our actions are aimed at impressing fellow
people so as to derive love and care from them.This
hurts other people when we are concerned only with our satisfaction and also,
people couldn't love unconditionally without first receiving christ's love (we love because he loved us first).
Sometimes,
of course, the
other person will cut you off or
hurt you - maybe not intentionally, but as a result
of feeling they aren't being faithful unless they punish you in some way for being wrong.
And yes I have to remind myself
of this a lot — that there is no perfect system, or religion, there are a lot
of other people of different faiths who've been severely
hurt too, just like me.
Only when
people take courage to face fear, heal from past
hurts, as as considerate
of others as self, accepting differences where they are debatable and are motivated by love then shall we see less
of this kind
of thing.
The growth counselor's function is to help such
persons as they work through their resistance to bury a dead relationship; uncouple without infighting so as to avoid further
hurt to each
other and to their children; agree on a plan for the children that will be best for the children's mental health; work through the ambivalent feelings that usually accompany divorce — guilt, rage, release, resentment, failure, joy, loss — so that each
person's infected grief wound can heal; discover what each contributed to the disintegration
of their relationship; learn the relationship - building and love - nurturing skills which each will need either to enjoy creative singlehood or to establish a better marriage.
Nii Forgiving
others is important, but a lot
of people need to get over the
hurt they cause
others, to forgive themselves.
Indeed, I would guess that idealism is the problem: whereas an atheist might be more likely to not
hurt others because he / she does not want to be
hurt (or live in a world like that), ideologies put a sort
of filter between
people.
As for guilt, if we're to believe morality is formed merely for socio - economic survival and a product
of biological evolution, then sometime somewhere in the past, the «experiment» was carried out that stealing from someone, ra.ping someone, kil.ling someone, etc.,
hurts that
person and / or
others.
you, on the
other hand, seem to want to shut down religious discussion because you are afraid
of people getting their feelings
hurt.
What happened to respectful tolerance
of other people and trying your best not to
hurt anyone?
God knows this secret history
of all
people, the
hurt and pain they have gone though which makes them lash out at
others.
«My religion prevents me from
hurting you for your lack
of belief in my hateful god, but you better watch out because (
other, less - cowardly religious
people, angry jesus at judgment day, etc.) will get you!»
I believe this is so wrong those
people who cheat should go to hell and those
people who stay faithful but love have fade they have the right to divorce is good not the
other way around so your saying cheating is okay so many
people do suicide cause
of cheating but divorce is bad / divorce to save your partner from getting cheated from you I think god on this is so wrong and should send them straight to hell cause they are going to continue to cheat and divorce
people should be forgiven cause they didn't
hurt no body and nobody did suicide
Each response was equally powerful in
hurting the
other, and both were convinced that the
other person was the root
of their marital problems.
Then there are
people like Eloise, who allow their religion and their ignorance to
hurt others because their beliefs give them the false sense
of superiority.
«Any form
of bullying and harassment
of others is always wrong, including making fun
of others, speaking down to them and saying things that
hurt people,» the site says.
We have become way too much eyeball
people as Christians assume that those who don't live according to the way they do they are unsaved, we have created this judgemental relationship which
hurts peoples fellowship with God, there are no litmus tests for
people that believe in Jesus, which is why we are called to not judge
others, and
people use James 2:14, and 1 John's verse
of those who practices righteousness are righteous even though I think it's talking about earthly righteousness toward
people that we as Christians should show because there is a lost world out there that needs are help and these doctrines
of guilt, condemnation, anger, and judgement aren't helping in fact they are doing the opposite, just like how in James it's justification towards man.
I protect kids for a living, do everything I can to help ALL
people, respect all life and give everybody their dignity, give my time and resources to help
others, complain little,
hurt nobody, want minimal things for myself and often go without, sacrifice for family, friends and community, but because I do not think there is a deity in the sky, I'm going to Hell while some selfish, ignorant, mean, destructive, abusive and hateful
person who says, «Sorry» to God at the end
of their life goes to Heaven.
I have no delusions about the levels
of meanness, self - centeredness, and blatant opportunism that
people can sink to, believers and unbelievers alike, and how much it can
hurt others.
I already scratched too much
of me that it is already
hurting me and some
other people around me.
Do you think if he was lying and
people hunting down their family and killing
other members
of church that he would confess his lie before
others get
hurt or killed?
And among those many
persons who have committed no illegal act
of crime or
of overt violence, there is a widespread self - centeredness and demand for the right to do what one pleases which results in the violence
of serious
hurt to
others.
I understand the importance
of letting the Holy Spirit work, but when does this become a dangerous thing that could allow
people not really under the influence
of the spirit to
hurt and manipulate
others?
I am thankful to be a part
of a church where these referrals are gladly provided, and where
hurting people are loved and supported while they seek out professional counseling and
other needed services.
But we do have numerous examples
of people who, orienting their lives by the Christ, have lived in right relation with their neighbors and God, displaying unselfish caring for the
hurts and needs
of others.
Some
people were always so inclined not to
hurt people, but
others do require
of themselves to change, but that change always comes from within as far as we can tell.
Getting to where I can recognize the grand scale
of damage in nearly everyone else's life somehow makes it that much easier to bare the
hurts that I have, even if all I can do is give one more
person the realization «it's not just me...» that those
other broken
people gave me.
Having suffered at the hands
of others, I continually check myself to ensure that I don't
hurt people.
Wounded
people hurt others and out
of their
hurt, they judge and label
other; which I believe gives them a feeling
of control.