Sentences with phrase «of painful conflict»

■ This, in turn, may be resolved in one of two ways: Disengagement marked by increasing disconnection and emotional distance, or a high conflict period marked by the 4 Horsemen and high level of painful conflict.

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Persons who have been hurt in close childhood relationships often feel a painful inner conflict simultaneously pulling them toward intimacy, to get their basic needs met, and away from intimacy, because of the fear of repeating old hurts.

Much of the painful, unproductive conflict between parents and teenagers results from the teenagers» activating or «hooking» their parents» inner Adolescent.

A good illustration of a conflicted or neurotic need is the powerful fear of intimacy in a person whose painful loneliness makes him crave closeness intensely.

In the early decades of the second century, the Jerusalem community was itself divided and in painful conflict over the issue of Hellenism, from the priesthood on down.

Intimacy grows when conflicts are faced and worked through in the painful but fulfilling process of gradual understanding and compromise of differences.

As he discovered, it is through the repressed memories, wishes, conflicts, and impulses in the unconscious that painful experiences and unfinished growth from the early years continue to cripple the ability of many people to live creatively in the present.

A torrent of painful, conflicted feelings flowed; as these were experienced and talked through, there seemed to be a release of tension in his struggle for inner liberation.

Furthermore, this bodily conflict between the mother and her emergent child anticipates the often much more painful act of separation, when the child, exercising the newly awakened powers made possible by his large head, reaches for his own autonomous knowledge of good and had, and repeats the original rise and fall from obedience and innocence in the ever - recurring saga of human freedom and «enlightenment.»

«This study demonstrates that the road to a mitochondrial disease diagnosis is typically long and hard, involving visits to numerous clinical specialists, conflicting diagnoses, and repeated and sometimes painful and invasive testing,» says Michio Hirano, MD, the paper's senior clinical author and chief of the Neuromuscular Division at Columbia University Irving Medical Center.

Ultimately, it's about mixed feelings, beginning with Ronnie's own internal conflict: the need to lead a life of one's own versus a grown child's often painful love for their parent.

The Blu - ray combo pack includes a «Making of» featurette that goes behind the scenes of filming in two languages with a local cast, who share their painful stories of their personal conflict during the war.

WHY: «Silicon Valley» relies on such a frustrating amount of manufactured conflict to drive the story each season that it would be painful to watch if the show wasn't so funny.

Yet each star is distinctly aware of their character's conflict with every other member of the titular small town and knows how to bridge the often painful gaps.

Of course, painful conflict caused by public schools is nothing new, even if nationalization is making it worse and more visible.

Relying on the words of the delegates themselves to explore the Convention's sharp conflicts and hard bargaining, David O. Stewart lays out the passions and contradictions of the often painful process of writing the Constitution.

Screenwriter and novelist Ephron expertly builds the layers of suspense as conflict and deception push these fractured families toward a painful epiphany.

The death of a pet can revive painful memories and unresolved conflicts from the past that amplify your current emotional upheaval.

An exhibit at Washington University's Kemper Museum — In the Aftermath of Trauma: Contemporary Video Installations — introduces painful political conflicts to St. Louis museum goers at oblique angles.

Through the installation, inspired by the personally annotated Bible of Bertolt Brecht, the viewer is immersed in a body of text and images from the Archive of Modern Conflict, thereby weaving painful links between wars and the religious scripture.

I agree that the mitigation as proposed by some could well be very painful and I think that it may even cause major conflicts, not in fifty years but sooner, so we better know that there is an actual risk of something definitely worse, which I see as meaning extermination not just inconvenience.

Allegations of alienation are extraordinarily painful to all involved, and it seems to me that it is the intensity of our emotional response to such allegations which sparks the fight - or - flight response spurring conflict and... [more]

Add to that all of the conflicting advice a job seeker gets — no wonder it's more painful than a root canal without Novocain.

Conflict can be especially painful in personal matters such as: children, homes, property, income, and debts.Do not try to avoid the messiness of conflict because then you avoid clarity, resolve and the self - determination at the heart of the Conflict can be especially painful in personal matters such as: children, homes, property, income, and debts.Do not try to avoid the messiness of conflict because then you avoid clarity, resolve and the self - determination at the heart of the conflict because then you avoid clarity, resolve and the self - determination at the heart of the process.

It might be the death of someone close; a life - threatening diagnosis; difficult marital issues, such as infidelity; a painful divorce or emotionally - challenging post-divorce high conflict.

There are several reasons: (a) it's less adversarial than going to court; (b) it's more private; (c) you retain control of the process — i.e., you are not bound by what the mediator thinks (indeed, most mediators see their role as helping the parties effectuate their goals, not imposing the mediator's ideas); (d) it's usually much less expensive; (e) if there are children involved, the process is less likely to embroil them in a painful conflict; and (f) mediation often gives divorcing couples a better chance of successfully negotiating issues that may come up in the future (such as child support, alimony, or custody and visitation issues).

Ways of connecting so that conflict becomes more manageable, less hurtful and less painful.

We believe that «CONFLICT IS GROWTH TRYING TO HAPPEN» (Harville Hendrix) & that by working through the painful problems in your relationship you will discover deep truths & find deeper more satisfying ways of knowing both yourself and your partner.

When couples do not know how to calm each others» painful emotions, they find themselves in a cycle of conflict.

Even in the most difficult and painful cases of marital separation, if the parents really want to spare their children the pain of being caught in loyalty conflict, they will figure out a way to develop a mutual story of the divorce.

Marital therapist Brent Atkinson in his excellent Emotional Intelligence in Couples Therapy speaks about as well as any of the intensity with which we are swept up in the reactive and painful fear that infects both people in the throes of intimate conflict.

As a clinician in the field of high conflict divorce, many parents come to me having been told that their story is the worst and most painful case of parental alienation ever seen.

Relationship stress — the terribly painful conflicts with which we struggle — activates the amygdala as sure as the saber toothed tiger coming across the path of our uber - ancient forebears.

Your Collaborative Coach can help you side step some of the more painful conflicts that are often part of a traditional divorce.

Once feelings of connection are re-established, couples are better able to manage conflict and the painful feelings that will inevitably arise from time to time in a close relationship

She is very experienced with couples therapy, marriage counseling, premarital therapy and a range of family issues — from parenting to finding better ways to communicate, deal with conflict and painful issues like betrayal and infidelity.

A therapist who chooses to work with divorcing families will need to tolerate a high level of conflicts and cope with complex painful emotions.

In working with couples and in navigating my own love life with all its heart swells and perils, I've found that conflicts between romantic partners are some of the most painful encounters we experience as adults.

«It's the same painful conflicts and arguments, over and over» «I don't like the way we talk to each other — it's too harsh and we get into these horrible cycles — we just drift further and further apart»» The demands of the children take over — really, there seems to be no time for the two of us» «I wish we treated each other with more respect & kindness — I sometimes feel like I just do nt matter»» We don't listen to each other — we really aren't connecting like we used to.

You will also learn to develop alternatives to painful struggles — new ways of approaching differences and conflict, which actually bring you closer to each other.

Over the past years, I've been using «The High Conflict Couple — a Dialectical Behavior Therapy guide to finding Peace, Intimacy and Validation» by Alan Fruzetti in my couples counseling and marriage therapy with couples struggling with high levels of painful and unproductive cConflict Couple — a Dialectical Behavior Therapy guide to finding Peace, Intimacy and Validation» by Alan Fruzetti in my couples counseling and marriage therapy with couples struggling with high levels of painful and unproductive conflictconflict.

I'm the targeted parent of a now 14 year old daughter who's been pressured to choose dad and erase mom since she was 7; I imagine the loyalty conflict she's been feeling as she transitions between the two homes must be confusing and painful.

Nicola has an interest in the internal conflicts that arise from difficult relationships and an experience of working with painful and difficult relationships in complex situations.

Divorce is painful but sometimes necessary if children are exposed to certain types of conflict or abuse.

And so «falling in love» usually involves finding someone who offers or provides that old familiar dynamic (no matter how painful or difficult or conflicted) with whom we can «work through» our family of origin issues.