RESULTS: Frequent use of CP (ie, mother's use
of spanking more than twice in the previous month) when the child was 3 years of age was associated with increased risk for higher levels of child aggression when the child was 5 years of age (adjusted odds ratio: 1.49 [95 % confidence interval: 1.2 — 1.8]; P <.0001), even with controlling for the child's level of aggression at age 3 and the aforementioned potential confounding factors and key demographic features.
That means that among the mothers who spanked, half
of them spanked more than 18 times per week.
Not exact matches
In Gatsby, the Rumsey estate appears in slightly modified form, as Gatsby's own house: «a colossal affair by any standard — it was a factual imitation
of some Hôtel de Ville in Normandy, with a tower on one side,
spanking new under a thin beard
of raw ivy, and a marble swimming pool and
more than forty acres
of lawn and garden.»
Fewer rescuers than non-rescuers reported being slapped,
spanked, kicked, and beaten or having their hair pulled by parents; 3) Many
more non-rescuers than rescuers perceived punishment as gratuitous — a cathartic release
of aggressiveness by parents; and 4) Rescuers most frequently used the word explained to describe parental approaches to correction and discipline.
The ties between Christianity and corporal punishment are so strong that a large number
of conservative Christians parents simple deny studies that suggest
spanking does
more harm than good.
They also are inclined to
spank their children a bit
more, though liberal Protestant men do their fair share
of that as well, especially if they are regular church attenders.
I hope he rests most
of the squad so it will be even
more humiliating for the Spuds when they get
spanked by teenagers.
The old master does three
more rounds with less capable students than the frat kid (chasing a hugely rotund guy who's wearing glasses around the ring,
spanking him on the seat
of his workout pants instead
of punching his face or his jiggling body; cartoonishly winding up and lampoonishly telegraphing all
of his punches while letting a 140 - pound pointed - nose novice push him around all - four square), then he steps awkwardly from the ring and immediately begins to walk his great - granddaddy walk.
After we gave Chelski a good
spanking last season in probably Conte's fifth or sixth game in charge he immediately re organised them and went through till the new year unbeaten.He had them very solid at the back and scoring goals for fun.And all this with a squad
of players he inherited and their top striker Costa wanting Away.They ended up romping to the Premiere League Title scoring loads
more goals and conceding far less than Wengers Arsenal.We by the way are treading water at best this season and would not bet on us finishing above Chelski even allowing for the season they are having.
Couldn't be
more against Stan and Co though and AFC is for
more important than one small
spanking at the hands
of BFC.
I have heard some ridiculous excuses when we lose and they keep getting
more ridiculous every season, one guy said that we went up to liverpool to play for a point so its 1 point loss not 3 haaaaaaaaaaaah!!!! what rubbish, especially when we were telling all who would listen that we
spanked the pool at our place so we should just nick this one, all
of a sudden its a point, ridiculous!!!! Wenger also came out and said that the result was an accident, i guess the one up at city was as well.
Spurs could be missing a few key players, none
more influential than Rafael Van der Vaart, but Bolton have struggled to even compete away from home at times and another lacklustre away performance could see them on the receiving end
of another
spanking.
I think that children who are
spanked are
more likely to grow up into adults that
spank because
of the argument, «I got
spanked and I turned out OK.»
Of the more than 1,300 moms we surveyed, 81 percent were spanked as kids, but only 49 percent of them choose to swat their own kid
Of the
more than 1,300 moms we surveyed, 81 percent were
spanked as kids, but only 49 percent
of them choose to swat their own kid
of them choose to swat their own kids.
A 50 - year meta - analysis from the University
of Michigan and the University
of Austin Texas found that kids who were
spanked were
more likely to exhibit antisocial behaviour, aggression, mental health problems, and cognitive difficulties.
The American Academy
of Pediatrics requests parents not to
spank or use any type
of physical discipline as there are other,
more effective, discipline techniques.
And for every proponent
of spanking out there, there are even
more who feel children should be punished to learn respect and listen better.
And I think the needs
of brand -
spanking - newborns are quite different from those
of even slightly older infants, and I should have differentiated that
more clearly.
This book differs from Two Thousand Kisses a Day, Whispers Through Time, and The Gentle Parent: Positive, Practical, Effective Discipline in that it takes a Christian approach to parenting as L.R. takes on big names in the Christian child - training sect such as Dr. James Dobson, Tedd Tripp, Gary Ezzo, and Michael Pearl, breaking down their doctrine and reexamining such issues as
spanking, instant obedience, submission, free will, and
more in light
of the original Hebrew and Greek texts
of the scriptures.
Back cover: In this examination
of mainstream Christian parenting practices and the doctrinal beliefs behind them, best - selling author, L.R.Knost, debunks common cultural and theological beliefs about
spanking, original sin, sin nature, submission, authority, obedience, breaking a child's will, and
more, along with providing grace - filled, gentle solutions to behavior issues.
More commonly, the role
of a parent back then was to keep the child in line, usually with punishments such as
spanking.
While most people (at least publicly) decry the use
of spanking as a form
of child discipline,
more people do
spank their kids than they let on.
And no parenting method seems to come under fire
more than
spanking children as a form
of discipline.
There is
more honesty coming from them and less deceitfulness; they know we want to talk through their problems with them and are much
more likely to open up about what is causing their behaviour, unlike before when they'd be completely alienated from us after we'd punished them with a
spanking as a result
of their behaviour.
I think there's a difference between
spanking and «harsh»
spankings that induce fear in a child... The idea
of spanking a child is that by doing it they won't repeat bad behavior... if a parent has gotten to a point where they find themselves
spanking more often than not for the SAME action then it's time to find something else.
Linda has addressed a variety
of hot - button parenting topics on national television, such as
spanking, manners, parenting styles, birth plans, baby names, and
more.
While
spanking to some
of us may come almost as second nature because it was the tool
of choice
of our parents, there are other equally or
more effective tools for fathers.
But when I was with my kids, I found it way easier to
spank, way easier to
spank harder, way easier to give
more than one
spanking at a time, way easier to yell, way easier to punish, way
more tempting to do other types
of physical punishments.
A new study
of more than 2,500 toddlers from low - income families found that
spanking may have detrimental effects on behavior and mental development.
Perhaps no form
of discipline is
more controversial than
spanking.
A new study find that
more than 70 percent
of North Carolina mothers
of 23 - month - old children say they have
spanked their children.
Robert Larzelere, associate professor
of human development and family science at Oklahoma State University, conducted a meta - analysis
of 26 studies on the subject, and found that, overall,
spanking seemed
more effective than 10
of 13 alternative disciplinary methods for getting a child to behave or do as asked.
One
of the hot - button issues when it comes to discipline and children is
spanking, and the
more Christian and conservative the audience, the
more hot the debate becomes!
There is too much bad advice for new mothers such as: «cry it out is a good sleep training technique», «you should breastfeed till 6 months only», «
spanking is part
of child discipline» and so many many
more.
Even in the face
of study after study detailing the detrimental effects
of physical punishment on young children,
more than ninety - percent
of American parents still admit to
spanking their toddlers and preschoolers, even if they don't believe that it is a good alternative.
Two years later, the mothers who had
spanked their children
more frequently reported higher levels
of aggression such as arguing, screaming, fighting, destroying things, cruelty or bullying in their five - year - olds.
Many otherwise loving parents, including my own, have
spanked their children, and plenty
of spanked children, including me, have come out the other side
more or less intact.
Though you may be tempted to impress upon your child the seriousness
of her actions, harsh punishment, like
spanking or biting the child back, can actually make preschoolers
more likely to strike out again.
What's
more, those few years that parents are «allowed» to
spank are also the years that our children are forming lasting mental impressions
of us.
I think you will have much
more luck persuading people not to
spank if you stick with the
more effective arguments and throw this one out
of your repetoire.
I am confident that as
more of us come around to the idea
of gentle discipline, the amount
of people
spanking will decrease dramatically.
«I am in favor
of minimizing or eliminating
spanking, but I am even
more in favor
of parents learning other effective means
of disciplining children.»
Use
of punishment, such as
spanking and humiliation, may de-sensitize your child to physical and emotional pain, making them
more vulnerable to abuse.
Of those parents who say they spank their children frequently — several times a week or more — fully 77 % do not count it as «one of the most effective methods of disciplin
Of those parents who say they
spank their children frequently — several times a week or
more — fully 77 % do not count it as «one
of the most effective methods of disciplin
of the most effective methods
of disciplin
of discipline.
Perhaps they may elect to breastfeed or bottlenurse; babywear; or cosleep safely (not necessarily in the adult bed) to get
more sleep; and at least nurture their child without
spanking or shaming; and respond with sensitivity most
of the time.
Consider this, «Since
more than 90 %
of American parents admit to
spanking their children, it's hard to accept that a decline in
spanking is responsible for the purportedly escalating rates
of youth violence and crime.
The most recent generation
of parents reads
more to the kids, shows
more affection and
spanks less.
The
more frequently young children are
spanked, the higher the odds
of increased aggressive behavior two years later.
According to an April 2016 study published in the Journal
of Family Psychology, which studied
more than 50 years on data on 160,000 children, children who were
spanked are also
more likely to exhibit «increased anti-social behavior, aggression, mental health problems and cognitive difficulties that last into adulthood.»
This finding was replicated in the second cycle
of the study (CIS 2003).40 Another large Canadian study41 found that children who were
spanked by their parents were seven times
more likely to be severely assaulted by their parents (e.g., punched or kicked) than children who were not
spanked.