Does the notion
of staying at home with the kids appeal to you?
Not exact matches
«I really wanted to
stay at home, sewing and being
with my
kids,» says Rebekah Scott, a mother
of four who runs an 11 - year - old custom - handbag company in Valley Springs, South Dakota.
As for the situations, some
of their husbands were already
stay -
at -
home - parents and the business enabled them to remain
at home, while others brought in enough income for hubby to either work along side
of their wife, pursue their own thing, help
with the
kids or all
of the above.
Only about 6 %
of fathers who are married or living
with a partner
stay at home and take care
of kids and the house, compared
with 30 %
of mothers in a similar arrangement.
I'm in a similar boat to you, 31
with almost all
of my net worth is stocks (plus a cash reserve and a bit
of equity in the house) and ever so slightly behind the «above average» curve (had two
kids in my early 20's, wife is a
stay at home housemaker / homeschooler.
She was an academic - turned
stay -
at -
home - mom writing a dissertation, and I was a full - time teacher - mom driving 45 minutes to and from work
with 2 young
kids, one who puked regularly out
of carsickness.
«If a referee is not brave, and doesn't have what it takes to take charge
of these type
of games,
with no personality, better he
stays at home eating chips or in the stand
with the fans, his wife and his
kids.»
Given that, I can see that a huge swath
of society would feel a whole lot better if women would just get
with the program like their moms did — marry,
stay at home and manage the
kids while bringing in some income.
Staying at home with my then babies and now
kids can be a somewhat isolating experience, but thanks to blogging and other forms
of social media, I have a community — a tribe —
of which I feel fortunate to belong.
So, we will take this
with a grain
of salt because it is from Reddit and I haven't seen any police stories about this, but a
stay -
at -
home dad posted that he was minding his own business, playing
with his two
kids at a park, when the cops handcuffed him and detained him on the curb because he looked «suspicious.»
It's true that more men are
at home caring for the
kids than ever before — there are about 2 million
stay -
at -
home dads — but, and this is a big but, the largest number
of stay -
at -
home fathers, 35 percent, are
at home because
of illness or disability, according to the Pew Research Center, not by choice, versus 73 percent
of stay -
at -
home mothers, who either are choosing to be
at home (presumably
with the blessing
of their partner) or who have had to opt out for any number
of reasons (the cost
of child care perhaps).
Whether you're a young mom struggling to fit in
with your
kid - free peers, or you're one
of a growing number
of stay -
at -
home dads, or you're a working mom figuring out how to balance work and
kids, you know that no matter your circumstances, this business
of being responsible for a small (and disastrously naive) human (or humans, bless your heart) is going to test your patience, your limits, and your soul.
I had the luxury
of being a full time
stay at home mom
with my older
kids in school during the day.
It was cozy sleeping on a double when we have a King bed
at home, but usually one
of us ended up
with a
kid at some point throughout the night, and the beds were actually pretty comfortable compared to some Cuban resorts we've
stayed at.
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While some dads agree that being busy feels like «living» other dads like the idea
of staying home sometimes and doing «nothing» or just spending quality time
with the
kids at home.
Even moms who
stay at home with their
kids all day confide that it's hard to find quality time
with each
of their children.
Let's be honest, whether you work outside
of the
home with a long commute to and from work or inside the
home with all
of the challeneges that come from being a
stay at home parent, mealtime after you have
kids is rough.On any good night I have about 15 minutes to get a meal on the table.
Then you'll hear
of the
stay -
at -
home mom
with kids in high school.
Of course, there's that nagging questions most moms face
at some point:
stay at home with the
kids or pursue a career?
I am now a
stay -
at -
home Mom and one
of my favorite activities
with other moms is taking hikes
with our
kids.
I saw online yesterday that the Today Show did a segment on whether or not working moms take advantage
of moms who
stay at home with their
kids or moms who work from
home (for the purpose
of this blogpost working moms are moms AND DADS who work outside
of the
home — because dads have said some
of this stuff too.
I really have a pretty amazing tribe filled
with stay at home moms, working moms, moms
with 5 or more littles, moms
with special needs kiddos, moms taking care
of their ill parents, moms grieving miscarriages, moms
with kids with constant medical battles, and the list goes on.
To maintain the kind
of stamina required to keep up
with kids all day, it's important for
stay -
at -
home moms to care for themselves the way they care for their children: by getting plenty
of sleep, healthy food, and
at least some «down time.»
KC Wilt: Yeah, a friend
of mine, she has a support group that she found through one
of the local things and they all get together, and there are dads,»cause there are
stay at home dads, you know, and there are groups for
stay at home dads to get together so just because you're a dad it doesn't mean that you have to be by yourself taking care
of a
kid, you can go to the park
with another guy.
We asked moms on the SAHM message board what kinds
of insulting questions they've heard since deciding to
stay home with their kids; here are the top responses, along with savvy retorts from Melissa Stanton, author of The Stay - at - Home Survival Guide, and Kuae Mattox, national president of Mocha Moms, a support organization for African American stay - at - home moth
stay home with their kids; here are the top responses, along with savvy retorts from Melissa Stanton, author of The Stay - at - Home Survival Guide, and Kuae Mattox, national president of Mocha Moms, a support organization for African American stay - at - home moth
home with their
kids; here are the top responses, along
with savvy retorts from Melissa Stanton, author
of The
Stay - at - Home Survival Guide, and Kuae Mattox, national president of Mocha Moms, a support organization for African American stay - at - home moth
Stay -
at -
Home Survival Guide, and Kuae Mattox, national president of Mocha Moms, a support organization for African American stay - at - home moth
Home Survival Guide, and Kuae Mattox, national president
of Mocha Moms, a support organization for African American
stay - at - home moth
stay -
at -
home moth
home mothers.
For those who don't spend all day, every day
with their
kids, the job
of a
stay -
at -
home mother can be mysterious.
Today's
stay -
at -
home mom is shattering all
of the stereotypes associated
with life
at home with the
kids.
For me, by far the hardest was my time as a
stay -
at -
home mom
with four
kids, very complex special needs, homeschooling, supporting husband's business, working part time here and there... Here's one comments from working moms that always has frustrated me, something I heard when I was
with four
kids juggling all
of that:» I still do it all!
95 %
of women who rejoin the workforce rather than
stay with their
kids do so for financial reasons, not a fear that society wont value and appreciate them
staying at home.
Now I'm not endorsing that both get power careers and leave the child completely unattended, but I have contact
with plenty
of stay home moms as my child attends a very affluent private school and many
of those
stay at home moms don't do squat after the
kids are dropped off other than yoga.
Not only are you tired to begin
with, but the combo
of all the extra stuff needed and the high - maintenance
of young
kids anywhere can seem to be enough to simply
stay at home!
I guess it's only natural to assume the grass is greener on the other side
of motherhood: that working moms get to «have a break» from parenting unlike SAHMs, who have to deal
with their
kids all the day, or that SAHMs get to, well,
stay at home, and don't have to deal
with the rigors
of holding down a job and being a parent.
She says she only becomes obsessed when she is
with other
stay -
at -
home moms since they start talking about all
of the things they are doing for the best interest
of her
kids.
If working part - time is an option for you and you want to
stay home with the
kids too, you'll want to find... MORE a job that isn't trapping you to the point that you feel like you're missing out on the joys
of being a
stay -
at -
home mom.
I personally would
stay home with my
kids if I could because I think it is more important, but
at this time I can not because
of some major bills that need to be paid and we couldn't make it.
It seems to be more popular
with stay at home mom's to do cloth diapers since you have more «time» (I know you don't really have that much more, since taking care
of a
kid takes a lot
of effort and time).
But the reality is that there are many things that would affect that other than just individual parenting skills — like a long line
of trickle - down societal expectations; the way
kids are treated
at school; not to mention a high - quality, state - funded daycare system that most parents choose over
staying at home permanently
with their children.
Those
of us older than 30 grew up
with an idea
of how family eating was supposed to be
with lots
of fried chicken, pie, cookies and milk after school, hot dogs, a never - ending smorgasbord
of tasty treats all made
with love by
stay -
at -
home moms dedicate to putting smiles on the faces
of their
kids.
«If I had lots
of experiments, Jim would just
stay at home with the
kids.
Christina Kosofsky, a
stay -
at -
home mom
of two daughters in Redwood City, Calif., likes to sit down
with a crossword puzzle while the
kids are napping or in bed
at night.
Although I'm a
stay -
at -
home Mom
with a
stay -
at -
home kid most
of the days I don't have all the time in the world to...
Bailey Sissom is a 3rd grade teacher turned
stay -
at -
home mom and the creator
of Simply Sissom, a blog for busy moms who value feeding their
kids healthy meals and snacks, but struggle
with finding the time to make it happen.
I had quit my job as a manager / buyer and designer to
stay at home with my
kids, I was thrilled to start this new chapter
of my life but I also knew that setting goals and accomplishing tangible things contributes to my happiness.
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at -
home Mama
of two little rascals, Sarah blogs about the crunchier side
of parenting, beauty and life
at home with kids.
If you really just want to seriously date or marry a woman who wants to
stay at home with the
kids and make you dinner every night, then put that down — regardless
of whether some people may consider your desire outdated or even personally offensive.
A family who wants mom to
stay at home with the
kids is in for a real treat when they learn how to face the intimidating world
of real estate.
In those moments, the movie is kind
of insulting, not only to men who
stay at home with their
kids, but to any dad who has ever changed a diaper or cooked breakfast for their children.
Mr. Mom casts Michael Keaton as Jack Butler, a successful engineer who reluctantly agrees to
stay home with the
kids after he loses his job -
with the movie subsequently detailing the comedic consequences
of Jack's ongoing efforts
at becoming a homemaker.