«When I came to the group, I was having a lot
of painful nursing issues, but as time has gone on and my daughter and son have grown, I find that the most beneficial help I've received is on finding balance and positive discipline.»
Not exact matches
Fear, on the other hand, is a dry
nurse for the child: it has no milk; a bloodless corrector for the youth: it has no beckoning encouragement; a niggardly disease for the adult: it has no blessing; a horror for the aged: when fear has to admit that the long
painful time
of schooling did not bring Eternal Blessedness.
I felt like
nursing was really
painful in the beginning
of pregnancy, but it seems better now.
First, I have heard
of stories
of women that are not comfortable
nursing because they were sexually abused and find it too emotionally
painful to have their breasts in constant use.
Honestly,
nursing with my son was by far the most incredibly
painful experience
of my life.
We mastered
nursing within a few
painful weeks, but pumping was
painful in a different way: You just have to sit there, without the use
of your hands, and you don't even have a cute baby in your arms to fawn over.
To keep up your milk supply in both breasts — and prevent
painful engorgement in one — it's important to alternate breasts and try to give each one the same amount
of nursing time throughout the day.
Within a few
painful nights
of this, we determined we needed to quickly eliminate
nursing after first going to sleep at night and not
nurse again until morning.
Antibiotics can help treat the infection, but one
of the worst things about mastitis is that the best way to make it feel better is to keep emptying the breast, and
nursing with mastitis is extraordinarily
painful.
Think
of it as payback for the
painful early days
of breastfeeding: After you get going, you may experience a natural high, thanks to the helpful
nursing hormones oxytocin and prolactin.
While sore breasts in the first few weeks
of breastfeeding are a common complaint, cracked and / or bleeding nipples can make
nursing even more
painful and difficult.
Unfortunately the amount
of written word on
nursing and promoted by all, overwhelms a first time mom like us and very little is written on how difficult can it be emotionally and
painful physically if baby doesn't latch and pumping is a way to deal with it.
My Canadian OB - GYN was the only one in town who would let me labor without an IV, and while she arrived to catch the baby leaving me to rely heavily on my two doulas - in - training and a few clueless
nurses, my daughter was born after 15 hours
of extremely
painful back labor.
And then when we got home his latches were very, very
painful and we came to find out that he was tongue tied so we got his tongue clipped and his latch was much better but he was in a lot
of pain from the tongue clip so he actually stopped
nursing altogether.
So that was a great visit it felt a little awkward at first because that lactation consultation its designed for little babies, its designed for the new kids and here he was 10 months old and crawling but we still needed help and if I hadn't gone in it probably would've been the end
of our
nursing, I had to use ointments I had a lot like, it was really
painful and uncomfortable.
ROCHELLE MCLEAN: Usually with thrush a mom has had weeks or months
of pain free
nursing and it's felt really comfortable and then suddenly it becomes
painful.
Due to the frequent feedings and the commonality
of improper latching,
of those issues that many new moms experience is sore or cracked nipples that can make
nursing or pumping exceptionally
painful.
Before you get the hang
of it,
nursing can be
painful when breasts become engorged or nipples get irritated.
A rash or any other type
of skin irritation on your breast, areola, or nipple can make it
painful to
nurse to your child.
Swollen blood vessels and extra swelling in the breast tissue itself, combined with an abundance
of milk, may make your breasts temporarily
painful and engorged, but
nursing frequently in the first few days will help relieve any discomfort.
Instead, I (mostly) heard horror stories
of traumatic births, shared in
painful detail, all meant to try to persuade me into having a home birth instead
of a delivering in a hospital with doctors,
nurses, and access to pain medication.
I had three kids all
nursed until over 2 years
of age, but the first month is very
painful.
The sore nipples and the
painful engorged breasts, not to mention the aftermath — for those
of you who have breastfed you know what I'm talking about here — the post
nursing «droop.»
Other women find that they do not produce enough milk or that the process
of nursing is
painful for them.
There are literally hundreds
of things that can contribute to
painful or ineffective
nursing.
The first couple
of weeks were
painful, and I had to pump a little milk when my milk would first come in so that the newborn could latch on, but other than that, we had no problems other than the fact that some
of my family were not supportive
of me
nursing for over 6 months and my husband was jealous, but I am so glad that I stuck with it!
Learn whether it's safe to
nurse your baby when you have the
painful symptoms
of mastitis or whether it's best not to breastfeed.
The hospital may leave out the parts about
painful feedings, risk
of infections or leaking straight through the
nursing bra.
Pumping instead
of nursing for a few days may be uncomfortable, but it won't be
painful and it will buy you time to recover.
Perhaps the early days
of nursing have been
painful and frustrating, or we are exhausted because our baby is waking up every hour during the night.
Common problems associated with breastfeeding include the inability
of the baby to latch on,
painful nursing (i.e., sore, cracked nipples), poor milk production and a lack
of adequate weight gain by the baby because they are not getting enough food.
Within minutes
of her arrival, our latch was corrected, my baby was happily
nursing, and I realized that breastfeeding should never be incredibly
painful like that.
If your baby only has your nipple in his mouth,
nursing will be
painful; if he has a wide open mouth that takes in some or all
of the areola (depending on the size
of your areola) deep into his mouth,
nursing will not be
painful.
Nursing my full - term newborn twins was not
painful, and has been the happiest time
of day (or night).
If
nursing is too
painful, even with careful attention to latch and positioning, consider the use
of a nipple shield to protect nipples, until damage is resolved (see Using a Nipple Shield hand - out).
«The first week it was
painful when my daughter ate, and when she was done, my nipples looked like the top
of a tube
of lipstick — kind
of triangular,» says Kimberley Collins
of Ponte Vedra Beach, FL, who's still
nursing her 6 - month - old daughter.
I also hated those early
painful days
of nursing because yeah, who could possibly enjoy something that feels like you're sticking a delicate part
of your body into the gaping maws
of a pencil sharpener?
I may have mentioned this before but I was in a rail accident about ten years ago in India and a doctor ordered several
nurses to hold me down and insert a Foley catheter that I didn't want or need (in my opinion) I had a broken femur, collarbone and one
of those claw like hair clips imbedded in my scalp but being cathed like that is the most
painful memory to recall.
Nursing is hard and
painful at first, but so is having a baby, it's just another part
of being a mother.
Many
of us breastfeeding moms struggle with
painful latching, constant
nursing, cracked nipples, fussy feeders, engorged breast and / or plugged ducts just to list a few.
I decided to start drinking this tea to help my boobs adjust to the less frequent
nursing sessions, as they don't have a large storage capacity and have always become hard and
painful with only 2 - 3 ounces per breast... so I was getting uncomfortable before our nighttime
nursing sessions and I longed to be rid
of pumping and just be that mom that can let her kid
nurse whenever and not be in pain.
While our bodies are designed to
nurse and nourish our babies, the first weeks
of doing so can be exhausting, frustrating and downright
painful.
I remembered how
painful the first month
of nursing was with my son but then I realized exactly why it was so worth working through it.
For some, it will difficult and
painful, and some will experience breast refusal, where, for some reason, the baby just will not
nurse and will refuse to suck at the breast even if that's technically the only source
of food it has.
This can be
painful to mom and result in improper
nursing and incomplete emptying
of the breast.
Your baby's strike could be caused by any number
of factors, including mastitis (which can change the way your milk tastes), teething, an ear infection that makes swallowing
painful, or a cold that makes it harder to breathe (and therefore harder to
nurse).
Although having to go through IVF and gestational diabetes and 2 c - sections and Joey's NICU / nursery stays and both kids self weaning were all huge emotional and physical traumas for me (and my husband), now that they're in the past and I'm a mommy to two amazing toddlers, I can see that it all worked out how it was supposed to.And my advice to all new mothers who hope / plan to
nurse take a breastfeeding class when pregnant, have a breastpump in the house before the baby is born, buy
nursing bras that have front panels that you can open easily (and bring some to the hospital with you when you go to give birth), don't be afraid to pump and let someone else give the baby a bottle
of your milk when you need to sleep, hold off on introducing baby food until much closer to 1 year old than 6 ohtnms, and be prepared for it to be hard and possibly
painful at first (think cracked, bleeding nipples and breasts that are so full
of milk you think they will explode so also have lanolin and / or nipple cream in the house, and
nurse or pump well before you let yourself become engorged and in pain).
The location
of the plug may shift.A plugged duct will typically feel more
painful before a feeding and less tender afterward, and the plugged area will usually feel less lumpy or smaller after
nursing.
The combination
of nipple sensitivity in early pregnancy and
nursing a hungry baby can be
painful.
Would have saved us both from 12 months
of sleep deprivation,
painful nursing and colic!!