When you come up with something, give it some time to sink in and become part
of your marriage culture.
In considering the demise
of marriage culture and the decline of the institution of marriage, we are profoundly aware of the challenge posed by the Lord, that «whatever you did to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me» (Matt.
Long before there was a debate about same - sex anything, far too many people bought into a liberal ideology about sexuality that makes a mess of marriage: Cohabitation, no - fault divorce, extra-marital sex, non-marital childbearing, massive consumption of pornography and the hook - up culture all contributed to the breakdown
of our marriage culture.
Indeed, it will lock in the distorted view of marriage as an institution primarily concerned with adult romantic desires, and make the rebuilding
of the marriage culture much more difficult.
Adam and Eve After the Pill: Paradoxes of the Sexual Revolution, by Mary Eberstadt (Ignatius Press): The Catholic Church is going to spend a lot of the next eighteen months wrestling with the crisis
of marriage culture throughout the world, given the two Synods on the subject that Pope Francis has called for October 2014 and October 2015.
Not exact matches
What cracked the surface here, then, was the
culture war being waged over same - sex
marriage — not commitment to theological robustness and the essentials
of the faith.
I acknowledge the justice
of David F. Forte's description
of the damage that
marriage has suffered in the larger
culture, but I do not think my conclusion was Pollyannaish at all.
As gay
marriage «sank into the subtle background consciousness
of a
culture, its influence would be felt quietly but deeply among gay children.
Culture evolves and so will your understanding
of marriage (eventually).
In addition, his comments leave some
of us non-Catholics asking, Is the Pope right about the state
of marriage and
culture's idea
of commitment?
While I'm willing to agree with Michael Barone that at least some
of the heat in the
culture wars has been turned down a bit (but see this post for a qualification), a lot
of interesting things have been said recently about
marriage, some
of which I noted here.
Recognition
of marriage serves the ends
of limited government more effectively, less intrusively, and at less cost than does picking up the pieces from a shattered
marriage culture.
In any event, no amount
of pro-family and pro-
marriage agitation can cover up the contradiction
of Christian acquiescence in a
culture of divorce that produces disposable spouses and turns the solemn covenant
of marriage into a contract
of convenience.
Other writers have described other causes: the lobbying for same - sex
marriage, the feminists» push for liberation from
marriage duties, their legislative victories in getting states to adopt unilateral divorce, the
culture's glorification
of single moms, and the financial incentives for illegitimacy and divorce that flow from the welfare, child support, and domestic violence bureaucracies.
The scripture passage cited is clear example
of how woman were protected in a
culture where «virginity» was a pre-qualifying event for eligible
marriage material.
Because we've spent a good deal
of time here discussing the harmful effects
of a shame - based purity
culture that treats people who have had sex before
marriage as «damaged goods» by comparing them to polluted water or chewed - up gum (see «Do Christians Idolize Virginity?»
Cultural resistance to
marriage In certain sections
of society,
marriage has been almost eliminated from the
culture; increasingly it has become the privilege
of the middle classes.
The goal, obviously, would be a
culture - wide reaffirmation
of young
marriage.
Their lived experience
of the effects
of contraception, abortion, divorce, and infidelity on their generation has made them passionate about the need for our entire
culture - not only Catholics - to embrace the challenge andauthentic freedom embodied in the fullness
of the Church's teaching on
marriage, family, and sexuality.
In terms
of biology and maturity, there is no reason teen
marriage could not succeed, if the
culture expects and supports it.
Many Christian women I know are seeking counseling to remedy sexual dysfunction within their
marriages — dysfunction that relates back to an oppressive
culture that refuses to acknowledge female sexuality and which blames women for perversions
of male sexuality.
Furthermore, the elaborate patterns
of culture connected with birth, initiation, courtship,
marriage, illness, and death all express responses to the insistent demands
of natural existence in particular circumstances
of space and time.
It really inspires me to think that maybe my generation will be the one to sever the
marriage between evangelicalism and politics, end the
culture wars, and redirect our efforts toward feeding the hungry, helping the homeless, advocating for the helpless, pursuing racial reconciliation, supporting single moms, rejecting the seductive pull
of power and violence, and earning a repuation as peacemakers.
The key organs
of popular
culture have declared dissenting views on sexuality and
marriage unfit for polite conversation, setting off occasional high - profile witch hunts against dissenters and enabling an environment
of intimidation well beyond those.
Christians should not view those who advocate the redefinition
of marriage as arch-enemies who are conspiring to take over the
culture.
How can our religious communities renew the
culture of marriage in a society burnt over by the sexual revolution?
Despite massive changes in gender roles, sexuality, and young - adult patterns
of employment and family formation,
marriage culture at Christian colleges and universities remains very strong.
The LDS
culture nurtures the concept
of chastity, before and after
marriage, for both males and females.
She challenges evangelical communities to consider how to honor their theological principles associated with gender, sexuality, and
marriage while minimizing the negative impact
of purity
culture.
It is not impossible that in the not too distant future gay activism as we have known it will have taken its place in the history
of popular
culture along with wife - swapping and «open
marriages.»
They bear a great resemblance to what Pope John Paul II called «the
culture of death», with its downgrading
of marriage, its advocating
of euthanasia, abortion and contraception.
Especially with the purity
culture tactic
of promising the boys Barn - Burning Swinging From The Chandeliers Dynamite Married S * E * X if they only save themselves for
marriage.
In today's consumer - oriented, capitalistic
culture, where people are used, abused and disposed
of like nonreturnable soft - drink cans, where «liberation» has been invoked to justify selfishness, it may be that the time has come for the church to say again what it has always believed — that there is no way for individuals to «flourish» without the kind
of communion and community and the permanent, deep, risky commitment that true Christian love demands — qualities that are perhaps best experienced in the yoking
of a man and a woman in
marriage.
Given the neo-bourgeois uniformity
of Belmont —
marriage as the norm, infrequent divorce, very few illegitimate births — Murray finds this nonjudgmentalism «one
of the more baffling features
of the new - upper - class
culture.»
Otherwise we will be left only with Gold's meager hope that
marriage and all
of morality might somehow survive the ravages
of culture.
Nonetheless, the bishops maintain that lovers who want to be married as Catholics are a sign
of hope in a
culture where
marriage seems superfluous.
Culture involves specific actions or rituals to be performed in a given way at different stages
of life such as birth,
marriage and funerals within a community, and these acquire the value
of tradition.
Coontz ranges widely over the
cultures and societies
of the world, discussing a great variety
of marriage practices.
Marriage has happened for thousands
of years before your bible was written, and many
cultures world wide have same $ ex
marriages, including many native american
cultures.
Blankenhorn divides history into two sexual
cultures — a prehistoric
culture of «prostitution, cohabitation, and males as inseminators - not - fathers» and an enlightened
culture of marriage where men become nurturing fathers and lifelong husbands.
Bargaining and barter were and are known in all the
cultures that have developed moral and religious traditions, most
of which have well - known maxims and principles that deal with the vast spectrum
of social and moral issues, from fair weight to
marriage contracts, bred in the marketplace.
The family is also threatened by growing efforts on the part
of some to redefine the very institution
of marriage, by relativism, by the
culture of the ephemeral, by a lack
of openness to life.»
So his defense
of community,
culture,
marriage, and such doesn't depend on going back to an earlier stage
of the division
of labor.
A friend
of mine once remarked that, while the redefinition
of marriage does have troubling consequences for the continuity
of society, what John Paul II has rightly called the «
culture of death» is far more sinister, another order
of evil entirely.
Because all
of Scripture is culturally directed — i. e., because all
of it was written for a particular situation and out
of a particular context - the evangelical can not use the issue
of culture to distinguish between arguments for women's place in
marriage and her place in the church.
Unfortunately, contemporary
culture presents us — all too insistently — with issues which require a determined biblical and theological response: the continuation
of the abortion regime; the intensifying pressure to acknowledge the legitimacy
of same - sex «
marriage»; the attacks on the religious liberty
of Christians, forcing them to support practices offensive to their faith; and, most recently, «assisted suicide» now masquerading under the name «the right to die with dignity.»
I am all for the
marriage of culture with faith (being a First Nations person in Canada — out in Sask)-- and I see great benefits for the
culture that is kept alive by Christianity.
We have further affirmed that the only true and possible understanding
of marriage is as the permanent bond between a man and a woman — a truth that has been acknowledged for millennia across innumerably diverse
cultures.
And he has noted what any person
of common sense has also noted: «The family is threatened by growing efforts on the part
of some to redefine the very institution
of marriage, by relativism, by the
culture of the ephemeral, by a lack
of openness to life.»
For millennia every human
culture has recognized the bond linking sex,
marriage, and the generation
of human life, and frowned on begetting children out
of wedlock.