Not exact matches
This a staggeringly unhealthy narrative to promote to our children about the way sexuality works, and plays directly into the hands
of a rape culture such as the one in which we live: If you are a woman and ever get catcalled,
abused, molested, raped or any number
of other
sexual advances, you are probably at least partially to
blame.
Feminism has been
blamed for the breakdown
of the nuclear family, day care, physical and
sexual abuse, hurricanes, the downfall
of «real manhood,» the decline
of the Christian Church in western society, and spectacularly bad television.
They speak
of church cultures that treated women's bodies as inherently problematic and seductive, that assigned a woman's worth to her
sexual purity or procreative prowess, that questioned women's ability to think rationally or make decisions without the leadership
of men, that
blamed victims
of sexual abuse for inviting the
abuse or tempting the abuser, that shamed women who did not «joyfully submit» to their husband and find contentment in their roles as helpers and homemakers, and that effectively silenced victims
of abuse by telling women and children that reporting the crime would reflect poorly on the church and thus damage the reputation
of Christ.
What The New York Times calls the «
blame Woodstock» explanation for the rise
of clerical sex
abuse cases in the Seventies, despite the paper's evident scepticism, can not be entirely discounted, since as the researchers
of the John Jay College (hereafter JJC) pointed out in their latest report, «the
sexual abuse of minors is a pervasive problem in society and in organisations that involve close relationships between youth and adults... No exact measure exists for the number
of youths who have contact with priests in the Catholic Church in a year... [but] despite the media focus on child
sexual abuse by Catholic priests, it is clear that these
abuse acts are a small percentage
of all child
sexual abuse incidents in the United States.»
Rather they have been happy to suggest, - more often by subtle implication and spin than with straightforward candour - that (i) the priesthood is fairly riddled with abusers, (ii) there is an international culture
of cover - up in the Church which (iii) goes right to the top
of the Church, and (iv) that Catholic institutions such as celibacy and hierarchy are to
blame — even that Catholic teaching
of children about its
sexual morality is a form
of intellectual
abuse of large numbers
of children.
A day after Trump and his son, Eric, were accused
of victim -
blaming in their comments on
sexual harassment, the GOP nominee reiterated his advice that women who are
abused at work should take it upon themselves to either leave their jobs or stick it out.
The letter
blamed his addiction on childhood
sexual abuse and the fact that he has «been so frightened
of the world and
of women that I mostly used pornography... as an outlet.»
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Invited commentary: Public perception
of child
sexual abuse — who is to
blame?
Abusers often employ a variety
of tactics in their quest to control their targets, including physical
abuse (e.g., pushing, hitting, choking),
sexual abuse (e.g., forced
sexual activities), emotional
abuse (e.g., name - calling, insults, public or private humiliation), economic
abuse (e.g., controlling finances, preventing the partner from having a job), coercion and threats (e.g., threatening to harm or leave the partner), intimidation (e.g., destroying the partner's property, harming the partner's pet), social isolation (e.g., monitoring or limiting the partner's social contacts and outside activities), and denial (e.g., denying or minimizing the
abuse,
blaming the partner for the
abuse)(see Hines, Brown, & Dunning, 2007; National Domestic Violence Hotline, 2015; Pence & Paymar, 1993; U.S. Department
of Justice, 2008, 2014).
[jounal] Coffey, P / 1996 / Mediators
of the long - term impact
of child
sexual abuse: Perceived stigma, betrayal, powerlessmess, and self - blame / Child Abuse & Neglect 20 (5): 447
abuse: Perceived stigma, betrayal, powerlessmess, and self -
blame / Child
Abuse & Neglect 20 (5): 447
Abuse & Neglect 20 (5): 447 ~ 455