And for every proponent
of spanking out there, there are even more who feel children should be punished to learn respect and listen better.
And for every proponent
of spanking out there, there are even more who feel children should be punished to learn respect and listen better.
Not exact matches
As Daniels tells it, part
of her connection with Trump had to do with the fact that she called him
out on his narcissism and self - regard, teasingly
spanking him with a copy
of Trump magazine because he wouldn't stop talking about himself.
Surely William Shakespeare did not set
out to write great literature, nor Handel to write classical music; nor did the mother
of John and Charles Wesley, when she
spanked them for mischief, say to herself, «I am training up the leaders
of Methodism.»
I believe you can love little Johnny so much you don't want to
spank him then on the other hand you want to
spank the devil
out of him with a two by four.
If Wenger doesn't bring Zidane and Pele back from retirement in the next 4 hours MINIMUM and bring
out the form they were in in the peak
of their careers I think he should be given a good
spanking!
He is challenging them not only to finish the season well but to prepare next season to have a winning one that challenges for titles from start to finish, one that doesn't get
spanked 10 - 2 on aggregate as if it
out of there league.
Harzard has ruled us
out of contention, only talking
of City and Pool as rivals even when we
spank them for 3.
I have heard some ridiculous excuses when we lose and they keep getting more ridiculous every season, one guy said that we went up to liverpool to play for a point so its 1 point loss not 3 haaaaaaaaaaaah!!!! what rubbish, especially when we were telling all who would listen that we
spanked the pool at our place so we should just nick this one, all
of a sudden its a point, ridiculous!!!! Wenger also came
out and said that the result was an accident, i guess the one up at city was as well.
We've been pretty hopeless away from home for most
of the season so I'm not expecting us to dish
out any kind
of spanking.
Whether they do remains to be seen, as they haven't shown an awful lot
of late to suggest they're even capable
of dishing
out a
spanking.
The likelihood
of Sunderland dishing
out their own macken - style
spanking appears slim when you consider just how Sunderland play under Steve Bruce, which is in a solid and compact manner without over compensating at the back.
I was never going to
spank, but I'm embarrassed to admit that I've done it
out of anger... and felt like complete crap afterwards.
I think that children who are
spanked are more likely to grow up into adults that
spank because
of the argument, «I got
spanked and I turned
out OK.»
I read a lot today about the argument (in favor
of spanking) that kids today are
out of control and disrespectful and I think the vast majority
of that comes down to how they were raised in the early years.
All I know is that the only time I have ever been tempted to
spank my daughter is when I am at my wits end and feeling
out of control.
Without getting all into the
spanking debate (I'm very much against
spanking as a discipline technique), the idea that not
spanking leads to
out of control kids who will go to jail is so offensive.
There is never an excuse for hitting or
spanking out of anger — but not all
spanking is an angry,
out -
of - control response to misbehavior.
I was
spanked a few times growing up, but, it was never
out of anger or rage, I knew I had done something wrong or was disrespectful to my mom.
If my husband
spanked me for throwing water
out of the bathtub, I would see it as a lack
of respect on both parts; and
of course, one only encouraging the other.
In my opinion, substituting
spanking with time
outs etc might save your child some pain, but won't necessarily make for a whole lot
of improvement.
Half
of moms would use yelling first to scold their child; 36 percent say they'd use
spanking; and 32 percent say they'd use a time -
out.
Many moms who were
spanked as kids believe they were hit undeservedly, or
out of anger or frustration.
For moms who do
spank, however, restraint is key: The number one rule expressed by moms in our survey was «never
spank out of anger or frustration.»
Other mothers simply feel that
spanking isn't effective: «I don't plan on using
spanking — I think it teaches children to «behave»
out of fear, not because they've learned right from wrong.»
The time -
out and removing privileges are both high on the list
of corrections methods, far outweighing
spanking.
Adds another, «If you
spank your child
out of anger, you run the risk
of hurting your child.»
Instead
of spanking, put him in time -
out.
It's so important to find like - minded parents who can offer their «been there, done that» stories, emotional scaffolding, and specific suggestions for when you feel confused as to what to do about your child's behavior, or when you question whether this new thing you're trying, like positive discipline instead
of spanking, for example, is going to work
out in the long term, or how exactly to keep those family attachment bonds strong as your children grow, or how to move forward when your family encounters challenging life circumstances.
If there isn't time for a time -
out and a toy wasn't the cause
of the disobedience, then a
spanking usually fits the bill, for one example.
Whether or not you overtly oppose any type
of spanking, support it in very limited cases, or like many parents, publicly decry its use but privately have used it at least once on a defiant or
out -
of - control child, the controversy surrounding it isn't likely to end for generations to come.
Another common reason parents
spank is
out of exasperation.
If
spanking is causing you to be a worse parent, then cut it
out of your life.
Sometimes parents
spank their children
out of desperation.
April 30th is National
Spank Out Day, which was established to promote non-violent discipline
of children.
If you have read about the benefits
of skipping
spanking and time -
out in favor
of other ways to guide children but are not sure where to start, here are 12 alternatives that give parents and children a chance to address choices and situations with the intention to offer guidance while maintaining a positive, respectful and peaceful connection.
But there are many parents who
spank and are OK with the idea
of their kids being scared
of them and reacting to situations
out of fear.
It's like stepping
out of the matrix, or stepping into an alternate reality — one
of freedom from the status quo,
of freedom from anger and fear and the surge
of emotion that comes around right before you
spank your child.
The best use
of spanking, Larzelere said, is in children between the ages
of 2 and 6 when milder discipline tactics, such as time
out, fail.
When a particular attitude or behavior has gotten
out of control,
spanking is the last resport option and the task is given to my husband.
There is too much bad advice for new mothers such as: «cry it
out is a good sleep training technique», «you should breastfeed till 6 months only», «
spanking is part
of child discipline» and so many many more.
Many otherwise loving parents, including my own, have
spanked their children, and plenty
of spanked children, including me, have come
out the other side more or less intact.
Though you may be tempted to impress upon your child the seriousness
of her actions, harsh punishment, like
spanking or biting the child back, can actually make preschoolers more likely to strike
out again.
I was STILL nursing on demand, he had yet to sleep at night in his crib or
out of our bed, and I wouldn't even think
of spanking him.
Four years later,
out of ten grandkids, he is the only one that is not
spanked and is parented in this style.
I think you will have much more luck persuading people not to
spank if you stick with the more effective arguments and throw this one
out of your repetoire.
And then when I put him in time -
out in his room (instead
of spanking him, which is really what I wanted to do) he peed in his heater vent again.
In other words, I do not believe that parents should inflict traditional punishments such as
spanking, time -
outs, groundings, or loss
of privileges on their children or teenagers.
They were raised with
spanking and other punishment - based parenting methods as a means
of control and «turned
out okay» so they default to their own parents» choices without researching alternatives to
spanking or considering whether «okay» could be improved upon.
As to the I Don't Like
Spanking My Kids, But I Do It Anyway author's contention that «We are raising a generation
of children who are over-sensitive because they eventually find
out that they aren't as good at baseball or ballet as some other kid and their parents promised them that everyone is equal.